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When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Interesting15: 6:29am On Jul 19, 2020
by Sunday Akanni

You should understand that when God created our first parents - Adam and Eve - in the Garden of Eden, He created them in and into perfection. Unfortunately, immediately they sinned against God JEHOVAH by disobeying HIM, corruption crept in. Their corrupt nature has been passed from generation to generation, and every human born of a woman keeps inheriting a corrupt flesh that is always naturally eager to do what is wrong and sin against God.

That's why even a toddler will effortlessly do the wrong thing. The human flesh finds pleasure and comfort in going contrary to the Will of God. There is no exception when it comes to issues that pertains sex and sexuality. The average person will naturally be eager (and find it pleasurable) to indulge in immoral sexual activities (including premarital sex, extramarital sex, homosexuality, masturbation and pornography, etc)

There are a lot of people out there today who can't just hold themselves from sleeping around. They have lost count of the number of people that have seen their sacred unclothedness on the bed of immorality. Unfortunately, some are still ignorant of the fact that casual sex will get them ruined sooner or later (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, stepping on the wrong toes and being murdered as an act of revenge, giving the devil and his demons the chance to afflict them severely, etc). On the other hand, there are those who are aware of the wrongness and repercussions attached to immoral sexual activities, and have been struggling to stop.


The standard of the Lord remain sure and steadfast, despite how deep our society has been dipped into the dirty pool of corruption. The Will of God is that sex should be between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. And while your flesh would always crave for what is sinful (which will eventually lead you into trouble), you must partner with God to kill the flesh and its sinful cravings and compulsions

Our weak flesh powerfully oppose our willing spirit's intentions to please God and follow the Lord Jesus in the obedience of faith. Therefore, you must be determined to fight the flesh everyday, irrespective of your current situation. Understand that God has already given us what it takes to conquer the power of our weakness - He sent Jesus Christ to give us Victory over sin and to empower us (through the Holy Spirit) to live in complete holiness and purity. Therefore, the first major step is to embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and surrender to His Lordship. Just call upon His Name wherever you are, and He will show you mercy.

When you made the wise decision to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, you will become a new creature that starts walking in newness of life, made possible by living according to the Spirit and not walking according to the dictates of your weak flesh.


When you submit yourself to be led by the Holy Spirit, He guides you into truth, and you won't be enslaved to the cravings and compulsions of your flesh. Every moment, you must keep resisting the demands of the flesh. The devil's deceitfulness makes people feel they will be happier when they gratify the sinful desires of the flesh by indulging in sinful activities like sexual immorality. However, the truth remains that, by deciding to walk according to the Will of God in purity and holiness, you are only saving yourself from the terrible consequences that comes with sin (which are meant to destroy you). These things are true.

In conclusion, the Will of God is that you should have dominion over creation, and shouldn't be a slave to anything negative. You are not meant to be a slave to your sexual urges, but should have complete control over your body. Surrender yourself wholly to the Lord Jesus, and grow in your relationship with God. Be committed to the the things of the Spirit. Create a personal system, atmosphere and environment that will keep enhancing your relationship with God and keep flourishing with ease. Discipline yourself to pray at all times; study the Bible and other Christian literature; listen to spiritual and edifying songs and watch movies that will build your faith; let your close friends be fellow Christians that will always motivate you to get closer to God; ignore the companionship of sinners and unbelievers; ignore immoral books, songs, websites, movies, etc.

God loves you.

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by hopeforcharles(m): 6:32am On Jul 19, 2020
Good morning, happy Sunday Nairalanders / Friends
An interesting read.

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by rottable(m): 6:58am On Jul 19, 2020
Happy Sunday Nairalanders....... I hope they follow your advice because I know they won't
Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Trainee223: 7:18am On Jul 19, 2020
The soul is willing but the flesh is not willing. May the Good Lord give us the strength to say no to the flesh.
To those of us still fighting the flesh I will said let's keep on fighting with faith and trusting the Lord that his grace will be sufficient for us, if you have win the flesh I will said congratulations because all this sexual immorality has no gain rather you keep on losing and losing

Happy Sunday to you all

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Vasgas: 7:23am On Jul 19, 2020
Is your all on the alter of sacrifice?
Is it laid?
Your heart does the Spirit control?
Now, you can only, you can only be blessed
And have peace and sweet rest
After you have yielded unto the Lord
Your body and your soul


Let respond to the lord in prayer....

Lord help me to continue to stand because you have said in your word "So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful
that you don't fall"

Lord renew my mind and give me freedom over flesh because you have said in0 your word that "It is the Spirit giving life; the flesh profits nothing.
The words that I speak to you are spirit and they
are life.

Always "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a
person commits are outside the body, but
whoever sins sexually, sins against their own
body"

it's flee not run

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Missyajoke(f): 8:09am On Jul 19, 2020
Happy Sunday everyone.
Sex is sex, sin is sin.
Casual oh non casual ohhh.
But wait OP you're right if it's going to take reframing of words for this people to understand then I support your actions 100%. May God bless the OP for this wonderful piece

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by DropsMic(m): 8:36am On Jul 19, 2020
Even if you stop physically...
You will continue in your mind. And the bible says this too is a sin...

Lol.

Heaven go empty walahi

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Slawormir: 10:09am On Jul 19, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright o

sex should be between a married man and his wife

What about people that won't get married in this life

So they can't bang pussy and ride dickk

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by izuch(m): 10:09am On Jul 19, 2020
This world no balance at all, Adam and Eve ate fruit thousands of years ago and I'm paying for it Tree I did not see, fruit I did not see talk more of tasting, the only snake I see are the ones lala and his goons post on NL and I must still pay for someones sin because he was created before me Oga oh undecided

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Theta1: 10:09am On Jul 19, 2020
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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Nobody: 10:09am On Jul 19, 2020
We can't stop

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by ForeThinker: 10:10am On Jul 19, 2020
Have you stopped yourself?

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by OYENIYIJK: 10:10am On Jul 19, 2020
The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with us all.... Happy Sunday

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by davidboro(m): 10:11am On Jul 19, 2020
its always easier said than done

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by TLION(m): 10:11am On Jul 19, 2020
Sex, sex, sex. shey na only sex be the worst sin for this world ni ?

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Naijaarchive(m): 10:11am On Jul 19, 2020
undecided
Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:11am On Jul 19, 2020
happy Sunday, people.




THANK YOU, JESUS.

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Unbreakable007: 10:11am On Jul 19, 2020
Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by handsomeyinka(m): 10:11am On Jul 19, 2020
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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Nobody: 10:12am On Jul 19, 2020
I no dey fuc k any toto again ooo

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by TreasureTayo(m): 10:12am On Jul 19, 2020
Ok
Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by paulolee(m): 10:13am On Jul 19, 2020
easier said than done...have tried stopping countless times bt still see myself going back to it..
have tried reading the Bible, getting my mind busy with my work but after a while I would still see myself ontop a lady on my bed..
a work colleague invited me to a party last 3 weeks and after the party she said i see her place, we had dinner and she said i sleep over at her place because its late..
she went to bed and she said i should try to sleep on her sofa to avoid temptation because she is in a strong relationship and dnt want to cheat on her fiancee and i agreed..
i remember watching movies wen i slept off on her sofa only for me to wakeup seeing her ontop of me kissing me..
i asked what's going on because i was confused and she said "she knows what she is doing isnt right, thats is a sin against GOD and his man but she just nid sex badly and she prays the lord forgives the both of us" i felt pity for her and gave in..

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Damscodammy1(m): 10:13am On Jul 19, 2020
Ok o
Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by SweetCunt97(f): 10:13am On Jul 19, 2020
Self control is important. Don't visit that brothers house cos at the back of your mind you know he's gonna lure you into sex.

Most times they start gusting about sex, how they did this, how they made this one cum all in a bid to get you thirsty. Guard thy pant ladies unless deep down u want it.

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Toks2008(m): 10:14am On Jul 19, 2020
PAUL adviced we get married if we can't control ourselves.

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by DontBullshitMe: 10:14am On Jul 19, 2020
God has more important things to worry about than how you choose to use your sex organs.

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Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Larrysung(m): 10:15am On Jul 19, 2020
hnmmm
okay
Re: When You Can't Stop Having Causal Sex by Farki: 10:15am On Jul 19, 2020
Hmm only in religion are people simultaneously made perfect yet deeply flawed.

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