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Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by enthronedbyGod1: 10:28pm On Jul 11, 2020
All scriptures are from KJV.

Sexual related sins ( fornication, masturbation, anal sex, MouthAction, pornography, e.t.c) is one of the major sins the devil is using as a weapon against our youths.

There is the spiritual side to this, which has to do with demonic manipulation (demonic influence, demonic oppression or demonic possession) and there's the physical aspect which is through the weakness of the flesh, however I'll focus mostly on dealing with it when it's as a result of the weakness of the flesh.

The first step in overcoming the weakness of the flesh is by cutting off ties with anyone who encourages us to engage in such acts, no matter who the person is even if he's a Christian brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, best friend, mentor, e.t.c.

1st Corinthians 5: 9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:

10 - Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world. 

11 - But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.

1st Corinthians 15: 33 - Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.

34 - Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.

Matthew 5 : 29 - 30.

Remember the kingdom of God suffers violence and only the violence can take it by force (determination)

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by enthronedbyGod1: 10:29pm On Jul 11, 2020
Secondly you have to be totally disciplined and take control of what your eyes looks at, because what you set your eyes upon greatly affects the thoughts of your heart.

Job 31 : 1 - I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?

Lamentation 3: 51a - Mine eye affecteth mine heart


What the eyes looks upon affects our thoughts, this is why the devil keeps polluting our airspace with nudity of all kinds from the secular music videos to movies to adverts to fashion , even the children cartoon aren't left out.

There are more pornographic sites than any other in the world as of today.

A lady in this our generation that doesn't dress provocatively isn't fashion trendy. A pastor's wife once told me she finds it very difficult to get modest clothing from female boutiques, cos most of what they sell encourages nudity.

Male fashion isn't left out as most trousers these days are so tight that you'll literally see the shape of the male private organ from the trousers.


If you can comfortably control what you set your eyes upon then you're on your way to victory.

Remember that David fell into adultery and murder because he set his eyes upon Bathsheba bathing naked. After his fall he made up his mind not to set his eyes upon any wicked thing.

Psalm 101:3a - I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: 

Make a covenant with your eyes just like  David and Job did in Job 31:1, as you read this post not to set your eyes upon any evil thing again.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by enthronedbyGod1: 10:31pm On Jul 11, 2020
After you've disciplined your eyes, you also need to take control of your thoughts and this is where demonic influence comes in.

The heart( mind) of man is a great battle field and what you think in your heart will definitely get the better part of you.

Proverbs 23:7a - For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:

Constantly thinking about something will make you engage in it, and when you keep acting on your thoughts, it becomes a character and this is how weaknesses develop.  This is also why the devil keeps on bombarding our thoughts with sexual perversion of all kinds.

There's a way out of these thoughts which can be seen in the scriptures.

2nd Corinthians 10: 4 - For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;

5 - Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; 6 - And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, when your obedience is fulfilled.

The scriptures above says we should cast down imaginations and everything that exalts itself against God's knowledge. We have to constantly reject every thought that's contrary to what God's word says no matter how enticing it sounds, but this can only be achieved when we live in obedience to God's word.

Constantly pleading the blood of Jesus when these thoughts come into our heart is a sure way to victory.

Revelation 12 : 11 -And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.
However the demons who influence these thoughts in our hearts will only give way when they first see the blood at the doorstep of your heart.

Exodus 12 : 13 - And the blood shall be to you for a token upon the houses where ye are: and when I see the blood, I will pass over you.


You also have to live a life of prayer, praise,  constant study of God's word and arm yourself with the weapons of warfare ( Ephesians 6 : 12 - 18), cos the mind is a great battle field.


May grace and peace of Jesus Christ be multiplied upon your life as you strive to live a live free of sexual sins in Jesus name.

Amen.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by enthronedbyGod1: 10:32pm On Jul 11, 2020
If you have read this post and you don't have the blood at the doorstep of your heart, you can have it by simply accepting Jesus as your Lord and personal saviour.


If you'll like to do so kindly repeat the prayer below in faith.


Father in heaven, I come in the name of Jesus.

I believe that Jesus died for me on the cross of Calvary.

I believe that He was buried and rose again the third day for my justification.

Father use the blood of Jesus to wash away my sins.

Cancel my name from the book of death and write it in the book of life.

Lord Jesus, come into my heart.

Be my Lord and personal saviour.

Give me power to sin no more.

Your word says that as many as received you, you gave power to be sons of God.

Give me power to become a son/daughter of God.

Thank you Lord for answering my prayers in Jesus name.

Amen.



Welcome to the household of God.

Make sure you study your Bible and pray always.


God bless

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Standing5(m): 3:46am On Jul 12, 2020
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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by JourneytoEL(f): 7:52am On Jul 12, 2020
Lovely sermon, I will also advise anyone battling this to delete all the worldly songs in there phones and fill it up with gospel songs and messages from the likes of Joshua Selmsn, Enenche etc. I did this just last month, after weeks of battling with the Spirit of God that kept telling me to do so.grin, and since then, my spiritual life changed.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by inoki247: 10:21am On Jul 12, 2020
If u Masturbate dem go complain if u knack gurl dem go complain wetin happen sef

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by IMASTEX: 10:23am On Jul 12, 2020
Okay
Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by bigname23: 10:24am On Jul 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
CHRISTIANITY IS ADDICTED TO SEX TALK AND THEIR GOD CARES MORE ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE DO WITH THEIR SEX ORGANS THAN ANYTHING ELSE GOING ON IN THIS WORLD.
but u are addicted to Christianity and u don't believe in Jesus. .u go just dey monitor Christian threads for nairaland dey waka..dey look for argument

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by JosephXavier: 10:24am On Jul 12, 2020
I think the most important thing I read here is what is said by Job 34: about controlling what you look at because even if you think you don't pay attention, the mind records such subconsciously only for the devil to use it against you when he sees you are depressed because the Bible says in Look 6 that a good man brings forth good out of his good treasures


About anal sex, the Quran preaches against it and though I haven't seen where in the Bible that specifically talked about it but it is wrong

Anyway, sin is wrong but we have to walk with God to overcome temptations because we can't do that on our own

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by money121(m): 10:24am On Jul 12, 2020
Ok
Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Ask4bigneyo(m): 10:25am On Jul 12, 2020
Sin sinks
Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by GodPunishBiafra: 10:26am On Jul 12, 2020
RUBBISH!


God created sex the purpose of pleasure and propagations.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by paulolee(m): 10:26am On Jul 12, 2020
too hard....haved tried countless time to stop it but its just too hard..
have read bible verses, fasted and prayed, attended night vigil and serminals but still find myself doing dt particular sexual immorality maybe because my flesh is weak or am not dt spiritually charged...
have talked to pastors and went for delivery and counseling session bt just cant say no to katie whenever she called or text dt she's coming over to spend d weekend because she do come for business and we always endup having sweet sex..
maybe i would try change location, delete her number from ma fone, but she's closer to me because of more of business than sex...am jus confused...

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by iTroll: 10:26am On Jul 12, 2020
inoki247:
If u Masturbate dem go complain if u knack gurl dem go complain wetin happen sef

cheesy

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Nobody: 10:26am On Jul 12, 2020
If your an Antichrist no need to tell us by coming to this thread to comment or ask questions

Just continue doing what you know how to do best body go tell you at the end of the day nobody go tell you

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Sambjnewspaper(m): 10:26am On Jul 12, 2020
I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. - Galatians 2:20.


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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Flexherbal(m): 10:27am On Jul 12, 2020
A very harmless question:

Did the bible state that it is only mission position of sex that is recommended for a Christian?


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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Lorenzop: 10:28am On Jul 12, 2020
Nice one

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by maggilove(f): 10:28am On Jul 12, 2020
Prayer, determination and focus helps too.
Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by AntiChristian: 10:28am On Jul 12, 2020
With all this tight fitted dresses, thigh and areolar exposures around how do we want the men to be sane?

The music/videos are wayward!
We celebrate waywardness!

Well, men, lower your gaze!

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by LordYahweh(m): 10:28am On Jul 12, 2020
As God I've changed my mind on sex. People above the age of consent are now allowed to have sex as much as they like.
You can even do 'soapy' if you like.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Laenec: 10:28am On Jul 12, 2020
You also can't underestimate the power of influence right companionship has. You keep company with like-minded people as much as possible. It helps most times.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by majictee: 10:29am On Jul 12, 2020
Wonders
Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Angy55(f): 10:31am On Jul 12, 2020
You guys keep hammering only on sexual sin as if it is the only sin that would take someone to hell...

Not until you all deal with all aspect of sin.. according to the Bible I won't take you people here serious.

Before you people quote me.. I'm a christian to the core.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by CAPSLOCKED: 10:31am On Jul 12, 2020
bigname23:
but u are addicted to Christianity

LOL, I'M ONLY ADDICTED TO PORNØGRAPHY.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by Nobody: 10:32am On Jul 12, 2020
Una Weldone.

The only thing that got me wondering is that, when you create post like this, you don't make it intelligent enough for everyone to follow and understand.

What happened to the so called youth who are of marriageble age but can't afford to get married due to financial problem?
What happened when they feel hor.ney?
What do you advise them to do?
You guys makes the Bible look so wicked and heartless. That's not God's mind for humanity.

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by DropsMic(m): 10:36am On Jul 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


LOL, I'M ONLY ADDICTED TO PORNØGRAPHY.



Pornography is bad... Not because it's a sin or anything but because it actively ruins one's life (Overindulgence: How Watching Porn Is Actively Ruining Your Life)

So if ye be truly addicted you need to find a way and put a stop to it

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Re: Overcoming Sexual Related Sins As A Young Christian. by paulolee(m): 10:36am On Jul 12, 2020
Angy55:
You guys keep hammering only on sexual sin as if it is the only sin that would take someone to hell...

Not until you all deal with all aspect of sin.. according to the Bible I won't take you people here serious.

Before you people quote me.. I'm a christian to the core.
sure...i get ur point bt na dt sexual sin de most among our youths and we now see it as d normal way of life...atims i de try get used to am and take am as notin too

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