As a Christian, I need a place or group(not church) in Abuja where I can join not only for prayers and spiritual growth but also to be encouraged. As a Christian, we can't be visiting ungodly places for socialisation. So if you know a place where Christian brothers can meet and grow spiritually and increase in other areas of life, link me up. I had try to find one but I couldn't see any.

Careful. Close circles are often the places to carry over avoidable battles. Just download messages and listen to online. Go to mountain and pray fervently return home jeje to avoid bitter sob tales

preciousademc3:
As a Christian, I need a place or group(not church) in Abuja where I can join not only for prayers and spiritual growth but also to be encouraged. As a Christian, we can't be visiting ungodly places for socialisation. So if you know a place where Christian brothers can meet and grow spiritually and increase in other areas of life, link me up. I had try to find one but I couldn't see any.

Who told you that? Have you not heard that Jesus Christ hung out with sinners? How else did the prostitutes come to know Him and of Him?
You are better off hanging around ungodly than sipping on the lies and deceit that are those who claim to be of God but the truth is not in them.

Also, while you are at it, be sure to check to know if you are truly born again, not according to the "accepting Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and savior" messages touted by many pastors/preachers/GOs, etc.

No one can become a follower of Jesus Christ simply by wishing for it. Jesus required that those who choose to follow Him do the work that He commands they first do.

1. Be prepared to abandon parents, brother, sister, children, spouse, in-laws, e.t.c.
2. Abandon all that you know/believe, have, and all that you are
3. Bear your own burden (not someone else's cross- not even your family's or children's)

Matthew 10 vs 34-39
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34. “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace. I came to bring trouble.[h]
35. I have come to make this happen:
‘A son will turn against his father.
A daughter will turn against her mother.
A daughter-in-law will turn against her mother-in-law.
36. Even members of your own family will be your enemies.’
37. “Those who love their father or mother more than they love me are not worthy of me. And those who love their son or daughter more than they love me are not worthy of me.
38. Those who will not accept the cross that is given to them when they follow me are not worthy of me.
39. Those who try to keep the life they have will lose it. But those who give up their life for me will find true life.

4. Become a child again in your thinking and your actions

Matthew 14 vs 23-24
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3. Then he said, “The truth is, you must change your thinking and become like little children. If you don’t do this, you will never enter God’s kingdom.
4. The greatest person in God’s kingdom is the one who makes himself humble like this child.

5. Be prepared to lose life(reputation, career, control, property, etc.)
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Matthew 16 vs 24-27
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24. Then Jesus said to his followers, “If any of you want to be my follower, you must stop thinking about yourself and what you want. You must be willing to carry the cross that is given to you for following me.
25. Any of you who try to save the life you have will lose it. But you who give up your life for me will find true life.
26. It is worth nothing for you to have the whole world if you yourself are lost. You could never pay enough to buy back your life.
27. The Son of Man will come again with his Father’s glory and with his angels. And he will reward everyone for what they have done.

6. Desire above all to find and enter the Kingdom of God and also walk the path of righteousness, with God as your guide every step
7. Let go of all control you have over your life and circumstances, allowing God to take care of your every need

Matthew 6 vs 31-34
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25. “So I tell you, don’t worry about the things you need to live—what you will eat, drink, or wear. Life is more important than food, and the body is more important than what you put on it.
26. Look at the birds. They don’t plant, harvest, or save food in barns, but your heavenly Father feeds them. Don’t you know you are worth much more than they are?
27. You cannot add any time to your life by worrying about it.
28. “And why do you worry about clothes? Look at the wildflowers in the field. See how they grow. They don’t work or make clothes for themselves.
29. But I tell you that even Solomon, the great and rich king, was not dressed as beautifully as one of these flowers.
30. If God makes what grows in the field so beautiful, what do you think he will do for you? It’s just grass—one day it’s alive, and the next day someone throws it into a fire. But God cares enough to make it beautiful. Surely he will do much more for you. Your faith is so small!
31. “Don’t worry and say, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’
32. That’s what those people who don’t know God are always thinking about. Don’t worry, because your Father in heaven knows that you need all these things.
33. What you should want most is God’s kingdom and doing what he wants you to do. Then he will give you all these other things you need.
34. So don’t worry about tomorrow. Each day has enough trouble of its own. Tomorrow will have its own worries.

Kobojunkie:


Who told you that? Have you not heard that Jesus Christ hung out with sinners? How else did the prostitutes come to know Him and of Him?
You are better off hanging around ungodly than sipping on the lies and deceit that are those who claim to be of God but the truth is not in them.

when I say Christian group I mean a decent group and not group that meet at the hours I will not be able to attend. Some of our parents then, belonged to groups that really help them but now nothing like that. It's O. Y. O(on your own)now.

Kobojunkie:
Also, while you are at it, be sure to check to know if you are truly born again, not according to the "accepting Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and savior" messages touted by many pastors/preachers/GOs, etc.

No one can become a follower of Jesus Christ simply by wishing for it. Jesus required that those who choose to follow Him do the work that He commands they first do.

1. Be prepared to abandon parents, brother, sister, children, spouse, in-laws, e.t.c.
2. Abandon all that you know/believe, have, and all that you are
3. Bear your own burden (not someone else's cross- not even your family's or children's)


4. Become a child again in your thinking and your actions

5. Be prepared to lose life(reputation, career, control, property, etc.)



Matthew 16 vs 24-27
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24. Then Jesus said to his followers, “If any of you want to be my follower, you must stop thinking about yourself and what you want. You must be willing to carry the cross that is given to you for following me.
25. Any of you who try to save the life you have will lose it. But you who give up your life for me will find true life.
26. It is worth nothing for you to have the whole world if you yourself are lost. You could never pay enough to buy back your life.
27. The Son of Man will come again with his Father’s glory and with his angels. And he will reward everyone for what they have done.


6. Desire above all to find and enter the Kingdom of God and also walk the path of righteousness, with God as your guide every step
7. Let go of all control you have over your life and circumstances, allowing God to take care of your every need

Matthew 6 vs 31-34
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25. “So I tell you, don’t worry about the things you need to live—what you will eat, drink, or wear. Life is more important than food, and the body is more important than what you put on it.
26. Look at the birds. They don’t plant, harvest, or save food in barns, but your heavenly Father feeds them. Don’t you know you are worth much more than they are?
27. You cannot add any time to your life by worrying about it.
28. “And why do you worry about clothes? Look at the wildflowers in the field. See how they grow. They don’t work or make clothes for themselves.
29. But I tell you that even Solomon, the great and rich king, was not dressed as beautifully as one of these flowers.
30. If God makes what grows in the field so beautiful, what do you think he will do for you? It’s just grass—one day it’s alive, and the next day someone throws it into a fire. But God cares enough to make it beautiful. Surely he will do much more for you. Your faith is so small!
31. “Don’t worry and say, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’
32. That’s what those people who don’t know God are always thinking about. Don’t worry, because your Father in heaven knows that you need all these things.
33. What you should want most is God’s kingdom and doing what he wants you to do. Then he will give you all these other things you need.
34. So don’t worry about tomorrow. Each day has enough trouble of its own. Tomorrow will have its own worries.

thanks for this. I just need people of like minds. Iron sharpen iron

preciousademc3:
thanks for this. I just need people of like minds. Iron sharpen iron

People of like mind you say? I too need to find them but as I have found, there are not many who are truly born again out there. Anyone who has not done as Jesus Christ commanded in the list does not belong to Jesus Christ and certainly does not have the Spirit of Truth, Jesus Christ, living on the inside of them.
So, be careful of the type of iron you are letting sharpen your iron.

preciousademc3:
when I say Christian group I mean a decent group and not group that meet at the hours I will not be able to attend. Some of our parents then, belonged to groups that really help them but now nothing like that. It's O. Y. O(on your own)now.

The groups our parents belonged to, where they groups that were doing what Jesus Christ commanded of them? Or just groups that existed for their "holy holy" passions? Don't simply settle for what your parents settled for.
Here is, for example, something Jesus Christ commanded all those who want to enter into the Kingdom of God(Blesssed are the righteous for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven)... Yes, below is what it means to be righteous and what it means to be unrighteous. At least judge the groups by what they do as Jesus Christ commanded.

Matthew 25 vs 31-40 (ESV)
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31. “The Son of Man will come again with divine greatness, and all his angels will come with him. He will sit as king on his great and glorious throne.
32. All the people of the world will be gathered before him. Then he will separate everyone into two groups. It will be like a shepherd separating his sheep from his goats.
33. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.
34. “Then the king will say to the godly people on his right, ‘Come, my Father has great blessings for you. The kingdom he promised is now yours. It has been prepared for you since the world was made.
35. It is yours because when I was hungry, you gave me food to eat. When I was thirsty, you gave me something to drink. When I had no place to stay, you welcomed me into your home.
36. When I was without clothes, you gave me something to wear. When I was sick, you cared for me. When I was in prison, you came to visit me.’
37. “Then the godly people will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and give you food? When did we see you thirsty and give you something to drink?
38. When did we see you with no place to stay and welcome you into our home? When did we see you without clothes and give you something to wear?
39. When did we see you sick or in prison and care for you?’
40. “Then the king will answer, ‘The truth is, anything you did for any of my people here,[b] you also did for me.’