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Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by IntersexSherry: 7:19pm On Aug 01
Ya i'm a hermaphrodite by nature. I have undergone men struggle and women struggle. Been perceived as many things, some perceive me to be a man, woman, gay, lesbian, trans, witch, many other things. Many people keep away from me because of ignorance and fear. I get lot of death threats. Some see me as a laughing stock. I have been sexually molested by both men and women. I have also been verbally abused, faced lot of society rejection, job rejection, peer group rejection, family rejection. I have lost lot of people when they get to find out about me. I have dealt with lot of loneliness and depression and lot of health problems. Wish some day people can get enlightened about us, we are very rare so never taken seriously. My whole life has been traumatized that i think of suicide 24/7. I don't know what gives me the strength to survive all this.
I only try my best to bring awareness on this issue because i still see all the false perception people have about us. Please no one should message me, the other ones who have tried messaging me, i really got disappointed that all they aim at is trying to flirt with me instead of educating themselves and help spread awareness. If you want to learn about intersex, visit my page on Facebook ''intersex sherry Nigeria'' all your questions should be related to learning about intersex, any questions relating to sex and dating, i will totally ignore it. Its so sad many people don't have human compassion for others who have been through a lot like myself. I just don't want anyone to go through all i pass through. For me, my life is over. Its your decision to learn or not but i have just passed my message.

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Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by 1StopRudeness: 7:42pm On Aug 01
What makes u an hermaphrodite?? Because these days, what we have are tons of transgenders and opposite sex-wannabes claiming the space of intersex people....
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by hisgrace090: 7:50pm On Aug 01
Look into God and move on!
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by WonderWoman5775: 8:09pm On Aug 01
I just read about what intersex means and saw your page online, it seems like a real struggle
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by IntersexSherry: 8:12pm On Aug 01
WonderWoman5775:
I just read about what intersex means and saw your page online, it seems like a real struggle
my dear its a nightmare.
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by WonderWoman5775: 8:15pm On Aug 01
IntersexSherry:
my dear its a nightmare.
Pele
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by IntersexSherry: 8:32pm On Aug 01
WonderWoman5775:

Pele
thats why am alone because am different. You know the way Nigerians treat people who are different so i have very few people in my life. Like 10 and am content. They are all understanding and open mindes. Lot of people are so mean and bad
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by WonderWoman5775: 8:38pm On Aug 01
IntersexSherry:
thats why am alone because am different. You know the way Nigerians treat people who are different so i have very few people in my life. Like 10 and am content. They are all understanding and open mindes. Lot of people are so mean and bad
I hope your family understands you and love you the way you are
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by IntersexSherry: 8:43pm On Aug 01
WonderWoman5775:

I hope your family understands you and love you the way you are
ya my parents and sibling only. The other family members don't
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by WonderWoman5775: 9:16pm On Aug 01
IntersexSherry:
ya my parents and sibling only. The other family members don't
Just find peace within your self and try to live a quiet life and stay away from trouble
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by IntersexSherry: 9:21pm On Aug 01
WonderWoman5775:

Just find peace within your self and try to live a quiet life and stay away from trouble
if only i can treat myself. Its very easy but no one to help me.am stuck cry cry cry
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by IntersexSherry: 9:23pm On Aug 01
WonderWoman5775:

Just find peace within your self and try to live a quiet life and stay away from trouble
yes i live a quiet life. I just mind my business. I don't go about chasing anyone. Im always isolated because many people don't understand me. Its them that look for my trouble, as am walking on the road they are staring at me and calling me names but no problem. God dey

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Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by alphaRego01(m): 9:33pm On Aug 01
IntersexSherry:
yes i live a quiet life. I just mind my business. I don't go about chasing anyone. Im always isolated because many people don't understand me. Its them that look for my trouble, as am walking on the road they are staring at me and calling me names but no problem. God dey













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For ur own good
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by Friso: 10:41pm On Aug 01
JESUS LOVES YOU

YOU ARE FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE IN THE IMAGE OF GOD AND LIKENESS.

DONT KILL YOURSELF.

JESUS REALLY LOVES U.
THE PEACE AND REST U FIND CAN ONLY BE FOUND IN JESUS.
Re: Its Not Easy Being Me (A hermaphrodite) by Amhappy(f): 8:46am On Aug 02
Have you checked for a foundation,NGO that can help you get surgery if you need it and a normal life.

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