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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 2:29pm On Jun 22, 2020
anslem04:



Do i need to educate ur old arss about how sperm banks operate on "anonymity" .. buh most lesbian don't go thru these banks rather dey prefer one nite stands that way the man goes his way without knowing what happened thereafter ... if she is luck to be pregnant her partner assumes father role ... the child never get to know or see his/her real father.. now that is the fraud

Are you this slow or you are faking it? ?

No, this has to be a joke. I am concerned about you now...

If sperm banks operate on ANONYMITY, how does it change the fact that a woman can’t get pregnant solely by cheating with a fellow woman.

Which kind olodo be this abeg? grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by 1Sharon(f): 2:48pm On Jun 22, 2020
Durentt:
I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex, and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.

I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).

But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To imagine myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.

I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.

Just like the op is wondering, If i can see a woman and admire her face or body even a little and look at her longer, then why can i have an active romantique and sexual relationship with her?
Some people are more inclined To act on homosexuality but it is definitely a choice even To these people.

I am not religious or whatever but i believe what made me gay was liking the idea of that lifestyle and gay pornography.

One more thing: people who love the homosexual lifestyle, see nothing wrong in it are susceptible To act on it.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE SO IS HETEROSEXUALITY

You were never gay!
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jun 22, 2020
1Sharon:


You were never gay!
he is but he's living in denial

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by 1Sharon(f): 3:11pm On Jun 22, 2020
Descortes:
he is but he's living in denial

He's not. He said he suppressed his heterosexual urge. A gay person doesn't have a heterosexual urge.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jun 22, 2020
1Sharon:


He's not. He said he suppressed his heterosexual urge. A gay person doesn't have a heterosexual urge.
okay

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by 1Sharon(f): 3:19pm On Jun 22, 2020
Jamariwolff:
No abasing comments Please.

I am a 22 year old and i identify as exclusively heterosexual and live actively heterosexual sex life but recently i have begun to find other women attractive and notice them. I dont get hot or anything, i just notice the attractive face, the body, i look a little bit longer than usual, have dilated pupils. Even on my instagram, i notice the women more BUT I DONT GET HOT. I have never considered myself homosexual except some girl crushes in secondary school.

Could this mean i could be not straight since i find these women attractive and want to glance longer?

Good morning, why are you gay?
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by 1Sharon(f): 3:30pm On Jun 22, 2020
HuntSon:


How can you feed something you don't have? Make it make sense!

Keep on pleasing these heteros let em control your mind to do what they want you to be. I've gotten to this stage before so I'm not bothered about your lame defenses.

I just hope when you come to realization with yourself, you wouldn't have done something you can't forgive yourself for.

That's what I'm saying. He was never gay to begin with.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jun 22, 2020
1Sharon:


That's what I'm saying. He was never gay to begin with.
I agree wink

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jun 22, 2020
1Sharon:


That's what I'm saying. He was never gay to begin with.
i was gay for 6 years. Because i decided To act on only that aspect. It was my choice.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by 1Sharon(f): 3:41pm On Jun 22, 2020
Durentt:
i was gay for 6 years. Because i decided To act on only that aspect. It was my choice.

A true homosexual wouldn't consciously make that choice. You'd find yourself naturally drawn to men.

You're straight
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jun 22, 2020
1Sharon:


A true homosexual wouldn't consciously make that choice. You'd find yourself naturally drawn to men.

You're straight
if you say so
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Jamariwolff(f): 3:51pm On Jun 22, 2020
1Sharon:


Good morning, why are you gay?
i am not gay, just trying 2 clear up some stuff
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Jamariwolff(f): 3:52pm On Jun 22, 2020
Crunchyg3:

Just read Romans 1:24 - 27, that lies the answer you are looking for
i am atheist

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 4:21pm On Jun 22, 2020
pocohantas:


Lesbianism reduces the risk of paternity fraud. Suggest she test on your wife, make your second pikin no be gateman own. grin
https://www.nairaland.com/5670899/sterile-father

I'll pay good money just to watch you tribbing & getting fcked by another female cool
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 4:24pm On Jun 22, 2020
Romangalactic:

I'll pay good money just to watch you tribbing & getting fcked by another female cool

Use the money and do DNA. We already know the child is not kuku yours. Same way we always know you are the one shooting, you shoot blanks... grin grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 4:28pm On Jun 22, 2020
pocohantas:


Use the money and do DNA. We already know the child is not kuku yours. Same way we always know you are the one shooting, you shoot blanks... grin grin
I have enough to spare. Haven't you ever thought of tribbing with a girl? It might be the only way stuck up chics like yourself will ever get to experience orgasm
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 4:31pm On Jun 22, 2020
Romangalactic:

I have enough to spare. Haven't you ever thought of tribbing with a girl? It might be the only way stuck up chics like yourself will ever get to experience orgasm

Meaning money is not everything. Maybe good stroke game is? Or what exactly did you not give your wife that made her fck and get impregnated by another man? angry

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 4:32pm On Jun 22, 2020
pocohantas:


Meaning money is not everything. Maybe good stroke game is? Or what exactly did you not give your wife that made her fck and get impregnated by another man? angry
Thank God for DNA tests,all the glory belongs to God. Now tell me how can I connect you with a lesbian? I want to watch you two fck and rub cl**ts
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 4:39pm On Jun 22, 2020
Romangalactic:

Thank God for DNA tests,all the glory belongs to God. Now tell me how can I connect you with a lesbian? I want to watch you two fck and rub cl**ts

So you mean she actually fcked another man, while being married to you. However the baby turned out yours? You no divorce am. You come dey online dey call people SIMP? grin

Kai! You have to love NL.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 4:41pm On Jun 22, 2020
pocohantas:


So you mean she actually fcked another man, while being married to you. However the baby turned out yours? You no divorce am. You come dey online dey call people SIMP? grin

Kai! You have to love NL.
Talking abt the lesbian, the one I want to connect with you is rich and based in Lagos. You will like her I promise. Try watching lesbian porn to see what you're missing
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Jamariwolff(f): 4:43pm On Jun 22, 2020
SHUT UP ALL!
STOP DERAILING!!
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 4:45pm On Jun 22, 2020
Romangalactic:

Talking abt the lesbian, the one I want to connect with you is rich and based in Lagos. You will like her I promise. Try watching lesbian porn to see what you're missing

Missing is not being able to hit them eggs till another man did. Even Yakubu miss no bad reach like that. grin grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 4:47pm On Jun 22, 2020
pocohantas:


Missing is not being able to hit them eggs till another man did. Even Yakubu miss no bad reach like that. grin grin
All the glory belongs to God, and women who carry the last name Yakubu have been known to carry yansh. Won't u like to see the naked yansh of a sexy gal rubbed with scented coconut oil twerking on u?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 4:48pm On Jun 22, 2020
Jamariwolff:
SHUT UP ALL!
STOP DERAILING!!
Poco is like you,contact her. I'm serious. I can pay for the hotel. Just send me a PM
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 4:59pm On Jun 22, 2020
Romangalactic:

All the glory belongs to God, and women who carry the last name Yakubu have been known to carry yansh. Won't u like to see the naked yansh of a sexy gal rubbed with scented coconut oil twerking on u?

No, I won’t. I don’t cheat, neither do I get impregnated by another man without considering how my sterile horseband would feel. cry

Romangalactic:

Poco is like you,contact her. I'm serious. I can pay for the hotel. Just send me a PM

Maybe inadvertently you paid for the hotel wey dem dey knack your wife anyhow. grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 5:03pm On Jun 22, 2020
pocohantas:

No, I won’t. I don’t cheat, neither do I get impregnated by another man without considering how my sterile horseband would feel. cry

Maybe inadvertently you paid for the hotel wey dem dey knack your wife anyhow. grin
Having sex with someone of the same gender as you is not cheating. I have some female bisexuals as friends and their partners know. Highest is having three some, life cool

I don't know what jamariwolf looks like but I bet she's attractive enough to turn you on. Let's arrange it so I watch please
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 5:06pm On Jun 22, 2020
Romangalactic:

Having sex with someone of the same gender as you is not cheating. I have some female bisexuals as friends and their partners know. Highest is having three some, life cool

I don't know what jamariwolf looks like but I bet she's attractive enough to turn you on. Let's arrange it so I watch please

Donstan18, please take a break or better still, come out of your shell. I know your hands are tied. You can’t say all what you wanna say without being Donstan.

You always have some “female friends”...

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Romangalactic(m): 5:11pm On Jun 22, 2020
pocohantas:

Donstan18, please take a break or better still, come out of your shell. I know your hands are ties. You can’t say all what you wanna say without being Donstan.

You always have some “female friends”...
I am not him, believe me.
Seriously wanna watch you tribbing. Saw two lesbians doing it recently and I imagined one of them was you cos she had your exact skin tone and size of ass
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 5:13pm On Jun 22, 2020
Romangalactic:

I am not him, believe me.
Seriously wanna watch you tribbing. Saw two lesbians doing it in recently and I imagined one of them was you cos she had your exact skin tone and size of ass

I am not Poco too. Enjoy your NL addiction.
Did you think you could comment inactively for so long? Nahhh! grin grin

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