Palema007:
Your reaction is GOLD. You should fear what will become of you in the next ten years.

I don't live in fear.

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PUSSYHOE:
Good day everyone, I am a guy who isn't as the topic implies, resources or not good lady or not, marriage isn't in my dictionary but that doesn't mean I don't want an offspring or need female affection. I just want to live my life without having to live with a woman.

for my fellow guys with same ideology, how do we go about it without condemnation from society, government and the opposite sex whom sole aim is getting marriage, not to forget family.

how do we deal with pressures from the aforementioned?

I agree with you on some things. if you want to remain single for life it means you have to pretend a lot in the society. cause world people no like hear truth.

you have to come across as someone who isn't emotionally attached to women, someone who isn't capable of expressing love. your mom, sisters or female relatives and friends must never see you in the company of girls socially, unless it's for business. you mustn't keep a girlfriend they know or anyone you know, knows. if you come across as a player, women will hate you including your family. but if you come across as someone who can't express love and don't want to stress someone's daughter they will empathize with you.

when the pressure is much to marry and have a grandchild just promise them a grandchild or children, even without marriage they will accept it cause they know personally you don't care for such but just because you want to please them.