My story is going to be a little long

I have this two ladies am planing to settle down with one of them this year December

Lady 1 : she want to keep me as a friend , she is currently not ready for a relationship , she is always cool seeing me with other girls but secretly it pains her

She is open for marriage
Trust me this babe really loves me but afraid of heart break nd I don't want to pressure her


Lady 2 : a long time old friend we lost contact but reconnected last month
She got every I need in a woman , in fact she beats the lady 1 both at height , brain , smartness everything

As we started chatting and gisting she told me that she was single I didnt believe her but I monitored her and she was a little bit hard towards other guys made every guy fear her

I man up shoot my shot she accept infact she made everything easy for me

Now she is no nonsense girl she saw my chats with lady 1 and she got angry and told me to block her and stop chatting her to avoid more problems

Few weeks ago we had our first sex and menh she is still tight , I used no protection and I promised her that I will withdraw but the sweetness was too much I came inside

After the show I game her money to buy drugs on her way home and I escorted her to place she will enter drop , to my surprise she used the money to buy suya 800 and offer me one I kept my cool allow her reach house and called her later , she said that she will teach me a lesson so that next time I dont promise what I can't fulfill I begged her for a full night before she accept to buy the drug tomorrow morning

Since then me am having second thought about marrying this kind of harsh girl or am I the one been soft

In fact am planing to go back to lady one and tell her my plan s , and see how things will go between us

Or should I still try more with lady two

Oga to slap you dey hungry me,

If you marry Lady 2, I can assure you, your next thread caption will be
"Nairaland has Deceived me with Evil Advise,I should have followed my heart"

How are you sure that lady 1 loves you? Are you a prophet or do you see in spirit?
Don't mistake closeness or friendship of a woman with love, some women are wired like that.
Lady 2 is a little possessive, no nonsense person, straightforward and playful going by the way she used the money for drugs to buy suya.(No time to waste time). She is somehow my kind of lady but some guys dread her type.
The way you sound, you may not be comfortable with her as well so try your luck with lady 1. Shoot your shot first, stop assumptions.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to slap you dey hungry me,

If you marry Lady 2, I can assure you, your next thread caption will be
"Nairaland has Deceived me with Evil Advise,I should have followed my heart"

off the mic. It's OK.

lady 1 dont want you, and lady 2 is too smart for your lying self.... i suggest you wait for lady 3

J111333:
How are you sure that lady 1 loves you? Are you a prophet or do you see in spirit?
Don't mistake closeness or friendship of a woman with love, some women are wired like that.
Lady 2 is a little possessive, no nonsense person, straightforward and playful going by the way she used the money for drugs to buy suya.(No time to waste time). She is somehow my kind of lady but some guys dread her type.
The way you sound, you may not be comfortable with her as well so try your luck with lady 1. Shoot your shot first, stop assumptions.

Thanks

Lady 2 sure pass,na her type the burst my brain.

Both of them do not have a wife's quality(ies) expecially the second one because no right thinking girl, will allow premarital sex before marriage and 4 you be serious with ur life.

What you don't know is that, lady 2 may have even taking care of her self without your knowledge and you here freaking out.

.........to my surprise she used the money to buy suya 800 and offer me one..........

She used the money to buy suya....for real?!

And even gave you some of it for dinner?!

Nairaland no go killi person o!!

nexttag:
My story is going to be a little long

I have this two ladies am planing to settle down with one of them this year December

Lady 1 : she want to keep me as a friend , she is currently not ready for a relationship , she is always cool seeing me with other girls but secretly it pains her

She is open for marriage
Trust me this babe really loves me but afraid of heart break nd I don't want to pressure her


Lady 2 : a long time old friend we lost contact but reconnected last month
She got every I need in a woman , in fact she beats the lady 1 both at height , brain , smartness everything

As we started chatting and gisting she told me that she was single I didnt believe her but I monitored her and she was a little bit hard towards other guys made every guy fear her

I man up shoot my shot she accept infact she made everything easy for me

Now she is no nonsense girl she saw my chats with lady 1 and she got angry and told me to block her and stop chatting her to avoid more problems

Few weeks ago we had our first sex and menh she is still tight , I used no protection and I promised her that I will withdraw but the sweetness was too much I came inside

After the show I game her money to buy drugs on her way home and I escorted her to place she will enter drop , to my surprise she used the money to buy suya 800 and offer me one I kept my cool allow her reach house and called her later , she said that she will teach me a lesson so that next time I dont promise what I can't fulfill I begged her for a full night before she accept to buy the drug tomorrow morning

Since then me am having second thought about marrying this kind of harsh girl or am I the one been soft

In fact am planing to go back to lady one and tell her my plan s , and see how things will go between us

Or should I still try more with lady two

Go for the second one bro, you know why exactly she did there by buying Suya with the money you gave her swears bro you gonna enjoy every moment with her, Cos that kind of girl mehn me gonna marry her lol.

So you want a lady that will give you free hand to cheat right? And you don't want to take responsibility for your actions right? That second lady is the better of the two ladies. She will help you manage your home well. Just make sure you keep your thing in your pants from other ladies and don't Bleep up.

Marry Lady Two, she Was Made For Guys Like You.

Are You A Monkey? Never Give A Lady Money To Buy Drugs because She Wont.

Choose both.

Our forefathers were polygamous.


PS - I didn't waste time to read your long, possibly fictional story.

Have you fvck lady 1?? If no, go back and swim in her ocean of goodies, then compare with lady 2, anyone you see sweet, follow her. This time don't think with ur head or heart, think with ur peninsula

marry both. Competition increases productivity.

IamPlato:
Marry Lady Two, she Was Made For Guys Like You.


Are You A Monkey? Never Give A Lady Money To Buy Drugs because She Wont.

Why wont she buy drugs after giving her money ?

Makanaki127:

Why wont she buy drugs after giving her money ?

the Moment Money Enters A Lady's Hand over 100 selfish things Comes To Her Mind that She Can Use It For...

Is this the type is simping u want to enter marriage with, you will cry premium tears, hot ones



Kaaai, plenty things dey wey musa never see for gate oo

You people disgust me what is so hard in finding more women. must it be these two. I think your question OP reeks of inferiority complex

nexttag:
My story is going to be a little long

I have this two ladies am planing to settle down with one of them this year December

Lady 1 : she want to keep me as a friend , she is currently not ready for a relationship , she is always cool seeing me with other girls but secretly it pains her

She is open for marriage
Trust me this babe really loves me but afraid of heart break nd I don't want to pressure her


Lady 2 : a long time old friend we lost contact but reconnected last month
She got every I need in a woman , in fact she beats the lady 1 both at height , brain , smartness everything

As we started chatting and gisting she told me that she was single I didnt believe her but I monitored her and she was a little bit hard towards other guys made every guy fear her

I man up shoot my shot she accept infact she made everything easy for me

Now she is no nonsense girl she saw my chats with lady 1 and she got angry and told me to block her and stop chatting her to avoid more problems

Few weeks ago we had our first sex and menh she is still tight , I used no protection and I promised her that I will withdraw but the sweetness was too much I came inside

After the show I game her money to buy drugs on her way home and I escorted her to place she will enter drop , to my surprise she used the money to buy suya 800 and offer me one I kept my cool allow her reach house and called her later , she said that she will teach me a lesson so that next time I dont promise what I can't fulfill I begged her for a full night before she accept to buy the drug tomorrow morning

Since then me am having second thought about marrying this kind of harsh girl or am I the one been soft

In fact am planing to go back to lady one and tell her my plan s , and see how things will go between us

Or should I still try more with lady two

Lady2

You need someone to check your excesses, advice you and help you see things from another perspective.

I don't like all these "its OK" girl. Even when you are wrong, they won't challenge you

Op you cannot handle lady 2. She will control you and turn herself as the man while you become the woman in the relationship.

It is guys like us that can handle lady 2.

As for lady 1, she seems like a girl that will friend zone you. If you've not done anything to attract her sexually, she will reject your proposal if you ask her out.

My advice, work on lady 2 and be the man in the relationship. Put her in her place. You are the man in the relationship. So do the needful by earning her respect and make her pledge her full loyalty to you if not, she seems controlling. Take your power back as the man.

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv
I don't normally offer advice because of how childish boys has taken over nairaland ..
But I must say, Lady 2 is 100% better than that manipulative and confused lady 1.

OVB123:
Both of them do not have a wife's quality(ies) expecially the second one because no right thinking girl, will allow premarital sex before marriage and 4 you be serious with ur life.

Well said

Funnily, I prefer the second girl.
Buh, what do I know? Your choice matters

Just follow your heart

I love when a lady knows what she wants and can prove why she wants it. Not the one who can't take rational decision without crying for help. So number two sounds cool.
Thanks, next!

OP you sound like a Laycon type of guy. Leave both of them.

Nothing sugar will not see inside tea get ready to be the lady in the relationship,u clearly don't know what u want.

She use 800 baby preventing drugs money to buy soya and even give you chop too. My brother see baby see suya.

On a serious note they you want to marry. Why not let her take in for you then allow nature choose your bride. Staff both nd d one that gets pregnant first wins marriage.

Men’s thread
Lol Stay away from Pre-marital sex, you won’t listen now you are in a dilemma.


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