be good to everybody

Put her back to her old shape,before u send her away.

Is that all? Is that the reason you want to quit? You are not serious at all.

You sound like a troll. No advise for you

U marry typical afonjress.
I pity ur life

This is one of the reason I don't support Christian type of marriage, you'll not allow the both party spend sometime together and see the compatibility if it will really work. If op stayed with this lady for some time before marriage he would have notice all this things and decide weda to go ahead with the marriage or not.
If it was a church kind of marriage and you meet with your pastor to complain about her they'll start telling you stories of how God does not want divorce.
You'll live with the pig for the rest of your life.
Op I know your story does not have anything to do with a church but if truly you dated before marriage you would notice all of this, abi you impregnated her and decide to marry out of pity

be good to everybody

Sebastine1994:


exactly, she told me she was pregnant, I just weak, plus her mama die

Sorry bro the truth is you'll have to live with her till the end. No matter what you do she can never change completely to the neat kind of person you desire cause I have a friend and a brother in a similar situation.
Actually I don't like slim ladies but I made up my mind to marry a skinny girl so that when the kids start dropping she will fall back to that shape that I want. If she was fat before child birth she go turn yokozuna after 2kids.
Just threaten her you'll leave the marriage she go dey change small small but not completely

This matter strong wahali..
D only solution is to make her see that other ladies are interested in u,maybe she will sit upright...which kind tin be that,just 28 and u r behaving like 45,even some mum above 50 still package responsibly...

Modified:
And Op,please dont get tired of your wife..Ladies like that are very faithful to u..trust me..she is very faithful,but help her work on all this..Tell her what u want and things u dont want..when u go out buy her new underwaers,gowns and lot of things u want her to wear.

Please love ur wife o,Don't leave her because of al this.Her inner beauty matters.

Is it comprehension skills that's the matter with people these days or what?


I am going to digress before I get to the matter at hand. Ladies who had have had kids can relate with this: You just had this kid and you start feeling depressed. And you can't explain this weirdest feeling. You don't want to show up, look fly and you just want to be left alone all down and moody. People with their characteristic tendencies would insult and troll you. But deep now you know you ain't ok. Mothers are fantastic super heroes who regardless of how they feel turn up for their kids although there are isolated cases of some moms abandoning their kids but under the scheme of things, they are insignificant bunch.



Ladies needs understanding and counselling especially married women. It's difficult to deal with changes in the body and the inherent challenges of child bearing and raising. Believe me it's a big deal. OP you should be patient and get she to go for counselling with a shrink. Then give her time.



What I find very distasteful about guys is that you shag a lady and get her pregnant then you wanna go. Get her back the way she was before you gatta bounce. Do leave her all messed up. Don't give lame excuses about her not looking fly. Most ladies after they get married lose their shine. Number one reason is because their spouse is not bouyant enough. Is Regina Daniels not still looking good? That's the power of money. It's difficult to see rich wives looking haggard.



Guy, better go update and let that lady be. If she starts looking fly and guys starts hitting on her na you go come here dey vomit nonsense. Either way. Here's my take. Update her with your substance. Take her for a thorough medicals. Take her shopping. Change gon come. There are depressive tendencies money can cure.



On a final note, such ladies have a history of been loyal and faithful.

May our daughters not fall into the hands of unfit men like you.

Marriage is not for people of unripe mind.

A woman went through a phase of heavy body changes to make you a father, see how you easily pronounce her -ve side here, not to talk of how many people you must have told in real life..

In this era of coded oloshoism you got an obedient and calm wife with good morals, you dey here dey talk nonsense...

Better keep nurturing your wife till she gets to your taste..

See your mouth like you want to call it quit, just after one year, so if your one year old child is misbehaving, you will disown your child. Your wife is your baby, never get tired to teach her, dont compare her with all those girls you cheat with. Be wise, divorce is never a good thing..

Disregard all other advice that will come from many here, most of them are teenagers (17yrs)

This is grand pa talking to you. Be wise and keep your home together.

Moneystopnonsen:
May our daughters not fall into the hands of unfit men like you.
Marriage is not for people of unripe mind. A woman went through a phase of heavy body changes to make you a father and see how you easily pronounce her -ve side here not to talk more of how many people you have told in real life..
In this era of coded oloshoism you got an obedient and calm wife with good morals, you dey here dey talk nonsense...

Better keep nurturing your wife till she gets to your taste..

See your mouth like you want to call it quit, just after one year, so if your one year old child is misbehaving, you will disown your child. Your wife is your baby, never get tired to teach her, never get tired to compare her with all those girls you cheat with. Be wise, divorce is never a good thing..

Disregard all other advice that will come from many here, most of them are teenagers (17yrs)

This is grand pa talking to you. Be wise and keep your home together.

Bro, wetin you dey drink jor?

Never marry out of pity.

Connect me. I will give her a hot doggy

Oga, Stop Complaining & Take Good Care Of Her. Both Of U Should Go 2 D Market, Select & Buy D Kind Of Clothes & Panties U Want Her 2 Wear. Buy Perfume Or Body Spray 4 Her 2 Use. Both Of U Should Av Fun By Bathing 2geda, Let Her Bathe U Den U Should Bathe Her. Buy Her A Nice Body Cream Too.

Just be patient with this quiet one before you will get married to the one that will cut your penis

You're a fool my man...you have a quiet decent wife and you're complaining?

The Bible clearly stated : it's better to live under the roof than to live with a troublesome wife .


My advice: you have a treasure cherish it.

Your problem is : you're tired of banging one pvssy all year ( it's a man's nature) but you could always fvck new pvssies secretly nah!

JidennaJason:
For you to come to a public forum like this and talk about your wife in such manner makes me believe that you're nothing but a full-grown idiot...

Even if she have all these you accuse her of, that doesn't give you the right to say it in a public forum.

You married her out of pity, no one forced you to, so if you want to divorce her, kindly do so quietly and maturedly without the unprintable name calling.

The op is a troll. Only him, his girlfriend is a thief, yesterday a man beat his wife, today his wife is shapeless.

Look at his username and have an idea of the kind of person he is. Jobless yoot

that means u married her out of pity....

Ishilove:

The op is a troll. Only him, his girlfriend is a thief, yesterday a man beat his wife, today his wife is shapeless.

Look at his username and have an idea of the kind of person he is. Jobless yoot

Indeed, you're right... I would have done some background check on the Efulefu before wasting my time.


Thanks Ishi.

All of you are shouting decent wife, loyal wife blah blah blah. Did the OP said she’s faithful or did he mentioned she’s decent. Foolish people.
So because she’s dirty and wears one pant for one week means she’s loyal right? Fools.
Because she has given birth now, the husband should now be living with a pig right? He should adapt with her dirtiness and continue with what he couldn’t tolerate. Mad men everywhere

But OP you are mad. You just complained a neighbor beat your wife of recent. So how come another complain today? And today she’s dirty. Ok. I’ll watch out of tomorrow’s episode.

JidennaJason:
Indeed, you're right... I would have done some background check on the Efulefu before wasting my time.


Thanks Ishi.

Lol. Esigbo efulefu

Sorry.

She is this she is that after childbirth...
Sounds very confused. Simple solution, give her money or better still buy those things that will bring back her (swag) but make sure you don't return here complaining of your wife not being considerate of your new born babe.

Sir,advice your wife that you don't want to cheat on her(Hearing such,she might change),that all you want is for her to look nice for you.I can't believe your wife is still in her 20s and already behaving like an old woman .For me before i married,i will tell my wife to get ready for intensive exercises when she gave birth.I love working out so we can do it together.I know it will be fun
There is this woman in my street,she has 3children.She is in her mid30s.This woman used to be big before with big stomach,fat hands etc.But for 2 yrs,this woman always go jogging in the morning expect sunday,you always does home workout.This woman is fit now.She got a flat stomach and a nice shape.She now have the body of a 20Yrs old girl,not having fat here and there.
You see some girls in their 20s with big stomach,wetin dey happen.

That's marriage for things change



U can employ a physical trainer for her ....child birth comes with it on challenges

Generation that can not maintain a home will say he won rule a nation. Buhari linage.

Dobson43:
Is it comprehension skills that's the matter with people these days or what?


I am going to digress before I get to the matter at hand. Ladies who had have had kids can relate with this: You just had this kid and you start feeling depressed. And you can't explain this weirdest feeling. You don't want to show up, look fly and you just want to be left alone all down and moody. People with their characteristic tendencies would insult and troll you. But deep now you know you ain't ok. Mothers are fantastic super heroes who regardless of how they feel turn up for their kids although there are isolated cases of some moms abandoning their kids but under the scheme of things, they are insignificant bunch.



Ladies needs understanding and counselling especially married women. It's difficult to deal with changes in the body and the inherent challenges of child bearing and raising. Believe me it's a big deal. OP you should be patient and get she to go for counselling with a shrink. Then give her time.



What I find very distasteful about guys is that you shag a lady and get her pregnant then you wanna go. Get her back the way she was before you gatta bounce. Do leave her all messed up. Don't give lame excuses about her not looking fly. Most ladies after they get married lose their shine. Number one reason is because their spouse is not bouyant enough. Is Regina Daniels not still looking good? That's the power of money. It's difficult to see rich wives looking haggard.



Guy, better go update and let that lady be. If she starts looking fly and guys starts hitting on her na you go come here dey vomit nonsense. Either way. Here's my take. Update her with your substance. Take her for a thorough medicals. Take her shopping. Change gon come. There are depressive tendencies money can cure.



On a final note, such ladies have a history of been loyal and faithful.

Your excuses are lame tho

Moneystopnonsen:
May our daughters not fall into the hands of unfit men like you.

Marriage is not for people of unripe mind.

A woman went through a phase of heavy body changes to make you a father, see how you easily pronounce her -ve side here, not to talk of how many people you must have told in real life..

In this era of coded oloshoism you got an obedient and calm wife with good morals, you dey here dey talk nonsense...

Better keep nurturing your wife till she gets to your taste..

See your mouth like you want to call it quit, just after one year, so if your one year old child is misbehaving, you will disown your child. Your wife is your baby, never get tired to teach her, dont compare her with all those girls you cheat with. Be wise, divorce is never a good thing..

Disregard all other advice that will come from many here, most of them are teenagers (17yrs)

This is grand pa talking to you. Be wise and keep your home together.

You are not helping the matter at all!!
Another lame excuses for dirtiness

onome2013:
Just be patient with this quiet one before you will get married to the one that will cut your penis

Another lame excuse

ProfDview:
You're a fool my man...you have a quiet decent wife and you're complaining?

The Bible clearly stated : it's better to live under the roof than to live with a troublesome wife .


My advice: you have a treasure cherish it.

Your problem is : you're tired of banging one pvssy all year ( it's a man's nature) but you could always fvck new pvssies secretly nah!

Another lame excuse