sylve11:
You're in for a long thing.
In the hay days when you're telling her you loved her just to spread her like bedsheet on top a sheet, so you're telling lies, isn't it?

I will not say much because If you nor know how song take start make you no go hurry dance put, before you go dance GARALA inside ASONTO....

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

Ybaby:


Ssssshhhh

I didn't want to say so too..... but I believe he was part of the buffet .... fear woman but when he said Yoruba girl....sigh! She may have been waiting true true...
Yoruba girls can wait. (I am Yoruba but mo to ja)

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me. Divorce

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

J111333:
Thing is you ain't making no effort to love your wife because if you would, you could.

Love doesn't fall from heaven, it is grown. She is your wife man, make some efforts to love her and if you truly can't then go for divorce now that you still have one kid.

Chigold101:
I actually had to quote you because I am replying to your advice to the guy.

Talking of murder, who told you that the lady won't murder the guy if he leaves her now after making her a mother, she probably didn't plan for?

What mess is more than a guy getting a woman involuntary pregnant?

As much as I understood in this post, the woman is not the problem, the guy is. He should stop looking at other side thinking it's greener and build his home.

That's the simplest thing for him to do.

Chigold101:
if he is sincere he will tell you he still wants to fuc.k around.
He doesn't want to settle down yet.
Or he is looking at other grasses he considers Greener, which in actuality is not.

The problem is from the guy... Simple

Brightgem:
I stopped reading. Na God catch you. It's just sad you'll bring in a child to your mess.

Sleeping with who you don't want to live your real life with and now forming stuck in a loveless marriage.

UjuJoan2:


Really? Wow!

I never knew Yoruba girls were that way oh . . . . no wonder they see Igbo girls as wild!

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

Brightgem:
Who is this one? Do you realize you just made a threat of killing someone? Just because you are on the internet you can talk as you like.

Anyways my life is not bound to be lost in the hands of another human being, because I'm also careful not take stupid decisions and I watch my company, so the day I will meet a demon like you who has the intention of killing, God will take you first to that 6ft under you so desire such that I never even get to know you existed.

Let everyone be responsible for their actions. You don't like a woman but can sleep with her recklessly to get pregnant and I should be sorry for the person? I don't waste my sympathies on nonsense.

wacoj:
People need to understand something here. Sleeping with a girl doesn't necessarily mean you love her. The truth is that erection can direct attention wrongly. Why do you think that people regret after sleeping with a girl a times.
Mr. Poster, I understand how you feel. Some women are just not it especially after coming into your house as your wife. This is when you begin to see the real them in them.
I will advice you to work things out with her but if it isn't working, get a divorce. NEVER YOU HIT A WOMAN.

GIdiata:


don't mind their(WOMEN) HYPOCRISY. they(WOMEN) know. she's just trying to form SAVAGE and the "YOU GOT WHAT U DESERVED CREW"

99.99% of Women are wicked and MEAN only after REVENGE AND PAYBACK.

they don't know,
how come they have 2-3 boyfriends ( LOVE, SEX AND ATM)?
How come they date SUGAR DADDIES when they have a real boyfriend?

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

donbachi:
I rather marry 10 times,than die in one..their is no coping in hell,no amendments,no repentance...u just stay there and burn.

DexterousOne:



Well.....

Like I used to say

No matter how

[s]A woman cam NEVER understand the psychology of men.
[/s]
They will always see it from the lens of a woman

kalufelix:
.. Op thunder fire you there.. So you haven't heard about condom before.. Which village are you from.. When you dey do am e dey sweet you.. You dey go raw dey cum inside her. God don catch you.. Better love your wife teach her and groom her.. You might be surprised what she will develop into tomorrow. As for you brownjay i never get word for you now...

Preciouschinwe:
you go fear advice now, na wa oo

MrBrownJay1:


NL donkeys never fail... oya OP, go and suffer for the rest of your miserable life, like the kalufelix of this world.

kalufelix:
In the thread about a guy that slapped and flogged his girlfriend with belt...i got a witness about your well written jargons of a comment littered all over the place.. So i'm relaxed now... When you keep saying 'walk away' in situations of an abuse disaffection or dissatisfaction...it shows how immature and naive you still are. I know everyone is entitled to their stup!d opinion...but don't be too quick to bare yours always... Learn boy! Learn!! You have alot of it to do.

Anyiamaka:



Be kind to retrain your wife. How has the marriage improved her personality? Is she really a better person before you married her or after your married her?
If she is uneducated, send her back to school and make her educated.
There is nothing wrong in being loud and loquacious so long as she is communicating intelligently.

You don't really have a burden, you just need to be more responsible. If your wife gets educated and starts working with good pay, respect go dey for each other.

ImaIma1:


I understand this perfectly. Men are visual. But whether or not they are in their right senses, they thought it over and decided to go ahead with it, damning the consequences. So whatever eventualities come, they have to take it well. Because the men that decide to resist and use their head instead of their genitals don't have 4 heads.

franchasng:
Forget love, there is nothing like romantic love, the truth is, she is not your spec when it comes to physical beauty.

But I want to advice you as a guy that married one of the most beautiful career lady with amazing character who happened to be my friend before we married.


Brother, after few years of marriage or even few months, your wife's body will not be tempting and inviting to you like before when you first met her.

So its not about love or anything, it is how most if not all men are wired, but men love to tell lies to women and to themselves to make them feel good, they will pretend like their wife is still appealing to them like when they first met, na lie!!


Marriage is not about sex or romance, don't let people deceive you with their lies of how they still have sex or romance with their partners na lie!!


After few years of marriage, most marriages no longer rely on sex, couple might go months without sex no matter how sexy the wife maybe, its normal for most exposed and balling men not to feel the urge again because if your game is tight as a man, you easily get bored of things - be it food, woman, etc....u get tired of one thing too easily, unless your game is not tight then u stick to one thing out of no choice.

Haven't you wondered why almost all rich men have mistresses and concubines Haven't you ever wondered why Bible said it will be easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven Women matter is one of the reasons.

What am I saying

Even if u married your dream woman like me, believe me, u wouldn't have been fvcking her every now and then like u feel right now, u will be bored of her, she would be naked and u won't feel anything.


What will keep u guys going are your lovely kids, your life goals; financial goals being chased together and met, projects, career and business growth targets and discussions.


Only poor people sustain their marriage with sex! Reason they make too many babies!!


Only poor men fvck their wife everyday or every week because they have no other job or option....that their ekuke mgbeke wife they see everyday is their only diamond, they don't travel much to see sexy supermodels, so their wife remains their supermodel that once they see her they spread her legs like Aboki mat


Focus on your life goals, help your wife develop a career path or a business or sellable handwork and start planning and executing together action plans to help her grow in her career or business or handwork and you will begin to cherish her.


Remove your mind from sex. Even if u married Kim Kardashian, u will still get tired of fvcking her and will most likely cheat on her with one village chick or lower class girl, that's how men are.



If you feel the urge to fvck, u are free to get a mistress that meets your sexual and physical spec but make sure u are buoyant financially.

Babaken:
let me ask this question can you marry someone that's not attracted to you sexually.