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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 12:17am On Aug 07, 2020
Hiss I get this a lot. Impotency ? Baba ever since I entered university in 2007 all the Girlfriends I have had , have done at least 1 abortion for me. I can do what any fool can do . I chose not to bring my unborn children to this world. Yes I love them so much to not let them future in this pointless rat race.

I know most humans can’t break free of their programing that’s why rich people treat their children as commodities and playing with their life.

You will always be a slave to anyone richer than you. Yet you want your children to continue this foolishness Oga o. It’s sad that people think like this.

Ugaboy:
sorry sir, i dont mean to say this to a fellow man like me, i will spill as if im choked, stop justifying impotency if you are one...adopt a child, unicef can provide u quality child from their joint NG0, you will grow old and you will need a responsible child who can take care of your old age also whom you can trust your property on.
dont let ignorance rub you from seeing the light . I know how dark it is to u.
"mottor me okuk ikomo owo papa ameyong"..."ikpong idehe owo"
if you hav a child stop giving us wrong insight.

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Nobody: 12:18am On Aug 07, 2020
Ugaboy:
What advice will u reachout to those who cannot afford to raise their kids abroad. you have a good message, does your opinion really count.
we have been living this way, we hope to improve beyond our standard, The undesirable situation in Nigeria wont stop us from raising our better kids n beyond the standard we were unable to attain.
let's stop putting and fishing blames to government, "work out your salvation yourself, stop waiting for government before u become a better person, you make government depend on you for helps". If we all are advice to run out of this country, who will build your fatherland or village, we grow by joining hands together and not criticism and blames.
LET A BETTER NIGERIA BEGINS FROM YOU, MAKE IT A DUTY TO RAISE YOUR KID IN WAYS THAT THEY WONT CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETAL PROBLEM.
This country has been in doom even before you were born
And for you to think it gonna be better soon or later is clearly impossible
Cause we black especially our leaders in Nigeria have poor leading skills what they care about is how to loot Money
Imagine the minister of finance saying they spent 500m feeding schools during the Lock down
And whereas they were no opening of schools and churches during the pandemic
Just do your kids that favor of not raising them here
They will later be grateful to you in the near future

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Nobody: 12:19am On Aug 07, 2020
Oluromantic:
If your parents were thinking this way, you won't be typing this today.
Honestly bro
Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Nobody: 12:31am On Aug 07, 2020
I'm not having kids

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 12:32am On Aug 07, 2020
You’re yet to say why non existence is a bad thing.
ZINIBANKS:

Honestly bro

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 12:35am On Aug 07, 2020
Your unborn children will pray for you. I’m sure they will be grateful for your decision not to bring them here only suffer , run after money ,grow old, fall sick , die. You sir are a selfless fellow .
Heartlessbanker:
I'm not having kids

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 12:42am On Aug 07, 2020
I hear you bro. I have an idea of what to sell many foolish people because they will never stop breeding children they can’t feed let alone know what horrible things awaits them in this world. Let use them and make money like Jeff of Amazon. They exist just to chase money and spend it on mostly useless stuff they don’t need. I will make sure I take advantage of this endless baby factory and money off them that’s what they are useful for.

#stopmakingslaves
#stoppointlesssuffering
#sellbabystufftostupidpeople
Westernlove:
I hope you aren't talking to Shiithole Zombies? If so you are just wasting your precious limited time. If I were you, I would channel my precious time, data and energy Into research on how to keep on manipulating and capitalizing on these Id.iots and destitutes(Skyrocketing Population) more. Have you ever seen the likes of Tinubu and co or those multi-billionaires and millionaires complain about the sorry situation of Shiithole. You are on a lost course.....You better wake up before and make your own Fortune before the Anarchy reach the maximum level.......I used to think and sympathize like you way years back but now I've acquireda lot of Wisdom and classified Insight Into how this world operates and exactly what Is happening In Nigeria......Right now as I'm typing, Many people are currently making BABIES lol......

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:26am On Aug 07, 2020
@Op your unique ideals are unnatural for us OK. Go abroad where you'll find ur fellow Anti-natalists
Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 1:51am On Aug 07, 2020
Ok o. Thanks for advice. people with natural idea , naturally continue to breed more slaves in the SHitHOle.
SweetCunt97:
@Op your unique ideals are unnatural for us OK. Go abroad where you'll find ur fellow Anti-natalists

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Ugaboy: 7:24am On Aug 07, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

This country has been in doom even before you were born
And for you to think it gonna be better soon or later is clearly impossible
Cause we black especially our leaders in Nigeria have poor leading skills what they care about is how to loot Money
Imagine the minister of finance saying they spent 500m feeding schools during the Lock down
And whereas they were no opening of schools and churches during the pandemic
Just do your kids that favor of not raising them here
They will later be grateful to you in the near future
i will give them a better life, but that wont make neglect nigeria for leaders who wont live for ever. That of 500m, the FG made fool of us all...i wonder the kids they fed during lockdown, non picture, video, or news projected then to bring to our notice.
it a pity.
Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 9:27am On Aug 07, 2020
Sir if I may ask.
Are you a parent?

I have no doubt that most parents will do the best they can for their children. But did the children ask them for any of this?

It’s a fascinating thing that humans recall the pleasure and positive experiences more than they can remember the pain and negative experiences.

The brain protects us from honestly judging our own experience overtime that why a Nigerian no matter the pointless suffering and how poor they are will tell themselves that they have lived a great life even tho it’s not compared to an average person from a place like eg Denmark .

Every country have their own problems, the earth is horrible place to life in general and constantly try to kill us.

Is bringing a brand new human to join in this madness a good idea ?

Even tho this is basically their faith .
Birth —-> struggle though life——-> die a slow and painful death (more often than not) or fast and abruptly die for an accident or murder .

All of This can be avoided. We live in a world where we fight over a finite amount resources with a system that train you to work as money slave until you die , Making more humans in a soon to be overpopulated world , unjust wars are constantly being fought all over the world and people keep repopulating the once who will kill others and the ones that will be killed . Bringing a child to this world let alone this country is an avoidable and unnecessary evil being done to the child.

I’m yet to hear a parent give me a fair enough reason why the decision to have a child is in the child and just the child’s interest.

You’re talking about Nigeria like it’s not just a piece of dirt land that doesn’t give a shit to your existence. It has always been here and will be long after you’re gone.

#dontbringchildrentohellknowing100%theywillsuffer


Ugaboy:
i will give them a better life, but that wont make neglect nigeria for leaders who wont live for ever. That of 500m, the FG made fool of us all...i wonder the kids they fed during lockdown, non picture, video, or news projected then to bring to our notice.
it a pity.

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Nobody: 10:12am On Aug 07, 2020
grim33:
Sir if I may ask.
Are you a parent?

I have no doubt that most parents will do the best they can for their children. But did the children ask them for any of this?

It’s a fascinating thing that humans recall the pleasure and positive experiences more than they can remember the pain and negative experiences.

The brain protects us from honestly judging our own experience overtime that why a Nigerian no matter the pointless suffering and how poor they are will tell themselves that they have lived a great life even tho it’s not compared to an average person from a place like eg Denmark .

Every country have their own problems, the earth is horrible place to life in general and constantly try to kill us.

Is bringing a brand new human to join in this madness a good idea ?

Even tho this is basically their faith .
Birth —-> struggle though life——-> die a slow and painful death (more often than not) or fast and abruptly die for an accident or murder .

All of This can be avoided. We live in a world where we fight over a finite amount resources with a system that train you to work as money slave until you die , Making more humans in a soon to be overpopulated world , unjust wars are constantly being fought all over the world and people keep repopulating the once who will kill others and the ones that will be killed . Bringing a child to this world let alone this country is an avoidable and unnecessary evil being done to the child.

I’m yet to hear a parent give me a fair enough reason why the decision to have a child is in the child and just the child’s interest.

You’re talking about Nigeria like it’s not just a piece of dirt land that doesn’t give a shit to your existence. It has always been here and will be long after you’re gone.

#dontbringchildrentohellknowing100%theywillsuffer


what if we are rich and have the facts to provide for our children for the first that years if the life;should we still not have birth to them?
Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 10:39am On Aug 07, 2020
To answer your question. Been rich isn’t enough reason to bring a child to this world. The unborn child doesn’t need your money for anything. You made spend it on yourself and primary family.

The unborn child doesn’t care if you’re rich or not .
Non existence is not hurting anyone.
But coming to being will.

Rich people children that have things provided to them are humans too they will feel pain and sadness, suffer from heartbreak and depression Google the Indian royal house massacre, where a prince killed his parents the king and queen and many relatives etc, Not to mention rich kids are mostly ass holes and if they decide to do harm they can to a lot of people children if they just feel like it.

Rich kids have a good head start in this stupid game called life that’s all. They will still suffer in some ways , grow old , fall sick and die.

It’s a pointless and endless game of suffering and death. Lol.

Heartlessbanker:
what if we are rich and have the facts to provide for our children for the first that years if the life;should we still not have birth to them?

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Preshieben(f): 11:02am On Aug 07, 2020
Take this to politics section angry
Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 11:07am On Aug 07, 2020
No. It’s belongs here. Politics and government is not why people have kids. It starts with two stupid peoples who get into a romantic relationship more often than not.
Preshieben:
Take this to politics section angry

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Femzaremz(m): 11:53am On Aug 07, 2020
thank u op!this is very apt! This whole life is POINTLESS! U will see a man doing security work earning 25 to 30thousand naira having 3 to 5 kids and u will wonder what kind of care,legacy or quality education he wants to give those kids! Las las they will also turn security or cleaners like their silly parents! It is even worse in the north!

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 12:12pm On Aug 07, 2020
No mind them . My Yoruba people will say you shouldn’t count other people children for their parents. I go just dey laugh.

Raising children in poverty is the most common form of child abuse and human rights violations in history.
Femzaremz:
thank u op!this is very apt! This whole life is POINTLESS! U will see a man doing security work earning 25 to 30thousand naira having 3 to 5 kids and u will wonder what kind of care,legacy or quality education he wants to give those kids! Las las they will also turn security or cleaners like their silly parents! It is even worse in the north!

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by xxxXXXxxx: 12:34pm On Aug 07, 2020
Life is challenging,overcoming these challenges is the essence of the evolution of life.

it's just that humans haven't been evolving exponentially coupled with a high level of disorganisation in the societies of the black race and hopeless in a country such as this.

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by xxxXXXxxx: 12:36pm On Aug 07, 2020
grim33:
No mind them Yoruba people will say you should count other people children for their parents. I go just dey laugh.

Raising children in poverty is the most common form of child abuse and human rights violations in history.

you don't need to chip in cheap tribal jab!
Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 12:54pm On Aug 07, 2020
Well I’m not sure what you’re talking about. It’s a Yoruba saying and I’m a Yoruba guy from oyo state I don’t know the saying of other people languages I’m just trying to make a point with a saying that same up my message which is a Yoruba saying, or proverb or something
xxxXXXxxx:


you don't need to chip in cheap tribal jab!

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Femzaremz(m): 12:59pm On Aug 07, 2020
grim33:
No mind them Yoruba people will say you should count other people children for their parents. I go just dey laugh.

Raising children in poverty is the most common form of child abuse and human rights violations in history.
exactly! In economics there is something called 'circle of poverty' and im sure u can guess the continent where this is most rampant! Yet our people never learn, they still keep on believing in one nonexistent deity for a better tomorrow! So sad!

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 1:29pm On Aug 07, 2020
Isn’t that crazy? What people can believe in this world is out of this world. Imagine people giving birth in covid 19 period. You will always hear ko easy o . Bawo lo she Fe easy?

Imagine I saw a video trending on YouTube Nigeria where they showed 1 doctor self proclaimed doctor o no medical school credentials . She just said she have studied vaccines for 3years or so . that vaccine is not needed to treat virus your body is made perfect and don’t need a vaccine but to control overpopulation in Africa and many unproven claims.
People see populations control in Africa as a bad thing. If you see the comment section of this video en . Big big swear for bill gates and him wife for educating girls in villages to have fewer kids and make abortions more available. They saw this as “evil agenda “ that they have exposed. I just smh and concluded that this people love suffering . they love it so much that they are willing to pass it on to as many new humans as possible. In fact people are donkeys jare I just give up .
Femzaremz:
exactly! In economics there is something called 'circle of poverty' and im sure u can guess the continent where this is most rampant! Yet our people never learn, they still keep on believing in one nonexistent deity for a better tomorrow! So sad!

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Westernlove: 8:26pm On Aug 07, 2020
grim33:
I hear you bro. I have an idea of what to sell many foolish people because they will never stop breeding children they can't feed let alone know what horrible things awaits them in this world. Let use them and make money like Jeff of Amazon. They exist just to chase money and spend it on mostly useless stuff they don’t need. I will make sure I take advantage of this endless baby factory and money off them that’s what they are useful for.

#stopmakingslaves
#stoppointlesssuffering
#sellbabystufftostupidpeople

Now you are talking. The bolded Is my primary target and what really concerns me. Any other thing Is secondary to me and not really my business......

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by Filly3(f): 10:00pm On Aug 07, 2020
I love this

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Re: Why Will Any Sane Person Want To Have Kids In Nigeria? by grim33(m): 3:29pm On Nov 01, 2020
Thanks. Feel free to contribute to the discussion if you can in any way
Filly3:
I love this

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