Martinez39s:
Women understand each other. Yesterday, I was eavesdropping on my mum's and sister's discussion about the Channels news staff that allegedly beat up his wife. My sister told my mum the news, and my mum said IMMEDIATELY "women have sharp mouth, who knows what she could have been telling the husband." Yeh! The discussion went on and on and my mum dropped another one "It's probably accumulated anger from all the insult and verbal abuse she might have been dishing the husband. Maybe her salary was bigger than the husband and she was insulting him because of it."

If I said I was shocked by the secret women talk, I would be a liar. Women don't trust each other, but simps and team "I am a 'real' man" will trust a woman in the name of love ("there is no love without trust" nonsense). Women understand each other yet they don't trust each but you want to trust them and #believeallwomen, who you be sef? Some simps even crucified the reporter even though they never listened to his side of the story.



^{CAPSLOCKED, Yamiriflathead, Ubunja, GLYCOLYSISS, oyolohi, MJBOLT, caveadullam, pansophist, ichidodo, Dpsychologist.}

Martinez39s:
Women understand each other. Yesterday, I was eavesdropping on my mum's and sister's discussion about the Channels news staff that allegedly beat up his wife. My sister told my mum the news, and my mum said IMMEDIATELY "women have sharp mouth, who knows what she could have been telling the husband." Yeh! The discussion went on and on and my mum dropped another one "It's probably accumulated anger from all the insult and verbal abuse she might have been dishing the husband. Maybe her salary was bigger than the husband and she was insulting him because of it."

If I said I was shocked by the secret women talk, I would be a liar. Women don't trust each other, but simps and team "I am a 'real' man" will trust a woman in the name of love ("there is no love without trust" nonsense). Women understand each other yet they don't trust each but you want to trust them and #believeallwomen, who you be sef? Some simps even crucified the reporter even though they never listened to his side of the story.



^{CAPSLOCKED, Yamiriflathead, Ubunja, GLYCOLYSISS, oyolohi, MJBOLT, caveadullam, pansophist, ichidodo, Dpsychologist.}

ubunja:
it's true man. Many times in cases of domestic violence the wife is the instigator. But it's never talked about.

Moneysoldier007:
I centre my life in this manner
God,
Money,
Women.

God first because on a personal level I always feel I am not alone. I have come to learn to follow my instinct in everything I do cos I have noticed when I go against it, it turns out badly for me, this has built me over time to have a very strong instinct, let me put it, I allow that presence that makes me not feel alone lead me. I have been told by close friends I have a strong instinct. So when I say God, I don't mean the religious God, I mean The God!.


Money: It is next cos in my journey through life, people respect or value you based on how much you spend on yourself(achieve) and not how much you spend on a woman. Call me stingy I give zero fucqks, I rather spoil myself and go broke than spend on a woman and go broke and the reason is as a man when you are down but look around and see tones of things you spent money on and still enjoying them, it gives you a scintillating feeling, but for a woman, go broke and watch her leave you that's when you will realize you've been throwing money in a drainage all along, it's worse when you spent even longer time doing it.

Women: Now for young niggas always shouting relationship, relationship, NIGGAS relationship is a drag back for you yet to achieve anything, you are still eating free food, still saying Mommy thank you, maybe that's why, be a man first then you will know

"You can't find what you are not looking for",

We did that in our Uni days. We go dey School dey form serious relationship, our babe go travel go another state or enter town go konje Big boys wey don already dey soft.

Now I find it very funny when a chick comes for a weekend or a chill and her boyfriend is killing her with calls, that's when you'll know this bitches ain't shit. I slap ass and treat you like that bitch that you are expecting them to take it in a negative way and you are shocked they like it. So please what's the point of a "SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP" when we had sex without us dating, so why should we start dating after having sex?.

Ever noticed the longer you are around a woman the more you spend?, the longer the relationship the longer the manipulations and the more you are being manipulated to invest, both emotionally and financially.

Love does not exist, its just steady youthful puxxxy, vulnerability and too much fondness of her that was fucking with your mind the whole dammmmnnnnnnn time.

How do I get manipulated when I am not even giving you the chance to?

How do you summon the courage to bill me when I owe you nothing?

Well na Niggas wey put women on pedestal, carry relationship for head dey blow bar ontop woman anyhow na em dey fear heartbreak, wetin concern let me see what I can do.

Keep hunting for value, women will come easy, the more the value, the better the women.

For those who value relationships, please make sure she's investing heavily and I mean emotionally and financially, if not na TEARS GO END AM.

Martinez39s:


The wife also wanted the court to compel her husband to get a vasectomy so he could keep paying child support to only her and her kids. She wanted to destroy he chances of further procreation for selfish reasons. Fortunately, the judge didn't oblige. Wahala for who think the soulmate at home is a nawalt.

^{luminouz, pansophist (I will still respond to your post later), oyolohi, ubunja, glycolysiss, nyarimuflathead.}

foreman:
luminouz emmaodet LordAdam16 oyolohi thanks for your response. Your points are duly noted.

My situation is actually a bit different other than being unhappy with wife or toxicity. We have passed the stage.

When I started having issues in marriage, it drove me to red-pill messages. So I acted some of the messages and got some results but not as much as I wanted. But then I realize there is a limit when you are already married unlike when single where you can decide to let go completely. My initial action was keeping late nights, drinking (which I am not a fan really), and I had multiple casual sex relationships - but something was still missing

I realized what I really wanted wasn't those things. After getting huge doses of Redpill messages. I sat down one day and analyzed my whole life and concluded that majority of my decisions in the past were influenced by consideration for others as against putting myself first. I have made some really shameful decisions and lost so many opportunities because I considered wife, even there are some I made when she was girlfriend it was that bad. We are talking about really big opportunities they are so shameful I can't tell anybody. All of a sudden, its like you just wake up and realize all your sacrifices will not be appreciated eventually. And you are realizing when you are already past the 40yr mark, almost late. Those opportunities will never come back because of age.

The dilemma now is that I am planning a kind of last-ditch attempt at resuscitating the brilliant chances I missed because of love of others (which I eventually found out was not really worth the lost chances). The snag is that I have to throw almost all I have into it. That means if it fails, I won't be able to cater for the children. Yet I do not want to remain the way I am - just Ok guy by Nigerian standards able to afford 3 square meals. I know I am better than that even friends and colleagues tell me something is wrong with me because they know my capabilities.

I have considered all things involved, the only emotional baggage I have now is the children. I am trying my best to convince myself that it won't be my fault if they have to suffer for my decision. I never thought I will ever be in a situation to even consider them suffering but that is fast changing.

foreman:
luminouz emmaodet LordAdam16 oyolohi thanks for your response. Your points are duly noted.

My situation is actually a bit different other than being unhappy with wife or toxicity. We have passed the stage.

When I started having issues in marriage, it drove me to red-pill messages. So I acted some of the messages and got some results but not as much as I wanted. But then I realize there is a limit when you are already married unlike when single where you can decide to let go completely. My initial action was keeping late nights, drinking (which I am not a fan really), and I had multiple casual sex relationships - but something was still missing

I realized what I really wanted wasn't those things. After getting huge doses of Redpill messages. I sat down one day and analyzed my whole life and concluded that majority of my decisions in the past were influenced by consideration for others as against putting myself first. I have made some really shameful decisions and lost so many opportunities because I considered wife, even there are some I made when she was girlfriend it was that bad. We are talking about really big opportunities they are so shameful I can't tell anybody. All of a sudden, its like you just wake up and realize all your sacrifices will neither be appreciated nor rewarded eventually. And you are realizing when you are already past the 40yr mark, almost late. Those opportunities will never come back because of age.

The dilemma now is that I am planning a kind of last-ditch attempt at resuscitating the brilliant chances I missed because of love of others (which I eventually found out was not really worth the lost chances). The snag is that I have to throw almost all I have into it. That means if it fails, I won't be able to cater for the children. Yet I do not want to remain the way I am - just Ok guy by Nigerian standards able to afford 3 square meals. I know I am better than that even friends and colleagues tell me something is wrong with me because they know my capabilities.

I have considered all things involved, the only emotional baggage I have now is the children. I am trying my best to convince myself that it won't be my fault if they have to suffer for my decision. I never thought I will ever be in a situation to even consider them suffering but that is fast changing.

Moneysoldier007:
I centre my life in this manner
God,
Money,
Women.

God first because on a personal level I always feel I am not alone. I have come to learn to follow my instinct in everything I do cos I have noticed when I go against it, it turns out badly for me, this has built me over time to have a very strong instinct, let me put it, I allow that presence that makes me not feel alone lead me. I have been told by close friends I have a strong instinct. So when I say God, I don't mean the religious God, I mean The God!.


Money: It is next cos in my journey through life, people respect or value you based on how much you spend on yourself(achieve) and not how much you spend on a woman. Call me stingy I give zero fucqks, I rather spoil myself and go broke than spend on a woman and go broke and the reason is as a man when you are down but look around and see tones of things you spent money on and still enjoying them, it gives you a scintillating feeling, but for a woman, go broke and watch her leave you that's when you will realize you've been throwing money in a drainage all along, it's worse when you spent even longer time doing it.

Women: Now for young niggas always shouting relationship, relationship, NIGGAS relationship is a drag back for you yet to achieve anything, you are still eating free food, still saying Mommy thank you, maybe that's why, be a man first then you will know

"You can't find what you are not looking for",

We did that in our Uni days. We go dey School dey form serious relationship, our babe go travel go another state or enter town go konje Big boys wey don already dey soft.

Now I find it very funny when a chick comes for a weekend or a chill and her boyfriend is killing her with calls, that's when you'll know this bitches ain't shit. I slap ass and treat you like that bitch that you are expecting them to take it in a negative way and you are shocked they like it. So please what's the point of a "SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP" when we had sex without us dating, so why should we start dating after having sex?.

Ever noticed the longer you are around a woman the more you spend?, the longer the relationship the longer the manipulations and the more you are being manipulated to invest, both emotionally and financially.

Love does not exist, its just steady youthful puxxxy, vulnerability and too much fondness of her that was fucking with your mind the whole dammmmnnnnnnn time.

How do I get manipulated when I am not even giving you the chance to?

How do you summon the courage to bill me when I owe you nothing?

Well na Niggas wey put women on pedestal, carry relationship for head dey blow bar ontop woman anyhow na em dey fear heartbreak, wetin concern let me see what I can do.

Keep hunting for value, women will come easy, the more the value, the better the women.

For those who value relationships, please make sure she's investing heavily and I mean emotionally and financially, if not na TEARS GO END AM.

luminouz:


Learn new words on a relationship forum? Most of those big ass words are better reserved for English students,not online peeps who want to get the message ASAP. Much of the message is lost in ambiguous words and its really a wasted effort on the OP's part. Now, many peeps dont even know what he wanted to pass across to them.

Who lost? Me? Nope....
OP? Oh yeah!!!

foreman:
luminouz emmaodet LordAdam16 oyolohi thanks for your response. Your points are duly noted.

My situation is actually a bit different other than being unhappy with wife or toxicity. We have passed the stage.

When I started having issues in marriage, it drove me to red-pill messages. So I acted some of the messages and got some results but not as much as I wanted. But then I realize there is a limit when you are already married unlike when single where you can decide to let go completely. My initial action was keeping late nights, drinking (which I am not a fan really), and I had multiple casual sex relationships - but something was still missing

I realized what I really wanted wasn't those things. After getting huge doses of Redpill messages. I sat down one day and analyzed my whole life and concluded that majority of my decisions in the past were influenced by consideration for others as against putting myself first. I have made some really shameful decisions and lost so many opportunities because I considered wife, even there are some I made when she was girlfriend it was that bad. We are talking about really big opportunities they are so shameful I can't tell anybody. All of a sudden, its like you just wake up and realize all your sacrifices will neither be appreciated nor rewarded eventually. And you are realizing when you are already past the 40yr mark, almost late. Those opportunities will never come back because of age.

The dilemma now is that I am planning a kind of last-ditch attempt at resuscitating the brilliant chances I missed because of love of others (which I eventually found out was not really worth the lost chances). The snag is that I have to throw almost all I have into it. That means if it fails, I won't be able to cater for the children. Yet I do not want to remain the way I am - just Ok guy by Nigerian standards able to afford 3 square meals. I know I am better than that even friends and colleagues tell me something is wrong with me because they know my capabilities.

I have considered all things involved, the only emotional baggage I have now is the children. I am trying my best to convince myself that it won't be my fault if they have to suffer for my decision. I never thought I will ever be in a situation to even consider them suffering but that is fast changing.

GLYCOLYSISS:
The "my girlfriend is different and can't do such stuff " category of men, I wash hand comot for una matter, I no fit shout.

I come in peace.

Martinez39s:


• team nawalt
• team "it will never happen to me."
• team "she is different, she won't do that to me."
• team "red pill is for immature boy."
• team "just make money and women issue will stop."
• team "you are not married yet so don't talk about marriage, you will understand when you get married."
• team "real men spend on their women."
• team "just find the right women."

Their case dey weak person.

Martinez39s:


• team nawalt
• team "it will never happen to me."
• team "she is different, she won't do that to me."
• team "red pill is for immature boy."
• team "just make money and women issue will stop."
• team "you are not married yet so don't talk about marriage, you will understand when you get married."
• team "real men spend on their women."
• team "just find the right women."

Their case dey weak person.

Danycrusoe:
They can't tolerate what men tolerate from them. They can't date a broke guy but they don't bother about being broke.

Skepticus:


Don Jazzy is an entertainer and as it is with a lot of entertainers, the image they portray to the public may be far different from what they believe and do, in their private lives. It's too "early" to judge his regular open display of "crush" on rihanna as simping, even though, the act might be seen as one. We have seen folks in entertainment sing or act red pill in open display and turn out to be miserable wussies in their private love life and vice versa.

Personally, I prefer to judge people's awareness of the red pill by what they do in their private lives than what they do or say in the open. Anyone can say anything. I also, judge them by the consequences of the actions they do, in the long run (in relation to their personal growth and the society where they live) whether those actions appear blue-pilled or red-pilled at the moment that it was done.

In my own opinion of Don Jazzy, I do suspect that the guy is low-key anti-natalist, MGTOW putting on an act (he may have a natural crush on Rihanna, as a sex symbol, though) to wow his mostly blue-pilled fans and also deflect them from his noticeable action of choosing not to commit to any woman or having kids despite having a high sexual market value (by Nigerian standards). The late JT Tom-West is also suspect. I may be wrong about both, though.

Savagethe21st:
so what do you advice men should do since many women are joining the feminism wave. Should we just seek women who are into the culture of previous generations

Before choosing to be in a committed relationship with my partner, I made two resolutions to myself how I'll handle situations if things goes south. I will never loose peace because of a partner. I didn't tell her the resolution I made. its just within me. So there you go.

1. At the very least, the only thing I need from a woman is kids, sex, and companionship. If she bear my kids and stop living up to her other duty as a partner, and refused to make it up, that is the end. I'm out. I refuse to fulfil my duties if she refuse to live up to hers.

2. A separated family is better than a toxic one. Its better for the kids to experience love with each parents separately, than to experience toxicity in a loveless home together. My kids will still have the best provisions from a father, and my supporting ascendants can take of them if need be.


The problem I see with you is that you are not in charge. You lack the willpower to accept your new reality, adapt, and cut off your presence, support, and allow her to actually go deep the rabbit hole she wants to go into. Be cold as ice. Your love and service should be absent, that is becomes clear you changed too. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going. You are a man in the sense that if you look after yourself well, with resources to complement, you can still get another woman far younger and beautiful than her, and that will be her karma. A woman will give you her loyalty when she knows too well that she is replaceable instantly with far quality woman than her.

In matters of love, and in the face of those lovey-dovey act, the foundation should be bedrocked on logic, pragmatism, and damage control. Dont let those emotions and display of affection fool you, your eyes must be sharp on the ball. And if she change, you change as well. Chances are, she can do all these because she is assured of your support no matter how ridiculous her behaviors. She knows the password to your loyalty, which is that you can't leave her for the sake of your kids. Yes, what's keeping you miserable.

How about your parents taking care of your kids if you do not have the time? You need to accept that modern women are totally different from the fairy tales men are bombarded with through media. Times have changed. And to navigate smoothly in this new terrain, you must update your mindset to fit with the 21st century women, understand how they think and play accordingly.

You are the one that is making yourself miserable. She has made up her mind to not uphold the integrity of your family, and you should adapt to this new reality, not wishing on the return of past glory. Accept it with grace as a man and move on. A relationship worth fighting for is one where both people are willing to make it work, not just you. In every relationship, the one that needs the other the least has all the power, and you must make it clear that she is not only replaceable, but disposable if she mess up. Free yourself, its in your hands.

So what do you advice men should do since many women are joining the feminism wave. Should we just seek women who are into the culture of previous generations?

foreman:
luminouz emmaodet LordAdam16 oyolohi thanks for your response. Your points are duly noted.

My situation is actually a bit different other than being unhappy with wife or toxicity. We have passed the stage.

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2dice01:
Females don't care about your struggles Bruh
They hangout at the finish line and
Bãng the winners

21cents:
Reason why every hustling dude should stay woke of their plans. bang those ones waiting for you at the finish line while you go for a young untouched virgin worthy of your resources.

No perforated hymen should be accepted after all your struggles. pity yourself abeg.