I am a victim of child bully back then in secondary.
I wasted more than 5 years staying indoor after my secondary.
The shame and stigma was too much for to bear.
All my classmates are graduates, some are married and living fine.
I am 30 years with just OND working in a private school.
I thought of going for my HND but i cant because i cant bear the shame.
I blamed my parents for what happend to me.
Each time i set my eyes on them i just feel like killing them but i have managed to control my anger.
They failed me as parents forgetting that the best gift a parent can give to their child is to help them build and grow their self confidence while growing up.
I have come to realised that as an adult, i have to erase that bad programming i received as a child but the guilt is killing me.
people now see me as a mentally degenerated person including my parents.
I just want to leave this country and search a better life somewhere else..
Please help me out

Ghana

On a serious note, there are many places you can relocate to WITHIN the country if your aim is to be away from people you know.

My brother jet off to UAE and join them on construction sites, I remember my time in Sharjah

LordofNaija:
My brother jet off to UAE and join them on construction sites, I remember my time in Sharjah

Even without building skills?

Sirfemisky:
I am a victim of child bully back then in secondary.
I wasted more than 5 years staying indoor after my secondary.
The shame and stigma was too much for to bear.
All my classmates are graduates, some are married and living fine.
I am 30 years with just OND working in a private school.
I thought of going for my HND but i cant because i cant bear the shame.
I blamed my parents for what happend to me.
Each time i set my eyes on them i just feel like killing them but i have managed to control my anger.
They failed me as parents forgetting that the best gift a parent can give to their child is to help them build and grow their self confidence while growing up.
I have come to realised that as an adult, i have to erase that bad programming i received as a child but the guilt is killing me.
people now see me as a mentally degenerated person including my parents.
I just want to leave this country and search a better life somewhere else..
Please help me out

It's about time you stopped blaming your parents or any other.......

Reset yourself and make best of what you have.....

With 500K, don't even contemplate relocating countries, just relocate to another state............

Comedian2019:

Even without building skills?

You don't need skills to turn concrete or do other menial jobs at construction sites under the hot desert sun

LordofNaija:

You don't need skills to turn concrete or do other menial jobs at construction sites under the hot desert sun

That phrase in bold letters is scarry

Lexusgs430:


It's about time you stopped blaming your parents or any other.......

Reset yourself and make best of what you have.....

With 500K, don't even contemplate relocating countries, just relocate to another state............

....
I want to leave this evil country and goto sane country.
Our parents and leaders have failed us and they have nothing tangible to offer.
Is time to leave

Sirfemisky:
....
I want to leave this evil country and goto sane country.
Our parents and leaders have failed us and they have nothing tangible to offer.
Is time to leave

500k post corona may not be able to buy tickets anywhere. 500k too small unless u wan go Liberia lol

Dat money can only take u to SUDAN.....

Op hmmm you are not alone on the parents-related frustration.

Mind may be serious than yours. Infact mind was that I used my own savings to process admission only to be frustrated by my Uncle. As if that wasn't enough, my elder brother sold all my produce which I banked on to finance my education.

But today, I have graduated, graduate my younger brother and my mom is living with me since the dead of my father.

You only need to trust in God and leave the past where it belongs.

Sirfemisky:
I am a victim of child bully back then in secondary.
I wasted more than 5 years staying indoor after my secondary.
The shame and stigma was too much for to bear.
All my classmates are graduates, some are married and living fine.
I am 30 years with just OND working in a private school.
I thought of going for my HND but i cant because i cant bear the shame.
I blamed my parents for what happend to me.
Each time i set my eyes on them i just feel like killing them but i have managed to control my anger.
They failed me as parents forgetting that the best gift a parent can give to their child is to help them build and grow their self confidence while growing up.
I have come to realised that as an adult, i have to erase that bad programming i received as a child but the guilt is killing me.
people now see me as a mentally degenerated person including my parents.
I just want to leave this country and search a better life somewhere else..
Please help me out

Please understand firstly that 500,000 NGN is equal to approximately 1200 USD.

With that being said, I am not mincing words in saying that 1200usd is completely inadequate for any "legal" process that can lift you out the shores of Africa. In fact in some cases it's not even enough for your flight ticket.

However 1200usd can conveniently facilitate you migrating to another African country. For example, Ivory coast or Botswana.

Fyi, Africa has some pretty decent countries, that are not bad to migrate to... personally, I really fancy Namibia.

LordofNaija:
My brother jet off to UAE and join them on construction sites, I remember my time in Sharjah

With 500k ??
How much is flight money

LordofNaija:

You don't need skills to turn concrete or do other menial jobs at construction sites under the hot desert sun

How much were you paid then

Sirfemisky:
I am a victim of child bully back then in secondary.
I wasted more than 5 years staying indoor after my secondary.
The shame and stigma was too much for to bear.
All my classmates are graduates, some are married and living fine.
I am 30 years with just OND working in a private school.
I thought of going for my HND but i cant because i cant bear the shame.
I blamed my parents for what happend to me.
Each time i set my eyes on them i just feel like killing them but i have managed to control my anger.
They failed me as parents forgetting that the best gift a parent can give to their child is to help them build and grow their self confidence while growing up.
I have come to realised that as an adult, i have to erase that bad programming i received as a child but the guilt is killing me.
people now see me as a mentally degenerated person including my parents.
I just want to leave this country and search a better life somewhere else..
Please help me out

Add 700k and go conveniently
Don't let any one scam or deceive you 500k can't take you to any sane county the money looks heavy here but it's just stipend in some countries

optimusprime2:


Please understand firstly that 500,000 NGN is equal to approximately 1200 USD.

With that being said, I am not mincing words in saying that 1200usd is completely inadequate for any "legal" process that can lift you out the shores of Africa. In fact in some cases it's not even enough for your flight ticket.

However 1200usd can conveniently facilitate you migrating to another African country. For example, Ivory coast or Botswana.

Fyi, Africa has some pretty decent countries, that are not bad to migrate to... personally, I really fancy Namibia.

I love your analysis. I am more interested in your recommendation cuz Namibia.

Please do you have more and deep info on the country especially how easy I would be to secure a job or get down with business, cost of living, security and how friendly the people are?

ZINIBANKS:

How much were you paid then

Travel and see fess

LordofNaija:

Travel and see fess

Oh ok I guess it's not a good pay

Comedian2019:

That phrase in bold letters is scarry

Yes but that the Truth

LordofNaija:

You don't need skills to turn concrete or do other menial jobs at construction sites under the hot desert sun

that's bad advice, no sane man will survive that job in 6 month with temperature of 40 to 50 degree and that's the reason we see most of nigerian fighting other nationality in dubai due to this hard labor job, those type of job are slavery job except you willing to risk it all.

500k can't really take you anywhere meaningful my guy. That's just $1,200

My advice: Use the 500k to start up a good business or monetize your skill here in Nigeria(or even learn one). You can also move to Ghana or Benin Republic if you're after stable light and good roads.

Another option is to move to another state or area if where you are currently isn't conducive.

I dey relate you as e dey be so you won't get stranded anywhere because of your eagerness to jp from Naija.

Samsideen1:
that's bad advice, no sane man will survive that job in 6 month with temperature of 40 to 50 degree and that's the reason we see most of nigerian fighting other nationality in dubai due to this hard labor job, those type of job are slavery job except you willing to risk it all.

Have you been in UAE before, abi you dey house know wetin sell for market

I wish u can just go back 4 ur HND nd become a graduate in just 2 years dis will help one way or d other in boosting ur self esteem nd after dat u can get a job nd tink of relocating.Moreover, u can go 2 a school very far away frm home


With 500k u just wat 2 go nd suffer in any country u find urself,expect u av sum1 overder

500k can't take you anywhere.

azadus18:
Dat money can only take u to SUDAN.....

I don laugh tire. Nairanders no get joy walai.

OP you need to snap out of the mental cage you've put yourself into. What exactly is your problem?

With the current state of Nigeria, everyone is venturing into one business or another upon the realisation that their degrees and masters are utterly USELESS! How many people are gainfully employed? Who gives a fvck whether you have an OND or HND? Those with masters and even PHd are jobless and having to fend for themselves through business.

Now, instead of you to focus on how you can learn a skill and create a life for yourself, you're here lamenting about lack of HND or what not..

Wake up bro.

Sirfemisky:
....
I want to leave this evil country and goto sane country.
Our parents and leaders have failed us and they have nothing tangible to offer.
Is time to leave

you can relocate to ivory coast

LordofNaija:
My brother jet off to UAE and join them on construction sites, I remember my time in Sharjah

can I join u with 700k because I am a university graduate of civil Engineer

Elogy:
can I join u with 700k because I am a university graduate of civil Engineer

My brother fold your cert keep for house before coming

LordofNaija:

My brother fold your cert keep for house before coming

Think I love this.

The most useless possession ever is a having a Nigerian Certificate.

What a question