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Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by cooooooks(m): 10:56am On Jun 18, 2020
It's like this OP is tired of lockdown.

He created a thread to argue even though there's nothing to argue.

izzou:


Okay
Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by Drfernandez(m): 4:40pm On Jun 18, 2020
cooooooks:
It's like this OP is tired of lockdown.

He created a thread to argue even though there's nothing to argue.


You are slow if you truly do not see something important to argue on this thread.
Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by Ybaby: 5:06pm On Jun 18, 2020
Drfernandez:
I wonder what meaningful compromise a badly behaved woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her can make for a man, especially a man who is better than her in all theses aspects.

On the male side, it is not a secret that a man will tolerate a woman who does not have money more than him and treats her well and may also tolerate her if she openly cheats on him.

So, will it be out of place to say that generally women are more selfish than men? If no, it will then be stupid and hypocritical for any woman to say that women are more considerate than men.

Those against @GuyInTheMirror wish for a good woman, what do you have to say, since all of you said that a man who insists on having a woman with good behavior is asking for too much.



Open invitation to the compromise crew:


Creamychic
saucecode
pocohantas
GuyInTheMirror
annex1
izzou
Romangalactic
Ariza
cochtrane
Ishilove
cooooooks

It is the schools and the meat seller that are inconsiderate! The always insist on school fees and money for meat sha ni.

Then you see those children that are always saying mummy I want this, I want that (very inconsiderate)

Woman too wants to look good, wear nice clothes, lashes, nails skin, shoes, bags, gym membership, spa treatment, Brazilian hair etc (very inconsiderate)

My advise is to find women who use thread to ko iru or shuku (those hairstyles are beautiful, economical and hopeful within your budget- if not cut the hair with razor blade NGN50)

What you should not do is hope to coerce the Brazilian hair loving girl who likes to go to the spa twice a month for body scrub and massage to accept to have your children, feed you, shelter you and respect you. It will not happen.... why? Becaise other men also want her and they have means to provide for her, shelter her and thier kids.

My advise is to woske Sikira alagbo and take it from there.

Best of luck.

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Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by Drfernandez(m): 5:21pm On Jun 18, 2020
Ybaby:


It is the schools and the meat seller that are inconsiderate! The always insist on school fees and money for meat sha ni.

Then you see those children that are always saying mummy I want this, I want that (very inconsiderate)

Woman too wants to look good, wear nice clothes, lashes, nails skin, shoes, bags, gym membership, spa treatment, Brazilian hair etc (very inconsiderate)

My advise is to find women who use thread to ko iru or shuku (those hairstyles are beautiful, economical and hopeful within your budget- if not cut the hair with razor blade NGN50)

What you should not do is hope to coerce the Brazilian hair loving girl who likes to go to the spa twice a month for body scrub and massage to accept to have your children, feed you, shelter you and respect you. It will not happen.... why? Becaise other men also want her and they have means to provide for her, shelter her and thier kids.

My advise is to woske Sikira alagbo and take it from there.

Best of luck.



What meaningful compromise can a badly behaved woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her make for a man who is better than her in all theses aspects?
Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by Ybaby: 6:13pm On Jun 18, 2020
Drfernandez:



What meaningful compromise can a badly behaved woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her make for a man who is better than her in all theses aspects?


Why does the man want a badly behaved rich wife?

Why does a man cheat on his wife and expect her to be well behaved?

Women have moved past all this.... if he is not paying all the Bills ofcourse she will behave badly to him, she will gossip about him to everybody, even some women will tear his shirt in public when school fees is due and kids have been sent home during exam, she will not cook and maltreated him then cheat on him join.

Pay the Bill's and donot cheat on your wife.

Next!

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Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by Drfernandez(m): 7:01pm On Jun 18, 2020
Ybaby:


Why does the man want a badly behaved rich wife?

Why does a man cheat on his wife and expect her to be well behaved?

Women have moved past all this.... if he is not paying all the Bills ofcourse she will behave badly to him, she will gossip about him to everybody, even some women will tear his shirt in public when school fees is due and kids have been sent home during exam, she will not cook and maltreated him then cheat on him join.

Pay the Bill's and donot cheat on your wife.

Next!

At least you're frank enough to admit that the female gender is the selfish gender between the two genders, that is all I needed to hear. So your fellow women who are in the habit of accusing men of selfishness should be ashamed of themselves.

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Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by Ybaby: 8:25pm On Jun 18, 2020
Drfernandez:


At least you're frank enough to admit that the female gender is the selfish gender between the two genders, that is all I needed to hear. So your fellow women who are in the habit of accusing men of selfishness should be ashamed of themselves.




Women are receivers - we are the gatekeepers and must be sellfish - our needs must be met first then we can meet others needs.

Women are selfish! I am selfish! - I put myself first. Was your mum selfish too?
Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by Drfernandez(m): 9:06pm On Jun 18, 2020
Ybaby:


Women are receivers - we are the gatekeepers and must be sellfish - our needs must be met first then we can meet others needs.

Women are selfish! I am selfish! - I put myself first. Was your mum selfish too?

My mother is obviously not a selfish woman because I haven't seen her acts like a selfish person or makes claim that men are selfish. She is a very peaceful woman who believes in live and let live. Only her type has a right to claim and expect equality with men because her fulfilment isn't dependent on her ability to have her way through manipulation, unlike selfish women who always cry murder once they fail to have their way through manipulation. Shame on every woman who finds fulfilment in manipulation or abuse men when resisted.

If a woman must be a receiver, she shouldn't be found wanting in at least good behaviour.

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Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by cooooooks(m): 9:44pm On Jun 18, 2020
Now you feel like you made sense shebi.


Ybaby:


It is the schools and the meat seller that are inconsiderate! The always insist on school fees and money for meat sha ni.

Then you see those children that are always saying mummy I want this, I want that (very inconsiderate)

Woman too wants to look good, wear nice clothes, lashes, nails skin, shoes, bags, gym membership, spa treatment, Brazilian hair etc (very inconsiderate)

My advise is to find women who use thread to ko iru or shuku (those hairstyles are beautiful, economical and hopeful within your budget- if not cut the hair with razor blade NGN50)

What you should not do is hope to coerce the Brazilian hair loving girl who likes to go to the spa twice a month for body scrub and massage to accept to have your children, feed you, shelter you and respect you. It will not happen.... why? Becaise other men also want her and they have means to provide for her, shelter her and thier kids.

My advise is to woske Sikira alagbo and take it from there.

Best of luck.

Re: Compromise In Marriage; With Money And Fidelity As The Rock Of Marriage by cooooooks(m): 9:44pm On Jun 18, 2020
You are arguing for argument sake.

Drfernandez:


You are slow if you truly do not see something important to argue on this thread.

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