I fell ill and told my babe. Fast Forward yesterday I couldn't go to work. I stay in ABA and she in Owerri. I told her tho that I'm at home because I was ill. I was surprised when later in the day she called and said she was at my gate.
I welcomed her and asked her politely that she should have called before coming that it's a good Courtsey and she became paranoid. She wanted to go back home but I had to beg her before she became calm. She said she wanted to surprise me and if im not cheating on her.. why should I request for a call before hand..
Please nairalanders.. what do you think

adaperry25:
I fell ill and told my babe. Fast Forward yesterday I couldn't go to work. I stay in ABA and she in Owerri. I told her tho that I'm at home because I was ill. I was surprised when later in the day she called and said she was at my gate.
I welcomed her and asked her politely that she should have called before coming that it's a good Courtsey and she became paranoid. She wanted to go back home but I had to beg her before she became calm. She said she wanted to surprise me and if im not cheating on her.. why should I request for a call before hand..
Please nairalanders.. what do you think

She is insecure.
She loves you but has heard too many stories from her "board of gossip girlfriends" so she decided to catch you red-handed.

You have to be mature and play it cool. Assure her and make her feel secure even if you are boiling on the inside with anger, just smile outwardly and try to understand.

Lastly, next time don't tell her anything.

You should be grabbed by the Neck and given Several Hot Slaps

I fell ill and told my babe.

imaging she didn't call or show up it might be another story ,she's a good girl with good hrt
some guys are praying to hv girl like this while you are here complaining

I was surprised when later in the day she called and said she was at my gate.

what surprised you , she take your health serious

1beat:

I fell ill and told my babe.

imaging she didn't call or show up it might be another story ,she's a good girl with good hrt
some guys are praying to hv girl like this while you are here complaining

I was surprised when later in the day she called and said she was at my gate.

what surprised you , she take your health serious

I am sure she gave a reason for her surprised visit which was to ensure he wasn't cheating and not because of his health concern...

Or did I not read well ??

KaBabs1:
Well in my opinion, the only thing you did wrong is settling for an unemployed lady who should have been busy at work in a slouched position, neck craned and head buried deep in work. I hope you didn't further disgrace us by giving her transport fare for her return journey back to Owerri?

well I did give her the transport fare because she's leaving today..I'm not that blunt..My issue is she hardly accepts corrections.. She'll want to turn tables around to shift blames which I've told her countless times..it's really getting me worked up..when she came yesterday she saw my younger brother working on my generator and I introduced him to her..I told her my siblings pass a notice before coming to visit and she said lovers and siblings are different

Ok

DaddyRochie1642:
You should be grabbed by the Neck and given Several Hot Slaps

Then afterwards grabbed by his manhood and flogged there severally too..

adaperry25:
I fell ill and told my babe. Fast Forward yesterday I couldn't go to work. I stay in ABA and she in Owerri. I told her tho that I'm at home because I was ill. I was surprised when later in the day she called and said she was at my gate.
I welcomed her and asked her politely that she should have called before coming that it's a good Courtsey and she became paranoid. She wanted to go back home but I had to beg her before she became calm. She said she wanted to surprise me and if im not cheating on her.. why should I request for a call before hand..
Please nairalanders.. what do you think

She is right, if you don't have any skeleton in your cupboard you won't be thinking like that. Owerri to Aba is not a 10 mins journey and instead of you to appreciate her visit, you are more concern about petty things

adaperry25:
I fell ill and told my babe. Fast Forward yesterday I couldn't go to work. I stay in ABA and she in Owerri. I told her tho that I'm at home because I was ill. I was surprised when later in the day she called and said she was at my gate.
I welcomed her and asked her politely that she should have called before coming that it's a good Courtsey and she became paranoid. She wanted to go back home but I had to beg her before she became calm. She said she wanted to surprise me and if im not cheating on her.. why should I request for a call before hand..
Please nairalanders.. what do you think

Take your damn relationship off Nairaland before some group of persons will come and make u useless (lose what u have going on) with their opinions.
Soon u will turn a simp for giving her tfare.
They will soon arrive.