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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Tsolutionifede(m): 10:13pm On Jul 31
merieam16:
Fake story. i kno is a guy under dat moniker
everything is fake to some people, like u people are dead psychologically
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by BOOKWORMLUX(m): 10:13pm On Jul 31
Jesus has better qualities.
Nairalanders please love your neighbors!
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by omooba969(m): 10:13pm On Jul 31
Funmzy30:
I will advise you to stay with you guy ooo.... instead of the new guy....but is your choice .

She needs to follow her heart.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by toye440: 10:14pm On Jul 31
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

women....

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by brightovio007(m): 10:14pm On Jul 31
Aunty, well do wetin dey your mind, just remember say indecisiveness nor go take u go anywhere.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by eni4real(m): 10:14pm On Jul 31
You are a greedy girl..

You will still meet another guy who will be better than the current Mr Perfect!!

I hope you have a 'Boyfriends Savings account'!!

Keep jumping to the next guy after the current one has upgraded you!

You re not ready for a stable Relationship obviously...

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by rawitools: 10:14pm On Jul 31
dukeprince50:
dont go and make up ur mind, be here doing DELAYtionship and decamping from one man to the other every three months till u turn 35,
dicey dice u there, Rubbish
I wish I could like your post 2million times. Nonsense unstable mind

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ValeeLove(m): 10:14pm On Jul 31
What if you accept the new guy and you see another guy with a better better quality than him?

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Jaqenhghar: 10:15pm On Jul 31
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

Nobody here can tell you what is right and what is wrong. If you feel this guy is worth taking a shot with , go for it. If it doesn't work out dont beat yourself. Everything na risk

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ovieigho(m): 10:15pm On Jul 31
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.


The new guy is what I called “ Charmer” I have a charismatic friend like that , he has succeeded in playing his game well and left you in turmoil like you have said , but believe me he is not done with you yet
Until he has his way in your kitty pie
Most at times their kind have bad motives

Don’t stick to your boyfriend o
It’s your type they come after because you have someone you still stick your long neck outside looking for what’s not lost angry angry

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ojuu4u(m): 10:15pm On Jul 31
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Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.



Do not have male as bestie you guys say NO! There is no way u will be opened to two or more options that you won't see flaws in the one you choose initially, let me tell u fact, you have seen both sides of ur boyfriend but only one side of ur spare tyre + bestie+.

Yoruba says if woman doesn't try two husbands she won't knw the better one.

You are still single, you still have options. Go with who ever you like and desire, but not all that glitter that is Gold sha o

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by stanliwise(m): 10:15pm On Jul 31
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

Am a guy and I can tell you that guy has used one of the format in a playboy book and it is working. Don’t say I didn’t warn you!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by tfash96(m): 10:16pm On Jul 31
You'll surely find someone better than your partner in one way or the other .. It's just spirit of commitment you need..What if you find another guy better than the one you want to go with now.. You'll still leave that one right? To what end you'll continue jumping from one guy to another.. U see in this life nobody's perfect o.. Who told you your boyfriend hasn't seen at least a girl better than you as well.. Has he been using that to break up with you? We just have to be managing one another no one is perfect

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by alklas(m): 10:16pm On Jul 31
Believe it or not d new guy is putting his personal interest first if he loves u he won't stop talking to u but b a guide

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by andyanders: 10:16pm On Jul 31
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!


You are damn right. Fear women.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ymstar(m): 10:16pm On Jul 31
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!
cheesy

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by braine(m): 10:16pm On Jul 31
What if you meet a new person again afetr dumping your bf for this new guy?

There is always going to be someone finer, richer, very well spoken than your partner.

Learn how to move your face to the other side when confronted with things like this.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Mist123: 10:17pm On Jul 31
angry
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Bamss1: 10:17pm On Jul 31
Theres always a better partner out there, but how long are we going to continue changing our partners? Hold on to your man my friend .

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by stanliwise(m): 10:17pm On Jul 31
ovieigho:


The new guy is what I called “ Charmer” I have a charismatic friend like that , he has succeeded in playing his game well and left you in turmoil like you have said , but believe me he is not done with you yet
Until he has his way in your kitty pie
Most at times their kind have bad motives

Don’t stick to your boyfriend o
It’s your type they come after because you have someone you still stick your long neck outside looking for what’s not lost angry angry
You na sabi guy jare. You understand the format wella, so sad say the Op is not on alert.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by TrippleEEE: 10:17pm On Jul 31
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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:18pm On Jul 31
how difficult is it to solve this problem?! dump your bf and date the new guy na... you'll do yourself (and most importantly, your current bf) a big favor

all these new profiles and their funky stories sef!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Sensitivity(m): 10:18pm On Jul 31
Calm down, lady grin
You better stay with the first guy

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by isaiahethan: 10:18pm On Jul 31
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

You said it all, God bless you
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Curvinus(m): 10:18pm On Jul 31
The world is already sliding into degeneracy. So why bother.

Op just do whats on your mind, but here are some of the pros and cons if you decide to go with the new guy.

The cons:
1. Other ladies would also see him as their dream man so expect fierce cmpetition and possibly lots of cheating.

2. There is a possibility that the guy's genetics is superior to yours and he may soon be on the lookout for a match.

3. He may not also be willing to inconvenience himself financially or otherwise to ensure your comfort.

4. He may not be emotionally available in the long run.

5. Our society will not hold him accountable if he decides to become a deadbeat.


THE PROS:

Much as there are donwsides to dating him, here are some of the upsides;

1. He would constantly give you the tingles at least until you meet another stud or he decides to leave.

2. Any offspring from the affair would be very pleasing to you.

3. He might push you beyond your limits to be a better person.

4. Your friends would always say nice things about him and tell you how lucky you are to have him.

5. You would be following your gut instincts and instincts are never wrong.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Plebian(f): 10:18pm On Jul 31
Forget all this judgemental @zz sad men name calling you. Be absolutely shameless go for what you want. There are too many mediocre things in life and love shouldn't be one of them! I'm telling you this as I'd allow myself dive into the unknown with the most intense lover I've ever been with. Remember honey life's short,, live on the edge, taste life shamelessly.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Openbusiness4: 10:19pm On Jul 31
Ok! Guys are u learning now? Wen u c a finer girl with bigger yansh, boobs n curves, an she is eloquent, juz dump ur current gf cuz as u can c, dey will dump u 2 if dey had d chance. Shey dey dunt wana b loyal, let everybody b disloyal togeda till everybody af sense cheesy

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:19pm On Jul 31
Bamss1:
Theres always a better partner out there, but how long are we going to continue changing our partners? Hold on to your man my friend .

what man in his right mind wants such liability as a gf...?! good riddance to bad rubbish.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by mariahAngel: 10:19pm On Jul 31
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.


Is your boyfriend boring?
Are or were you and your boyfriend having issues?
Did you both not spend enough time together?
At what point did you start giving the new guy more attention to the point of developing feelings for him?

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by eteforlor(m): 10:19pm On Jul 31
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.


The new guy you are dying for will used and dump you. And it will end in premium tears. Better remain with your bf.

The new guy never toes you and you are already telling him how you have feelings for him. Use your common sense

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by winkmart: 10:20pm On Jul 31
Fry pan to.....
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by andyanders: 10:20pm On Jul 31
Op is among ladies that would always commit adultery while still married.

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