Good evening Nairalanders, pls hide my identity , I am really dying slowly now and the only thing I need now is Gods intervention asap cos suicidal thought is already creeping in.

I am a 33year old and the only child of my mum, wen I graduated, all that was on my mind was to travel out of the country, make some good cash and come back to Nigeria to touch lives positively cos I have always dreamt to be a notable personality in life , I tried traveling out to the US 3x but all to no avail, I searched for job nd none was forth coming, so I decided to apply for a teaching job, I ran out to another city to avoid the pressure of marriage from my mum and loved ones cos what I wanted was to travel out at all cost, after several years of trying without an outcome, I decided to give into my mums decision of getting a wife cos she said marriage could be the step to what I want to be in life. I got a lady who is self employed and doing good for herself but the bossy type, I did all I could to make her know I won't let her down, cut ties with all exes cos she will never stop nagging about them, and we already plan our wedding for Oct but the strange thing I got to know is that she still talks to her ex in the US and exchanges kisses , the guy sent her money and they even plan to relocate together in the US to start a family���. I did as if I dint know and dint confront her but a little argument broke up tonight and the next thing she did was to point accusing fingers by mentioning my ex wch she knew I had nothing to do with her anymore not even spoken to her in ages, I had to mention wat she has been doing with her ex, the chats and all and she dint feel the slightest remorse about that, instead she was still fuming. Pls Nairalanders , I feel the world should just end now , feel like I should just end everything now. Pls come to my rescue. Pls share this and let me know what I should do? Can't take this anymore, its jst too much to handle

pls read, save a soul plsss

pls save a soul

You have not gotten a wife yet oh...... You better shine you eyes

ojun50:
You have not gotten a wife yet oh...... You better shine you eyes

I dey tell you.


Op better leave that lady and get someone else.

yomi007k:



I dey tell you.


Op better leave that lady and get someone else.

He is just an option B to her

ojun50:

He is just an option B to her

Op should make her option Y.

Wealthinwealth1:
pls read, save a soul plsss

You never see wife. Better keep searching

Dump her sorry ass and get another lady.. Imagine a 33year Old Simp...This one's were born during Babangidas SAP still yet them never get sense.

Nothing kills marriage like despiration. I won't be quick judge her becos no smoke without fire; she most have seen something.
You guys are just running the relationship like X men flirting with your exes, banging your exes and will both end up like ex

Wealthinwealth1:
pls save a soul

Leave her and continue searching

yomi007k:



I dey tell you.


Op better leave that lady and get someone else.

thanks bro, decided to do just that and tried calling her sis I don't think its gonna work

gunners160:
Nothing kills marriage like despiration. I won't be quick judge her becos no smoke without fire; she most have seen something.
You guys are just running the relationship like X men flirting with your exes, banging your exes and will both end up like ex

I am not and can never be desperate, just decided to make my aging mum happy by giving her a grandchild cos her friends has been blaming her she's too quiet

You are underemployed as a teacher.

I don't blame your fiancée. She's just looking out for herself financially.

No be woman??

If we tell you young guys to jettison the thoughts of marriage, you will start saying your mother in village wants grandchildren. Are you living for yourself or your mother??

There are levels to this Save A Soul Thread on nairaland o! See me thinking say na better thing you wan talk..
Go and date your level, this fish wey your bait catch big pass you...stop sulking and work on a better life for yourself. Who no like better thing

yettymuse:
There are levels to this Save A Soul Thread on nairaland o! See me thinking say na better thing you wan talk..
Go and date your level, this fish wey your bait catch big pass you...stop sulking and work on a better life for yourself. Who no like better thing

thanks so much ma, God bless you. NOTED

thanks so much for all the advice given, really appreciate, she claimed she did dat as a bite back for once telling her to up her attitude thinking I was comparing her with my ex, she saw the msg I sent to the platform and she's been flaring up and down, dou I give no damn to that cos I have made my conclusions alredy

Dreaming of getting married when you're not employed, you will just be complicating issues ni . if you're not yet employed, pls forget marriage