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Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by alaribe1992(m): 12:49pm On Jul 23
I am an undergraduate of a high institution in Owerri, so I've been home due to the closure of schools Nationwide.

There's this girl whose mom owns a drinking bar somewhere around my street, she's an undergraduate too, but she's been home too during this lockdown. I've been seeing this girl for years but started developing feelings for her suddenly.

I approached her as a sharp guy and collected her number. She wasn't using a smart phone then, so we communicate through phone calls.
At first our conversations was smooth and sweet, and it was like a match made in heaven, we haven't gone out for a date due to she always stays in her mom's shop and her mom is a very strict woman. Her dad is late. I told this girl my mind, that I'd like us to date and she agreed.

To cut the story short

After a week she started acting strange, sometimes she wouldn't pick my calls and she won't call back, she got a smart phone and was back on WhatsApp. She replies my text late after seeing them.

On Sunday afternoon I called her and she busied my call, a friend of mine who lives opposite their shop called me on phone telling me the girl was outside their shop and was over the phone with someone for a long time. I called her again and she busied my call again, I texted her on WhatsApp to ask her what her problem was.

After a day, she replied on WhatsApp that she's sorry. Well today she just texted me that she's no longer interested in the relationship that she just wants to be left alone. Note that we haven't even had a time together all this while due to the fact I didn't want to rush things with her and she was always at her mom's shop.

I want to know how someone that likes you before just wakes up and all of a sudden no longer interested in you again without any provocation.

Thank you

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by ashewoboy(m): 12:55pm On Jul 23
let her go. no time. fvck eniqurl doing anyhow.


stupid girls. that is how they let good guys go and end up with a bad guy.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Archangel20(m): 12:55pm On Jul 23
your mind sopoze tell u say as no be u buy her the phone, another guy man don chance u... Chop and go bro

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by IceColdVeins(m): 12:57pm On Jul 23
when a rich nigga wants ya, and your nigga can't do nuttin for ya, these ho's ain't....................

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Letalkme: 12:57pm On Jul 23
Why disturbing urself over things u can't change... Leave her and face ur life... Your Life is more precious...

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by nuggarito: 12:58pm On Jul 23
You met her when she was idle, now she's busy with some random dick because she now has a smart phone.

Kindly act as if you never met her and move on, Don't kill yourself because of Nigerian girls.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by alaribe1992(m): 12:59pm On Jul 23
Archangel20:
your mind sopoze tell u say as no be u buy her the phone, another guy man don chance u... Chop and go bro





The painful thing there is I no even chop.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by alaribe1992(m): 1:06pm On Jul 23
nuggarito:
You met her when she was idle, now she's busy with some random dick because she now has a smart phone.

Kindly act as if you never met her and move on, Don't kill yourself because of Nigerian girls.





I've deleted her number, pics text msgs on my phone. It hurts tho. But as a real nigga I have to move on

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Humanoid01(m): 1:10pm On Jul 23
alaribe1992:






I've deleted her number, pics text msgs on my phone. It hurts tho. But as a real nigga I have to move on
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

You're a real niggarrr! cheesy

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by zyzxx(m): 1:17pm On Jul 23
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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by zyzxx(m): 1:21pm On Jul 23
alaribe1992:
I am an undergraduate of a high institution in Owerri, so I've been home due to the closure of schools Nationwide.
There's this girl whose mom owns a drinking bar somewhere around my street, she's an undergraduate too, but she's been home too during this lockdown. I've been seeing this girl for years but started developing feelings for her suddenly.
I approached her as a sharp guy and collected her number. She wasn't using a smart phone then, so we communicate through phone calls.
At first our conversations was smooth and sweet, and it was like a match made in heaven, we haven't gone out for a date due to she always stays in her mom's shop and her mom is a very strict woman. Her dad is late. I told this girl my mind, that I'd like us to date and she agreed.
To cut the story short
After a week she started acting strange, sometimes she wouldn't pick my calls and she won't call back, she got a smart phone and was back on WhatsApp. She replies my text late after seeing them.
On Sunday afternoon I called her and she busied my call, a friend of mine who lives opposite their shop called me on phone telling me the girl was outside their shop and was over the phone with someone for a long time. I called her again and she busied my call again, I texted her on WhatsApp to ask her what her problem was.
After a day, she replied on WhatsApp that she's sorry, Well today she just texted me that she's no longer interested in the relationship that she just wants to be left alone. Note that we haven't even had a time together all this while due to the fact I didn't want to rush things with her and she she was always at her mom's shop.
I want to know how someone that likes you before just wakes up and all of a sudden no longer interested in you again without any provocation.
thank you
grin grin grin likes you before? stop kidding yourself. she just lead you on, you got her attention then because she was available

bro, for your peace of mind sake, abeg move on fast fast

block all means she can get back to you causes she will play you till you finish

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Austeeenxx: 1:30pm On Jul 23
This is Joseph re-evaluating his life when 3 strangers visited his "virgin" wife after her delivery claiming they were from the East. To compound his problems, they even brought gifts.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by damiloladuke: 1:31pm On Jul 23
Focus on graduating brother. Girls will beg you to take them as wives

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by skyfather09(m): 1:45pm On Jul 23
ashewoboy:
let her go. no time. fvck eniqurl doing anyhow.


stupid girls. that is how they let good guys go and end up with a bad guy.
mad man... buh you right sha.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by skyfather09(m): 1:47pm On Jul 23
Bros you Bleep up... that time wey the love dey shark her, you for don nack her.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Ningen(m): 1:51pm On Jul 23
The sudden disinterest was because she was never interested in the first place. I mean this is a girl that never gave you attention whatsoever.

She treated you like extra luggage.
And acted like it was a privilege to date her.

Forget her and focus on graduating man.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by pretydiva(f): 1:55pm On Jul 23
Op no time for long story. Let her go. It's obvious she's into someone else. Unfortunately, not you

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by youngking22(m): 2:14pm On Jul 23
There is a saying, "wetin be your own be your own, wetin no be your own leave am alone". OP na O'town you dey varieties full everywhere.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by InfernoNig(m): 2:20pm On Jul 23
Hustle bro make girl nor use you see something.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Effulgent(m): 2:37pm On Jul 23
she think say you go buy am phone ni grin
But since someone else don buy am ,you not needed anymore

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Zabiboy: 2:44pm On Jul 23

Another young lad wasting his productive time chasing nonentities angry ...
OP, it's called the Light Switch Effect...
Go and do useful things with yourself...make girls nor dey use you count scores
If you know, you know

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by themaestro08(m): 2:52pm On Jul 23
If tell you will you listen and let it sink into your head? IMHO the best you can do at the moment is to let her go and walk away. It may not be easy but you will be glad you took a bold decision. Needles to say I have there and I know exactly how you feel.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by lefulefu(m): 2:54pm On Jul 23
her main guy is now around
stop wasting ur time

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by themaestro08(m): 3:21pm On Jul 23
Humanoid01:

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

You're a real niggarrr! cheesy

Slwomirr has succeed in damnn niggurlising you grin grin. What a fuckiing sheep you are grin

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Prof0fficial: 3:37pm On Jul 23
women are like cats they always like to have their shits covered. you made wrong move asking for a relationship from your neighbor.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Minsk24: 4:24pm On Jul 23
Op chaff this meat, u don miss am

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by PureGoldh(m): 4:36pm On Jul 23
Bros.....she don switch lanes....just let her be and work on ur Future

Meanwhile,my people...if you need Pure Original Honey... kindly contact O 81O16667 71 let's talk about it now...Stay blessed and safe Fam..cheers

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by seanwilliam(m): 5:08pm On Jul 23
damiloladuke:
Focus on graduating brother. Girls will beg you to take them as wives
wow so girls dey beg graduates in your village?

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by Omar09(m): 5:29pm On Jul 23
alaribe1992:

I want to know how someone that likes you before just wakes up and all of a sudden no longer interested in you again without any provocation.
thank you

SOME MEN CHASE AFTER WOMEN WHILE OTHERS CHASE THEIR DREAMS. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR WHICH TO FOLLOW, JUST REMEMBER YOUR DREAMS WILL NOT WAKE UP ONE DAY AND DECIDES, IT DOESN'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE.

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by chinedi7(m): 6:07pm On Jul 23
guy chill her mata, person wey get money don activate her release clause... Try to make better money, not because of her or any lady, but for yourself

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by luscioustrish(f): 6:24pm On Jul 23
Too many fine girls in Owerri..we fine diee wink
.
Move on please wink

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Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by IMASTEX: 6:25pm On Jul 23
Ops!

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