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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jun 21, 2020
Descortes:
homosexuality is not a choice 90% of the time.

I know homosexuals who were willing to do anything to change their sexual orientation, got depressed and even going for deliverance but they couldn't . Your point is invalid

Homosexuality is deeper than just sexual feelings.
what else other than that sexual feelings?
Gender identity problèmes ?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex, and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.

I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).

But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To see myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.

I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.

Just like the op is wondering, If i can see a woman and admire her face or body even a little and look at her longer, then why can i have an active romantique and sexual relationship with her?
Some people are more inclined To act on homosexuality but it is definitely a choice even To these people.

I am not religious or whatever but i believe what made me gay was liking the idea of that lifestyle and gay pornography.

One more thing: people who love the homosexual lifestyle, see nothing wrong in it are susceptible To act on it.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE SO IS HETEROSEXUALITY
lmao
@ bolder you are definitely ignorant to say HETEROSEXUALITY is a choice. It shows you don't even know what you are talking about.
You know nothing. I'm done talking with you

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Alexaonfleek: 12:58pm On Jun 21, 2020
Jamariwolff:
No abasing comments Please.

I am a 22 year old and i identify as exclusively heterosexual and live actively heterosexual sex life but recently i have begun to find other women attractive and notice them. I dont get hot or anything, i just notice the attractive face, the body, i look a little bit longer than usual, have dilated pupils. Even on my instagram, i notice the women more BUT I DONT GET HOT. I have never considered myself homosexual except some girl crushes in secondary school.

Could this mean i could be not straight since i find these women attractive and want to glance longer?
You are still straight joor.
Na normal thing.
I feel like you find them attractive because you also want to be attractive like them...from personal experience.
Next time you find yourself glancing through IG pics of women,try not to stay too long at it.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jun 21, 2020
Descortes:
lmao
@ bolder you are definitely ignorant to say HETEROSEXUALITY is a choice. It shows you don't even know what you are talking about.
You know nothing. I'm done talking with you
grin ok bye

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jun 21, 2020
AFvckingAlpha:
I guess your Bi sexual. Its normal dear. Just accept your sexuality and stay safe. Nigeria is a shitty country.
you're still straight you're just starting to see women as more beautiful than usual it's natural, for white women and other races never seen it in Nigeria tho
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jun 21, 2020
SultanOfAbia:
I onced had a 3some with a girl like you, she wanted to try lesbian and I arranged a girl that I knew was bisexual.

Mehnnn. She ended up falling in love with the other girl. That's how she fully converted to lesbianism.
I don't blame her, women are naturally soft and sweet in the middle.
Sultan of fuckēry and lies grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by doitforyou(f): 6:05pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.

I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).

But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To imagine myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.

I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE SO IS HETEROSEXUALITY
You literally in your own words just debunked what you typed in caps.

An average Herero male does not jerk off to the thoughts of a man, because they aren’t sexually attracted to men? Why do you need to work this hard for something you chose? Why can’t it just go away since you now ’choose’ to be heterosexual?

The only choice in your post, is your choice to suppress what your natural instincts are, which is men. I hope for your sake and that of the woman you marry, that you get ‘cured’ straight.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jun 21, 2020
doitforyou:

You literally in your own words just debunked what you typed in caps.

An average Herero male does not jerk off to the thoughts of a man, because they aren’t sexually attracted to men? Why do you need to work this hard for something you chose? Why can’t it just go away since you now ’choose’ to be heterosexual?

The only choice in your post, is your choice to suppress what your natural instincts are, which is men. I hope for your sake and that of the woman you marry, that you get ‘cured’ straight.
because i have been feeding it for a longtime and it becomes an addiction

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:25pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

You need brain reset.

Too much of Hollywood and internet is confusing your brain.
HOMOSEXUALITY IS A PATHOLOGICAL/MEDICAL DISORDER OF THE BRAIN.
Gays, lesbians and bisexuals are sick people that need medical attention. But stubborn head won't allow them to accept that they're sick.

Who is this one?? Y'all have moved from Homosexuality being demonic to a mental illness?? grin

C'mon homophobes! Y'all can do better

It takes a mad man to know one

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:27pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Yes.
Homosexuals will call it a shitty country but we like it like that tongue
We hate HOMOSEXUALITY here because IT IS MORALLY WRONG!

I am homophobic and I find homosexuals very repulsive.

No one asked! Being Homophobic doesn't erase gays from the world, so your opinion doesn't count
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:28pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Your PREMATURE sexual organs are sick and needs urgent attention.

HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A LESBIAN, YET YOU USE DILD0?

OR A GAY AND YOU INSERT YOUR PENIS IN A SHITTY HOLE...

ARE YOU NOT SICK IN THE HEAD?

How you know all these things amazes me for a supposed straight male you said you are grin
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:30pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
homosexuality is a choice, i just realised. And i am leaving this lifestyle myself.

The screenshot photos are from a quora post that opened my eyes

Internalized homophobia is cute to see grin

You're in Stage 4 now

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:32pm On Jun 21, 2020
[s]
Durentt:
I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex, and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.

I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).

But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To imagine myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.

I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.

Just like the op is wondering, If i can see a woman and admire her face or body even a little and look at her longer, then why can i have an active romantique and sexual relationship with her?
Some people are more inclined To act on homosexuality but it is definitely a choice even To these people.

I am not religious or whatever but i believe what made me gay was liking the idea of that lifestyle and gay pornography.

One more thing: people who love the homosexual lifestyle, see nothing wrong in it are susceptible To act on it.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE SO IS HETEROSEXUALITY
[/s]

Keep deceiving yourself. Next month you'll create another thread undecided

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:51pm On Jun 21, 2020
To the op! @Jamariwolff Sexuality is never a topic of discussion to Nairaland full of hypocritic and ignorant pea sized brains!

They all fantasize about Lesbianism and consume such porns on a normal but will be quick to condemn a gay person. Their Bible tells them that lesbianism is partially acceptable in Nigeria because women are only seen as sex objects to them!

People who can't tell between sex and sexuality in the 21st century is not worth sharing your struggles to! They can never give a reasonable opinion to something they never understood in the first place!

Being bisexual goes farther than wanting to copulate with both genders. Having sex or fantasizing for a fellow lady doesn't necessarily make you one. Are you emotionally and romantically involved with ladies the same way you do with men?( if you've had any)

If No, then there's something you're doing that's fueling these recent desires.

If Yes, then you're probably Bisexual and a greater percentage attracted to men than women(cos you're just noticing this)

If you're feeling confused and afraid then you're probably Bisexual, and the fear stems from the way the homophobic and religious Nigerian climate treats gay people making you scared of this Discovery!

You get?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jun 21, 2020
HuntSon:


No one asked! Being Homophobic doesn't erase gays from the world, so your opinion doesn't count
Shut up!
Does your opinion count?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:55pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
because i have been feeding it for a longtime and it becomes an addiction

How can you feed something you don't have? Make it make sense!

Keep on pleasing these heteros let em control your mind to do what they want you to be. I've gotten to this stage before so I'm not bothered about your lame defenses.

I just hope when you come to realization with yourself, you wouldn't have done something you can't forgive yourself for.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 7:57pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Shut up!
Does your opinion count?

This was a gay thread! I'm gay so i have every right under the rainbow to be here!

Now remind me why you inserted your
hetero ass here again? cheesy

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 8:04pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

But you'll run to those countries in an instant if given the chance grin grin

You won't remember they're serving Satan by being LGBT accommodating abi? cry

Now imagine how dumb you sound grin
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 8:07pm On Jun 21, 2020
HitSong:


Lol!

Leave that guy alone.
He is a fûcking gay.

Gay and proud! Anything else?? wink
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Austeeenxx: 8:10pm On Jun 21, 2020
Meh.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jun 21, 2020
HuntSon:


But you'll run to those countries in an instant if given the chance grin grin

You won't remember they're serving Satan by being LGBT accommodating abi? cry

Now imagine how dumb you sound grin
Don't be a fool.
Who's talking about Satan here?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jun 21, 2020
HuntSon:


This was a gay thread! I'm gay so i have every right under the rainbow to be here!

Now remind me why you inserted your
hetero ass here again? cheesy
Every gay is a MENTALLY sick bastard that need electric shock treatment to their PREMATURE brains.

We hate gays in this country.
We mob gays
We lynch gays

14 years imprisonment awaits every gay bastard grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by ehmmy11(m): 8:51pm On Jun 21, 2020
HuntSon:
[s] To the op! @------------ Sexuality is never a topic of discussion to Nairaland full of hypocritic and ignorant pea sized brains!

They all fantasize about Lesbianism and consume such porns on a normal but will be quick to condemn a gay person. Their Bible tells them that lesbianism is partially acceptable in Nigeria because women are only seen as sex objects to them!

People who can't tell between sex and sexuality in the 21st century is not worth sharing your struggles to! They can never give a reasonable opinion to something they never understood in the first place!

Being bisexual goes farther than wanting to copulate with both genders. Having sex or fantasizing for a fellow lady doesn't necessarily make you one. Are you emotionally and romantically involved with ladies the same way you do with men?( if you've had any)

If No, then there's something you're doing that's fueling these recent desires.

If Yes, then you're probably Bisexual and a greater percentage attracted to men than women(cos you're just noticing this)

If you're feeling confused and afraid then you're probably Bisexual, and the fear stems from the way the homophobic and religious Nigerian climate treats gay people making you scared of this Discovery!

You get? [/s]

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by ImaIma1(f): 9:01pm On Jun 21, 2020
Try to occupy yourself with more productive activities that will build your future instead of joblessly surfing the internet and social media looking for what is not lost. Because soon now, you will realize you actually want to be a man and not a woman.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by RichieMichie: 11:49pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex, and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.

I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).

But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To imagine myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.

I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.

Just like the op is wondering, If i can see a woman and admire her face or body even a little and look at her longer, then why can i have an active romantique and sexual relationship with her?
Some people are more inclined To act on homosexuality but it is definitely a choice even To these people.

I am not religious or whatever but i believe what made me gay was liking the idea of that lifestyle and gay pornography.

One more thing: people who love the homosexual lifestyle, see nothing wrong in it are susceptible To act on it.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE SO IS HETEROSEXUALITY

Now I get the thing with you, you are demented. I remember you previously saying you've never done anything with same sex, now you've had 1?


Your homosexual urge are going away? Good, it means my prayers for you were heard . I am waiting to see your next thread of how you are totally free from homosexuality and now a lover of pussy. I will surely join hands with you and give praises to Satan, because certainly that's not God's work.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by RichieMichie: 12:07am On Jun 22, 2020
Durentt:
what else other than that sexual feelings?
Gender identity problèmes ?
You're very stupid this boy. Please stop associating yourself with homosexuals. In this day and age, you and some idiots in this thread still thinks everything about homosexuality is sexual?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by RichieMichie: 12:13am On Jun 22, 2020
HuntSon:


Who is this one?? Y'all have moved from Homosexuality being demonic to a mental illness?? grin

C'mon homophobes! Y'all can do better

It takes a mad man to know one
He's probably getting his facts from medieval articles grin



And oh, this thread is full of (potential) kito scums

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by RichieMichie: 12:26am On Jun 22, 2020
HuntSon:


Internalized homophobia is cute to see grin

You're in Stage 4 now
Stage 4?like the stage 4 of cancer where there's no more hope of recovery? grin

Durentt's kinds of IH is the worst. Very toxic. Never you get personal with them, they'll throw you under the bus to feel good among heterosexuals without batting an eye. It won't surprise me to hear he's now into the lucrative business of kito. Most of these kito scums are just like Durentt.

Durentt? Tueh

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:27am On Jun 22, 2020
RichieMichie:

You're very stupid this boy. Please stop associating yourself with homosexuals. In this day and age, you and some idiots in this thread still thinks everything about homosexuality is sexual?
Please enlighten me
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by RichieMichie: 12:37am On Jun 22, 2020
Durentt:
Please enlighten me
God forbid I waste my time in the name of enlightening you. I have been around Nairaland for years and have seen what you did with all the enlightenment given to you. At the end you will always take those advice that degrades LGBT+ folks

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:40am On Jun 22, 2020
RichieMichie:

God forbid I waste my time in the name of enlightening you. I have been around Nairaland for years and have seen what you did with all the enlightenment given to you. At the end you will always take those advice that degrades LGBT+ folks
clap for yourself

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HuntSon(m): 3:07am On Jun 22, 2020
RichieMichie:

He's probably getting his facts from medieval articles grin



And oh, this thread is full of (potential) kito scums

Gbam! U sabi! This thread reeks of them

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