justscorchone:
If na your guy ask you for 2k now you for say money no dey

chloride6:
11k?
Send your aza let me relive your pain

pocohantas:
If your homeboy ask you for 2k now, you will tell him they never pay salary. After that you will come online to form guy-code.

You wan use 11k import pussy, them come chop you. Nobody scammed you. Any money wey man give woman for relationship be like money wey im give masquerade. It is gone.

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.

Mcslize:
Lol bro you Jonse o. Don't send money to a girl if she says she want to visit you.

When you meet a girl you like, first build a strong rapport with her to create some bonds with you. Any girl asking you for money to visit you is a typical scammer. A girl that is truly into you will never ask you for tfare to come see you. She will use her own money for tfare.

There was a lady I knew back then as at 2013 who was based in Lagos. We met online and we chat, do long hour calls on the phone and discussed so many things every passing day so much that she became so fond of me. You know all those bedroom kind of voice.

So one day she promised to come pay a visit. So I point blankly told her I have no tfare to give her and more so, there is so much stress over here just to scare her off so she won't come cuz I wasn't ready for all of those stuffs of having a lady to come crash in your house way back then. I told her they use to fetch water over here and she can't do that just to scare her off from coming. She said she is ready to fetch water even if the place is far. That by the way she was coming in a flight. Lol that I should not worry. She will handle all the bills o. Her Dad is wealthy.

I was surprised she truly wanted to come but of a truth, I wasn't ready for all of that back then. But I still discouraged her from coming in the end. She is now in USA.

So, what am I driving at? Never send a lady money to come see you if you know you've not created any bond or made her fond of you. She will disappoint you. It is only a lady you've created strong bond with that will never disappoint you if you choose to send her money. But the idea of sending a lady money in another State, town or city to come visit you is a foolish idea. Don't do it next time.

If it comes to worst, tell her to use her money, when she comes you will refund her. Shikena!

Originalsly:
Bro.... you should've come here before trying and putting them on alert to block you. Forget that money. And you still believe they are sisters? Just curious.... N11 000 transport fare.... how was she coming?

govomotors:
Mine was 7yrs ago, I met a lady online after several communication, she promised coming from school (Delsu) to Abuja for a weekend.

Then I was still paying upfront, she said her transport was 7k so I sent 10k considering the fact that she will need to eat along the way.

The morning she was to leave for Abuja, I called her to know if she have boarded the bus. She said no, I asked her what was the issue? She said how do I expect her to come without making her hair. Because I have made advance payment for transport, I accepted sending additional #5,000.

The following day she called to say she cannot make it again as exam was scheduled for that weekend. That is when I realize I played a fool of myself and the relationship ended.

My guy, move on but never again you make an upfront payment.

benzion72:
So no lady they your area, church, mosque, street na facebook contact you dey find. Bros you have low self esteem, go and work on that and stop being bitter

lefulefu:
u need to be flogged thoroghly
no doubt she and her elder sister planned it together and just scammed u
chai Randy91 wetin be ur solution to this matter
oya op take am

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.

dominique:
You're the one that wants a relationship yet you can't leave your comfort zone to go and visit her. You expect her to risk her life to embark on a dangerous journey to meet a stranger who may rape or kill her. This generation of men are very silly. Ladies continue to milk them of transport fare till they get sense.

laluski:


Wait lemme get this straight ;
1. You still have the GUTS to STILL hide her NAME from us? Like seriously?
2.obviously the money na your papa money..if u had worked for that money e.g carrying Ponpon,etc, Dem no born you well to send a girl you haven't seen that kind of money.

It's obvious you're very stupid...wait, when u come tell us for here what did you expect we'll tell you...that trully shows you're very stupid..I pity your life...continuing be stupid you hear?

Stupid fool

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11,

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.