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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by roybanjo100(m): 8:25pm On Aug 01
no worry, guys wey sabi go help u do the job, shebi u wan wait till 5 years abi?

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 8:25pm On Aug 01
alexistaiwo:
Bros, talk true.
You, me and every other OGs on this thread know the babe never reach 18.

Murdafvcking pedophile!
She's 18.. And I rude pass you. So chill mate. Even if I lie,you go fit beat me? I dey fear you?

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by merieam16(f): 8:26pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:

I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.
hmm...er u telling me that those few u've deflowered u didnt at that time love them or wanting to marry them?

Anyways, u deflower her or not that doesnt guarantee u guys getting married.So its left 4 u to decide either doin wat d devil asks u to do or follow d right path by letting d girl be so she focus on her future

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by hashtagged: 8:42pm On Aug 01
Petyprincess:
Please pay her bride price b4 taking someone's daughter virginity!!! If you dnt end up together then you not meant to be!!
Dnt take her innocence all in the name of i dnt wanna loose out!!
I doubt that girl is 18 she's probably underage.

He isnt taking it, shes offering it to him?
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by hashtagged: 8:43pm On Aug 01
WoundedLamb:


The grown up man who goes around deflowering teens is not a hoe. Only the young girl is called names.

#SayNoToSexism

They were not forced undecided
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by hashtagged: 8:46pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:

Read my post again.
I love the girl,I want to marry her.
I still wanna be her first.
Not doing it now puts me at risk of losing that.

I probably cant give an advise cause ........

But if you love her you would do whats best for her, not by your own greed, there is a high chance she will leave you and loose it to another man, she is 18 after all, but love means doing whats best even if you dont end uo with her take her welfare into consideration, dont disvirgin her.

how was my speech

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Dayoebe(m): 8:49pm On Aug 01
After eating the forbidden fruit, what next?
You think taking her flower will make her 100% yours?
You should be thinking of what may benefit you and her even if you eventually marry her.

you can't keep a girl in her prime with 'just' preeq

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by hashtagged: 8:51pm On Aug 01
XiaomiFanBoy:


Your speech was and is fantabulously stoopid.


Ok am going to get a bear, it was a long shot though, too much telenovelas have gotten to me
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by hashtagged: 8:55pm On Aug 01
XiaomiFanBoy:


Zee world should teach you to be a player. Not teach you to prime your field for another man to reap.

Nah, zee world teaches you to be a hopeless romantic, while life teaches you to be a real man and never take shit from ladies

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by gift2xl: 8:56pm On Aug 01
Dude do u love her completely or do you love her because she's a virgin. Sincerely I dislike that job, to deflower a woman.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by hashtagged: 8:58pm On Aug 01
gift2xl:
Dude do u love her completely or do you love her because she's a virgin. Sincerely I dislike that job, to deflower a woman.

Ill make a bet when he sleeps with her he will loose intrest in her.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Crownstar01: 9:00pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:
Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.
Not a big deal. If she really wants you to deflower her, then you have to do so.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by gift2xl: 9:01pm On Aug 01
hashtagged:


Ill make a bet when he sleeps with her he will loose intrest in her.


He's likely to do such. Because base on his read, his love is based on the girl's virginity.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OscarJaden(m): 9:07pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:
Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.
she's just dating you cus she hasn't seen a higher bidder,so if you wanna disvirgin her den go ahead,it your choice
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Heartlessbanker: 9:18pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:
Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.
fake story
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by tnerro1(m): 9:31pm On Aug 01
Bros, chop the flower very well, if after you still feel guilty, come for more consultations
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Christiano25(m): 9:32pm On Aug 01
Exactly. For him to have the mind of taking the girl Virginity because he doesn’t want to lose her is totally wrong. Wait ooo how you go feel if na your sister bro
Petyprincess:

You dnt deserve her!! So you have taken many girls virginity and still want to take this one abi?
Hw i wish i can get that kiddo number and talk sense into her head!!
At her age you should be concerned about her education not taking her virginity!! Hw will you feel if she was your sister?
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by nappy760(m): 9:34pm On Aug 01
If you being her first will make you make heaven..... grin please go ahead
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Sixfeetbelle: 9:41pm On Aug 01
Dew04:
FamousMonk, how do you plead? grin

grin grin grin

He decided to plead the fifth
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Nicepoker(m): 9:42pm On Aug 01
you want to useless that innocent girl.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Freelane33(m): 9:43pm On Aug 01
20 years sentence is smelling on the ops head
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Sixfeetbelle: 9:43pm On Aug 01
lograr:


grin grin grin

Imagine the audacity.

In this era of scarce virgins and a nigga is passing through them like ping-pong ball.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Ayemileto(m): 9:44pm On Aug 01
According to the story, the girl never wanted to have sex yet, till after marriage.

But so far, OP has successfully brainwashed her into giving in to his demands, and that's probably why his conscience is disturbing him, making him come here for "support".

OP isn't looking for advise, he only needs people to support/encourage him so he can convince himself that what he wants to do isn't bad.

But not minding how much encouragement you get from this forum, it's only you that will bear whatever consequence that comes after the romp. None of those who supported you will be there then.



FamousMonk:

I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.

Also, you appear to be a selfish self centred individual. It appears you are much more concerned about the "Virginity" than the lady herself.

All those ladies you claimed to have deflowered before, is it not someone that will marry them?

Then why should you be scared that you may lose out on this one, even if you really want to marry her?

Or you want to marry a virgin, or be your wife's "first" but you are going around deflowering as many ladies as possible, and making them hoes for their husbands?

You see, having sex with a lady who isn't mentally or emotionally ready for it is like loosing a nut on her head. That few minutes enjoyment will only make her a hoe, and she'll never be able to recover from it.

The reason is because after enjoying it, she will want to keep enjoying it and exploring as much as she can. And when you're no longer available, or able to keep up with her demands for it, she'll find an alternative. And the more alternative she finds, the more slutty she becomes.

And at the end of the day, you'll never marry her, because you'll catch her cheating on you over and over again, and on each occasion, she'll keep apologizing.

But not minding how much she apologize or regret cheating on you, she won't be able to stop the habit, because she's enjoying the slut spirit you planted into her.

Finally, you won't be able to keep up with the heartbreaks...

...And you won't marry her...

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Ategberoson(m): 9:46pm On Aug 01
give me her number let me advise her

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Sixfeetbelle: 9:48pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:

Read my post again.
I love the girl,I want to marry her.
I still wanna be her first.
Not doing it now puts me at risk of losing that.

Marry her and stop this "ill lose out" mentality. This decision is not that hard. Shebi you love her and she loves you, this is the best way to show it.

Forget deflowering her tomorrow and convey marriage plans to her. Some of my secondary school classmates married before they got into the university.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Go5DY(m): 9:48pm On Aug 01
Rgade:

grin
You no well I swear.
Dey do you no well for there. Your eye go clear that time. Girls/women are complicated.
Dont even try to understand them because if you do that means(die dey hungry u b dat)
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Sixfeetbelle: 9:51pm On Aug 01
hashtagged:


Ill make a bet when he sleeps with her he will loose intrest in her.

What are the stakes?

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 9:53pm On Aug 01
Ayemileto:
According to the story, the girl never wanted to have sex yet, till after marriage.

But so far, OP has successfully brainwashed her into giving in to his demands, and that's probably why his conscience is disturbing him, making him come here for "support".

OP isn't looking for advise, he only needs people to support/encourage him so he can convince himself that what he wants to do isn't bad.

But not minding how much encouragement you get from this forum, it's only you that will bear whatever consequence that comes after the romp. None of those who supported you will be there then.





Also, you appear to be a selfish self centred individual. It appears you are much more concerned about the "Virginity" than the lady herself.

All those ladies you claimed to have deflowered before, is it not someone that will marry them?

Then why should you be scared that you may lose out on this one, even if you really want to marry her?

Or you want to marry a virgin, or be your wife's "first" but you are going around deflowering as many ladies as possible, and making them hoes for their husbands?

You see, having sex with a lady who isn't mentally or emotionally ready for it is like loosing a nut on her head. That few minutes enjoyment will only make her a hoe, and she'll never be able to recover from it.

The reason is because after enjoying it, she will want to keep enjoying it and exploring as much as she can. And when you're no longer available, or able to keep up with her demands for it, she'll find an alternative. And the more alternative she finds, the more slutty she becomes.

And at the end of the day, you'll never marry her, because you'll catch her cheating on you over and over again, and on each occasion, she'll keep apologizing.

But not minding how much she apologize or regret cheating on you, she won't be able to stop the habit, because she's enjoying the slut spirit you planted into her.

Finally, you won't be able to keep up with the heartbreaks...

...And you won't marry her...
You've made a lot of sense bro..
I really love this girl and won't wanna lose her.
I totally agree with you and I take every word seriously.
But bro,someone else might do it..
That is my fear..

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 9:54pm On Aug 01
hashtagged:


I probably cant give an advise cause ........

But if you love her you would do whats best for her, not by your own greed, there is a high chance she will leave you and loose it to another man, she is 18 after all, but love means doing whats best even if you dont end uo with her take her welfare into consideration, dont disvirgin her.

how was my speech
Thanks bro,I have a lot of thinking to do tonight.

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