Ladies are complex human beings, no man can say he fully understands them.

They may say a word and mean the exact opposite or behave in a certain way that may give you a different impression about them but with a totally different thing on their mind.

ladies are individuals that don’t flaunt how they feel about a guy easily as any excessive demonstration might make them look cheap to the guy.

But for a girl to open her heart and show love, it should be considered an honor because once she loves, she does it with the whole of her heart like she does when she hates.

No girl is perfect but if a girl is doing some of these 7 things listed below around you, it means she loves you and this may be the perfect opportunity for you to have her.

(1). She includes you in her future plans.
For a lady to mention you in her future it means she likes you and would want to see you guys end up together.

(2). She enjoys being around you.
When a lady dislikes you, she will use even the slimziest excuse to avoid you. If she likes being around you it’s a sign she loves you.

(3). She doesn’t hesitate to spend money on you.
Ladies are very cautious in their spending.

They don’t spend extravagantly most especially when it comes to spending on guys.

When she spends on you, it means she’s in to you and she doesn’t mind spending on you.

(4). She is ready to sacrifice her savings to support your dreams.
When she is willing to sacrifice her savings for you, it means she believes in you and your dreams and she wants to do whatever she can to support you.

This attribute is rare to find in a lady because most of them believes men should do the spending in a relationship.

When you find a girl that is willing to support your dreams and vision, don’t let her go. Her kind of lady is rare or rather one in a million.

(5). She cries when you hurt her.
For your words to hurt anybody most especially a lady, it means your words matters to her, she loves you and hold you in high esteem. Behave yourself, watch your words and use them to uplift her rather than pulling her down with them.

This is also an indication that whenever you complement her she’s likely to appreciate it since she holds your words in high esteem and they matter to her.

(6). She calls in the late hours of the night just to hear from you.
Like they say the last person you think of before going to bed is either the source of your joy or pain. For her to sacrifice her sleep to talk to you, you must be special then. Make her feel special too.

(7). She tells you that she dreamt about you last night.
This could be another sign for her to show you she likes you and to make you feel special.

This is also a way of her telling you she’s always thinking of you.

Whoever that has dated a girl before must have experienced some of the things mentioned above. Because they exist in a relationship.

It’s rare to see a girl walk up to a guy and tell him she really likes him, so if you notice some of these things mentioned above, it’s a sign that she loves you.

Because girls don’t associate with guys they do not have a thing for just like that, unless they have ulterior motive.

Oga you see what one of the lazy youth is thinking, people like this are the ones running after our daughters just to have access to what we have.

My country people biko no vex say i dey ask, is npower batch C registration still ongoing?

Hmmm

Too much TeleMundo and Zeeworld

Interesting

DaddyRochie1642:
Too much TeleMundo and Zeeworld

No, it isn't true.
Much as I don't like to talk about my relationship with guys, I'll say I did these things and you don't have to believe me. However, dude had the effrontery to tell me I don't know how to love. Ahahahahhahahhahha.
No be him fault sha.
Na me Bleep up

Remembering this, I begin to ask myself if I was stupid or something.

Dem don use op do juju...

UndauntedYOCA:

No, it isn't true.
Much as I don't like to talk about my relationship with guys, I'll say I did these things and you don't have to believe me. However, dude had the effrontery to tell me I don't know how to love. Ahahahahhahahhahha.
No be him fault sha.
Na me Bleep up

Remembering this, I begin to ask myself if I was stupid or something.

Well one thing I've learnt is it's one thing to love and express it, it is another to express love the way the person will feel loved.

We Nigerians hardly take time to understand our partners love language. So your dude may not be totally wrong.

Op my kind of love isn't for Nigerian Men

Ariza:
Well one thing I've learnt is it's one thing to love and express it, it is another to express love the way the person will feel loved.

We Nigerians hardly take time to understand our partners love language. So your dude may not be totally wrong.

True and I'll be honest, he didn't like calls which was a problem for me.
He could go over a week without calling and see nothing wrong with it. I on the other hand like to call and I even said since he didn't like calls then we could make it every two days or something and bro still had issues with it.
Abeg, na him headache be that.
Kama pade mo (make we no meet again).

UndauntedYOCA:

No, it isn't true.
Much as I don't like to talk about my relationship with guys, I'll say I did these things and you don't have to believe me. However, dude had the effrontery to tell me I don't know how to love. Ahahahahhahahhahha.
No be him fault sha.
Na me Bleep up

Remembering this, I begin to ask myself if I was stupid or something.

you didn't bleep up and you are not stupid..he just didn't want you or probably playing the guy game with you or you are just too good for him...don't worry you knight will come in a shining armour

UndauntedYOCA:

True and I'll be honest, he didn't like calls which was a problem for me.
He could go over a week without calling and see nothing wrong with it. I on the other hand like to call and I even said since he didn't like calls then we could make it every two days or something and bro still had issues with it.
Abeg, na him headache be that.
Kama pade mo (make we no meet again).

Lol @Kama pade mo
Compatibility one of the things we hardly consider before going into relationship proper and then Sex comes , we get all hooked and hurt when we finally decide to go separate Lol. And you wonder why Nigerians always hate their ex's

SIS, good thing you went separate ways. It's better.

HomerTimpson:
you didn't bleep up and you are not stupid..he just didn't want you or probably playing the guy game with you or you are just too good for him...don't worry you knight will come in a shining armour

Lol.
Knight what? Abeg abeg abeg, I no get that energy. Make im dey him lane make I dey mine.
Na money I dey try find. I get better things way I wan use my life do.

just maybe you are right!

Ariza:
Lol @Kama pade mo
Compatibility one of the things we hardly consider before going into relationship proper and then Sex comes , we get all hooked and hurt when we finally decide to go separate Lol. And you wonder why Nigerians always hate their ex's

SIS, good thing you went separate ways. It's better.

The call thing was the only issue actually.
I don't hate him, I'm just so indifferent about him.
Lol.
Now he sometimes chats me up and when I ignore he feels bad. Maybe he never knew I'm good at ghosting people, well now he knows because mi o raiye kati kati. . I no be alaini nkan shey.

UndauntedYOCA:

The call thing was the only issue actually.
I don't hate him, I'm just so indifferent about him.
Lol.
Now he sometimes chats me up and when I ignore he feels bad. Maybe he never knew I'm good at ghosting people, well now he knows because mi o raiye kati kati. . I no be alaini nkan shey.

Lol you two weren't compatible in that aspect and it's something very important to you. Lol good thing you don't hate him, that's a big burden to bear

I get that... I have one on my plate too, sometimes these guys mistake ladies availability for joblessness. They don't know sometimes we only pay attention because we care and want more of them . And gender has the monopoly of ghosting. . Babe you are doing well!

UndauntedYOCA:

Lol.
Knight what? Abeg abeg abeg, I no get that energy. Make im dey him lane make I dey mine.
Na money I dey try find. I get better things way I wan use my life do.

LOL while this is cute,still don't give up or lose hope like that,you can check out the story of JOYCE MEYER whe you have the time (le bon gars trop occupe,c'est pourquoi il ne se presente jamais)LOL

HomerTimpson:
LOL while this is cute,still don't give up or lose hope like that,you can check out the story of JOYCE MEYER whe you have the time (le bon gars trop occupe,c'est pourquoi il ne se presente jamais)LOL

Ah bon?
Je be savais pas! Lol
I'll remember to do so.
And I actually really don't care.
Que sera, sera.

Ariza:
Lol you two weren't compatible in that aspect and it's something very important to you. Lol good thing you don't hate him, that's a big burden to bear

I get that... I have one on my plate too, sometimes these guys mistake ladies availability for joblessness. They don't know sometimes we only pay attention because we care and want more of them . And gender has the monopoly of ghosting. . Babe you are doing well!

Lol, bro didn't know I wasn't jobless. Thank goodness I stopped telling him most of my plans.
Lol. I'm quite good at ghosting, mastered the art. Who you be lol.
Thanks sis, I know you're also doing well.

UndauntedYOCA:

Ah bon?
Je be savais pas! Lol
I'll remember to do so.
And I actually really don't care.
Que sera, sera.

yea but this is why we have the FRIENDZONE but its underated as most people don't like the LET'S BE FRIENDS thing probably cause of our sociocultural perspective...but as you said QUE SERA, SERA.

UndauntedYOCA:

No, it isn't true.
Much as I don't like to talk about my relationship with guys, I'll say I did these things and you don't have to believe me. However, dude had the effrontery to tell me I don't know how to love. Ahahahahhahahhahha.
No be him fault sha.
Na me Bleep up

Remembering this, I begin to ask myself if I was stupid or something.

dude was right, you're bugging him up. afterall, all this love ends in sex and sex is cheap this days. then why bug me up because of sex. control your emotions and be strong emotionally let's talk once in two days. Tell me what you want from the day you made up your mind to date me, serious relationship or friends and benefit lol

Amb1045:
dude was right, you're bugging him up. after all, all this love ends in sex and sex is cheap this days. then why bug me up because of sex. control your emotions and be strong emotionally let's talk once in two days. Tell me what you want from the day you made up your mind to date me, serious relationship or friends and benefit lol

Just take a look at yourself.
Mtcheeeeeewwwwww.
You make me laugh, walahi.
Most people here often feel they know how to talk and are always right.
I won't honour you by arguing with you on what you know nothing about.

Amb1045:
dude was right, you're bugging him up. after all, all this love ends in sex and sex is cheap this days. then why bug me up because of sex. control your emotions and be strong emotionally let's talk once in two days. Tell me what you want from the day you made up your mind to date me, serious relationship or friends and benefit lol

Not in Nigeria system

So all those that are married and did not do the aforementioned things above do not love their husbands

Ariza:
Op my kind of love isn't for Nigerian Men

Keep your nonsense love. We don't need it!

Kriss216:

Keep your nonsense love. We don't need it!

Yes you don't need it. You need brain, one with Sense.

Ariza:
Yes you don't need it. You need brain, one with Sense.

See you in Shiloh 2028!

Kriss216:

See you in Shiloh 2028!

What will you be doing there? See why you need Sense?

Ariza:
What will you be doing there? See why you need Sense?

I'll be coming to help you in prayers... You're my good friend.

Kriss216:

I'll be coming to help you in prayers... You're my good friend.

No I'm not your friend, I don't know you.