just want to share a friend's experience.He has all it takes (good looks, potentials) but lack substancial materials.He got involved wit this pretty girl to which he did d worst to meet up,tins started smoothly but after sometime,it started turning around, excuses, nags, quarels, lies and this pushed d girl to find solice elsewhere n d irony is dat she chose d guys' friend (not me) this recent guy at least is comfortable and "is having".
Law of carma set in, the Ex's life took a fast lane, he got shattered, torn and misplaced. but 'It' just started for him, he got an opportunity to travel, he went came back after a course and got a job wit schlum, good pay, nice accomodation, flashy car and all that extras.
We went together for a wedding and behold a tap from behind and it was Shade, his ex!!
Levels don change and see arrangement, see pleas, see as people they take use devil for excuse.
Anyways, he moved on but she is still there STALKING !!!
What u guys advise?
HE still loves her, but hates to reflect back.

she be thief. where she dey when the poor guy dey struggle?

My advise for ur friend is that he should look for someone else she is only begging becos she saw that he is okay, she doesnt truely love ur friend.

wow, i wont take her back sha

shes only afta doo,

I go take am back, "fire" am well well, then dump her.

thats d tin wit people. i believe once a guy is on track, wit good potentials and good head on shoulders,Men !!! dats a big fish jst a matter of little time he would blow up.but no, they want ready made and this too, someone suffered for too.
"word" they would use u. believe me.just be prayerful and and help assist.Most people never forget people like that

so which advice do you need eh? you be mumu ni? abi opeke don finish for town?

its very clear she is after material things and its obvious dat if things get bad or tough, she'd get going, out of ur friends life and jump back again wen things get good.

tell him not to even look back no matter how much he still loves, cause he would be making a grave mistake, just imagine the nonsense, even dumping him for his FRIEND haba that one too much now . please he should move on and leave the wretched gold digger.

hahahaha, nigerian gurlz n money sef, they like twins

i don't think it would be necessary to generalize, don't you think so?

heyi, chilax babe, am nigerian 2, n i aint into money so it might be genralizing 2 u, but i sure know wat am talking bout

sure.

Keep your boy away from that woman. Maybe he loves her, but he should better hold back to save lots of pain to come. The girl is obviously not interested in his spirit! Therefore, advice ur guy yo move on cuz it's the best he can do.

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hahahaha, nigerian gurlz n money sef, they like twins

Not all ladies are like dat. some ladies are very decent and dont give a shit about their partners money cos she herself is okay and well doing.

@mcube
If majority of d girls luv money at least 99% out of 100, then, don't u think it is ok to generalise? Look @ it this way, nigerian police is corrupt, but then, there are saints in there, but majority has cancelled out the minority, so therefore it will b okay 2 generalise dat NP is corrupt.

ask him if he thinks she would sit in his house when there is no food ,the childrenhave been chased from school due to lack of school fees and the youngest is sick.But  since she's pretty he can hang out with her but not for a serious relationship (i know guys like optical satisfaction ie looking at cute chics)