I have this mutual benefit mate who always talk about quality time always, she tells me we don't have quality times every time we see. I spend almost 12 hrs with her anytime we see, despite my busy schedules but she still complains about 'quality' time. With all the pelvic exercise that cuts my ration of strenght, I hate to think about the Quality time she still means,

Try spending time doing things that aren't sex-related, I think she wants you to invest emotionally.

Sex is not our thing. We talk and confide in each other most of the times and deql with our diffrences but she still complain qaulity time.

Ahahaha! She wants more from you, than sex. She want you to go on date --- things that involves u both without the mattress.

true.

Crazii I say brother. I let her tell me whatever she wants and needs. I'm just thinking maybe the word 'quantity' is new to her

pinkrex:

I have this mutual benefit mate who always talk about quality time always, she tells me we don't have quality times every time we see. I spend almost 12 hrs with her anytime we see, despite my busy schedules but she still complains about 'quality' time. With all the pelvic exercise that cuts my ration of strenght, I hate to think about the Quality time she still means,

You spend the halve of the day with her and thats not quality enough? Pheww!, Its either you ain't spending it right or,

maybe you see her once in a month.
Are you proud of her
do you go out on a date
does she really know you
I bet she doesn't. It not just
spending ALmost 12 hours with
her, its how do you spend it.

It should always be a Quality time.

quality time is what counts most
but the quantity should be considered too, it doesnt make sense spending lot of time for example one day a month and the rest of the days there is no time for each other

diff'ren strokes to diff'ren folks, If she ain't working move on.

all of the above

^^^^ qtty and qlty.

2 things>>
its either u're boring or she wants more than jst casual frnd 4rm u.

12 hours with a girl whom you are not married to is enough time to make good money.be contiouse of ur time

@nvo. How do you spend your own quality time?

12 hours with a girl whom you are not married to is enough time to make good money.be contiouse of your time. I'm sure ull spend your date marketing products on the beach.

what do you mean by friends with benefits though

Who be dis one? Seemz your wife or gurl just anoyed you and you want to pour it on NL. Go away with your grudge!

what do you mean by friends with benefits though. I'm very sure I dint write in french!

Whichever is Cheaper

i think you should try asking her what she means by quality. quality to her may mean something diff. from what you assume. quality time may not depend on how many hours spent but the fullfilment derived by both parties from the time spent in each other's company.

i think you should try asking her what she means by quality. quality to her may mean something diff. from what you assume. quality time may not depend on how many hours spent but the fullfilment derived by both parties from the time spent in each other's company. B. Before I breath she'il say quality, ask, quality. Quality remains quality but she wudint tell the kinda quality time she wants. Mtcheew! I'm beginning to think she was coursed with that word or probably brawling for a quarell

Mr Pinkrex; You're not doing anything wrong ojare. I think that's code for 'marry me asap'. Just take your time

@Op
Quality time? Even if you stop work and make it up to 24hrs with her, she will still complain of quality time. She dosen't want to say it directly. She seems to be saying that 12hrs with you in a day or week is not enough for her. But that is not what she mean. She wants you to make commitment. Like Marry her. Once you do,you will see that 12hrs will be too much a time.  She will be the one to tell you to stay apart sometime.

Take for instance, if she comes to your house for a night, she would not want to leave in the morning because you are going to work. She would prefer you leave her in, go and come back. Whenyou visit her, she wouldn't like you people parting after the 12hrs because you are avoiding one thing or the other.

The bottom line is; She just want to "Own" you

Fear.com:

Whichever is Cheaper

hehe

@OP what you need to do is ask your babe what she really wants.

Quality time is better, you get to do fun things together. Quantity time could be so so boring. To some girls quality time can mean 'lets just cuddle and talk and be plain silly together while making each other laugh' or 'shower me with more gifts' or 'i wanna get married'!.
Rather,why not ask her what kind of quality time she wants

Now I'm beginning to see d quality time she's talking about! Marraige? No way! I never reach dat level o, A woman can't trap me lyk dat, or if she's ready to sponsor d marriage to make babies. Its cool by me oo cos I'll help make the quality children she always wants but will get married to my original wife when I'm ready. Women!!!

@OP, 12 hrs with a girl got a job