RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?

RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?

Gantofi:
Your not alone my sister , if your in Lagos we can hangout sha me sef dey find babe

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Don't be desperate for a relationship



Just be yourself be happy and have fun

prizlezzlalasky:
Hello girlfriend, you just have to relax and be yourself while also working on yourself to become a better version of you for that your dream man ....trust me He ll find you soon.

On a lighter note, I know a lot of single ladies within and even above your age bracket, yours truely is 25 going to 26 , so you see? You are not alone. Please don't let anybody pressure you into going into the wrong hand, it doesn't end well.

Secondly, desperation reduces the lady in you and automatically portrays you as a LovePeddler and no man will take you serious.....pls don't tow that part.

Lastly, learn to be happy with yourself , start giving yourself a treat and develop some hobby, also you can join some outreach organisations so that you will be able to socialize.
May the wisdom of God be with you..... love and light.

malikombi:
You don't have to create a new account. I already know you.......

RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?

RaiStar95:
Lol, i'm in PH, thanks though

Gantofi:
Your not alone my sister , if your in Lagos we can hangout sha me sef dey find babe

Zeal0000007:
owh nice one, call me then let's hang out if less busy that's if u are nterested, I'm equally in ph too.

Gantofi:
Your not alone my sister , if your in Lagos we can hangout sha me sef dey find babe

squash47:
Bros, abeg tell us who she be.
I go like know her too.

RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?

RaiStar95:
Lol, i'm in PH, thanks though

Ninejaywon:
if sisisioge who is almost 40 years of age is not complaining then who are u to complain.


Just relax your mind. "He" will come.

prizlezzlalasky:
Hello girlfriend, you just have to relax and be yourself while also working on yourself to become a better version of you for that your dream man ....trust me He ll find you soon.

On a lighter note, I know a lot of single ladies within and even above your age bracket, yours truely is 25 going to 26 , so you see? You are not alone. Please don't let anybody pressure you into going into the wrong hand, it doesn't end well.

Secondly, desperation reduces the lady in you and automatically portrays you as a LovePeddler and no man will take you serious.....pls don't tow that part.

Lastly, learn to be happy with yourself , start giving yourself a treat and develop some hobby, also you can join some outreach organisations so that you will be able to socialize.
May the wisdom of God be with you..... love and light.

Premiumwriter:
When we tell them that they are setting unreasonable standards, they will not hear.

Its only when time starts running out that they will start seeing clearly.

No lady is ever single. Go to Facebook and see the number of desperate often genuine guys looking for love but some of these girls are looking for the ready-made guys to come sweep them off their feet.

Go back to your dm and answer those guys which you have said 'over-my-dead body' after checking their profile.

Your partner maybe there.

It's OK that you are desperate now o. Anyone saying you shouldn't be concerned is only trying to soft talk you and downplay the problem.

30+ the hard to find husband o.

RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?