JONNYSPUTE:
...The issue is that some people don't understand the implications of the things they read.

They only look at it based on the surface without going further to do a thorough analysis.

Or should I say most of the people supporting her are seeing her actions from the lay man's perspective

SSpeter:

JONNYSPUTE:
...You tried to sound woke but ended up contradicting yourself by calling her action a criminal activity.

Now tell us a criminal offence that doesn't worth a jail term?

ClixMaster:
Like I said, most of you have done worst. Think of it this way; how many women will call-off a wedding when the guy gets himself into such mess?

ednut1:
which woman dey use boyfriend or even husband as next of kin lol. Fake story

chii8:
Waoo... this is huge,you know....most issues in today's marriages gave a warning sign at the beginning but the "love is blind" saga won't let people use their God given common sense.

Elvis778:

hope you know women? during marriage plans, they try to put up their attitude, but after marriage, you will start seeing their true colour,
now if this is her best attitude,
what will her worst look like?? that's the problem here...

Nuel4:
to me there is nothing to forgive apart from the fact that she hid it from me. Those banks should go and sit down. Do you know how much of my money they've stolen through failed POS transactions? Tell them to refund it they say after two weeks which will now enter months and might even get missing. The banks too should wait. Thunder fire Nigerian Bank. The babe put the guy as her next of kin, how many girls can do that? The boy should go and marry sister Magdalena

alllivesmatter:


Bro, Banks do steal actually, but it doesn't justify what the lady did if this story is true. Banks, being corporate organisations would cook up terms & jargons as to why they stole. What would the girl say? Ignorance? Ignorance doesn't overrule the law of nature nor the constitution.

If this story is true.

Then what she did is bad. It's an omen of something bad that may later hit in the future. People shouldn't feel too clingy with money...at all.

DarkJeddi:
You left the issue and started chasing shadows..

Whether banks rob you or not is not a good enough reason to appropriate money that was paid into your account and proceed to deny it when confronted..

That is a lack of integrity and as you can see,this is not a court of law but about marriage..

He can't well have an Angel as a wife but he sure cannot make do with a Devil either..

DominusPrime:


You cant have an angel for a wife or husband but you can choose the kind of demons you deal with.

Saintinoo:

Those banks are also robbing us, they hardly return the illegal charges on our account.
If you think you can have an angel as a wife, then try and watch your own life and see if you have no fault.

Righteousness89:
Integrity is a Priceless Character!
Very Important in Marriage..
Lack of it could lead to endless woes and pains!

Having said that, Marriage is a life time commitment.. pls if you are not Divinely led to a spouse, pls do not enter..

Pls Be patient for divine guidance in Marriage, it it saves you from lots of struggles and stress..

I say this from Experience..


Marriage is like a Journey, you don't know what it holds..
But if you are guided and led by the Alpha and Omega, the one who knows all, then what he gives to you will definitely be a joy..

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

kalufelix:
How much are we talking about here.... Pay excess money enter my account and be waiting for integrity...integrity bawo... Because she is a woman... She even used the mofo as her next of kin... I need to marry that babe. Hypocrites everywhere!

CsRockefeller:
Look at comments up there figuratively tying d lady to a stake and calling for her head on a spike.

So, this is d reason he wants to call off the wedding? I have no words, posterity will judge.

brightalo1010:
listen you no get sense

kalufelix:
How much are we talking about here.... Pay excess money enter my account and be waiting for integrity...integrity bawo... Because she is a woman... She even used the mofo as her next of kin... I need to marry that babe. Hypocrites everywhere!

Saintinoo:

And you think there are demons without flaut?
The way you people look at some issues, ask the OP why he stayed with a thief for 3years, something kept him there, i bet you he might end up marrying a lady worst than her if he ends the marruage plan.

brightalo1010:
Do you know that she also hide away from the guy too? Even when she was asked she lied about it. So what is your point?

ednut1:
which woman dey use boyfriend or even husband as next of kin lol. Fake story

Rexmy:
We all deserve forgiveness, remember! She did something really wrong, fine, but change is constant. The guy shouldn't be too tough on her by canceling the marriage but rather make her see reasons why she needs to be a better person. Moreover, something better must have made them want to come together as one in the first instance.

jolarify4:
let her gain something nah

izibili44:
hey I am not in support of what the lady has done. The bank will be responsible for the money. So who cares. I made a transfer from utako first bank branch to a friend using same first bank in lagos.using atm transfer. The money was not credited to the guy and was not return bank to me for months. I keep filling forms upon forms. That was why I close my first bank account back then. For someone like me that the bank Rob now. Do you think I will return such money.

Saintinoo:

I hope you are 100% pure also. Just advice the OP not to think of getting married if you call of a marriage plan because of that.

We shouldn't always concentrate on wrong doing, check what that person have been doing good too.

gloryon:
the teller called because cash was handed to a customer. In this case, account was credited. That's why reversal codes are there my brother because of over credit and what not. Take care.

Righteousness89
Are you on Twitter? If yes pls give me your handle so I can follow you pls
post=91349343:
Integrity is a Priceless Character!
Very Important in Marriage..
Lack of it could lead to endless woes and pains!

Having said that, Marriage is a life time commitment.. pls if you are not Divinely led to a spouse, pls do not enter..

Pls Be patient for divine guidance in Marriage, it it saves you from lots of struggles and stress..

I say this from Experience..


Marriage is like a Journey, you don't know what it holds..
But if you are guided and led by the Alpha and Omega, the one who knows all, then what he gives to you will definitely be a joy..

jaymichael:
Sharp guy, I admire your sharpness. You should be very proud of being a smart guy until it is your money that was paid or transferred in excess into another persons account.