but Andrew Tate got banned for "freedom of speech"

Peaceyw:
make it make sense

Uptheante:

He's an alpha male & a redpiller yet he married a retired hoe?
I doubt ur statement

Rozross:
This thread not as bobbling as before, most of the redpillers are gradually accepting reality. Few have gotten married and realised that not all women are bad as it’s been painted here. Ubunja, mark my words, you’ll end up in God’s alter winning souls for Him,remember this prophetic words of mine when the time comes.

orchin:

She start giving you headache, then cut her off. Don't you value your peace of mind? U've shagged her already, move on.

Peaceyw:
@Ubunja, you need to watch falling back music video by Drake. What was shown in the video is what you have been preaching.

Kipaji:

Wait a minute here...
The article you quoted here... Take a look at its comment section, there are interesting insights from both men and women.

tosaino95:
whatttttttttt i don't know the fvck

Kipaji:

Did we have cavemen in Africa? I think that apart from a few key areas, our Africans ancestors have never been cavemen.

ubunja:
just went and saw the video. and yes, it's about Hypergamy and how women are willing to share a single man if he's High Value enough. It's what we've been talking about. a woman will rather be number 10 to a top man than be the one and only of low value man. that's a red pill music video and shows female nature in its rawest.

the video also reminds me of something I've always wanted to touch on, now perhaps is the time...
One of the biggest reason why guys fail in getting a GF is because they're looking for a GF while they're SINGLE. it may sound confusing. But never look for love while you're not getting sex. Thats like going to buy clothes while nákéd, it's not going to be easy. cause for one you're hôrñy and desperate. The best way to get a GF is first to have a placeholder girl that you're dealing with sexually,, who's satisfying your physical needs on the regular. then, look for proper GF.
secure the sex first , then you can look for someone you can have something more permanent with. but always have that girl who's supplying sex so you won't deal with other women from a thirst position. you'll simp less, tolerate less and compromise less if you're dealing with a woman and you've options for sex that don't include her. cause the reason most girls themselves play hard to get and seem to have so much sexual discipline and self-control is not that they're morally superior or anything, but that they've options for sex that don't include you. so they're strong and poised around you only because they're literally coming from having sex with another guy just before visiting you. it's why a girl can say "No sex for 6 months" , as a way to see if you love her or not. so herself is she waiting for 6months too? no ways. every single day of that 6 month celibacy journey she's coming to you her pucc full of her own "placeholder guy's" sperm. she's getting heavily screwed on the daily. just not by you. as men this is a lesson we need to learn and practice.

‎Imām Abu Hanīfa’s advice to his student:

‎“Don’t get married until after knowing that you’ll be able to take care of all its needs.

‎Seek knowledge first, then gather wealth from that which is halal, and then get married!”

‎[الطبقات السنية ، ص ١٨٦ - ١٨٧]

Pukkalolo:
Never, ever, waste your time on a woman who has nothing to offer.

tosaino95:
Van you pls help me with the comment section link

Osborne69:
Good evening brothers..
I know this is not a pharmaceutical thread, and I don't mean to derail the thread, however, I feel someone here must have been through what this situation of mine, and of course so many people with similar issues may be on this thread but refuse to talk about it, as it looks shameful, I noticed that I have erectile dysfunction, and I have tried everything I could, visited different hospitals (urologists), bought different expensive drugs, yet no improvement/changes, please anyone who knows what else to do should please help me with a response, all the teachings here still end on being able to lead(the most important part which is to be able to fucck), I'm lagging behind in this aspect, I have to kill the shame to talk about it..
Thanks in advance

CaveAdullam:


1. I get where you are coming from. You are looking at men and women from an egalitarian point of view. But to understand thee genders you must first consider them from their evolutionary background and biological imperatives. When it comes to sexual mating which of course is why men need women and vice versa, what they want differs.

2. Humans are rational beings, they don't sit down all day thinking of how to fulfill their basal primal instincts, however, regardless of their course of actions, they are being led subconsciously by these instincts.

Like it or not, your self-development is to fulfill your biological imperatives; you may deny it consciously and be outspoken about it, however, genetics is what it is. It all boils down to survival and reproduction.

3. Women can benefit men aside from sex in a relationship but sex and offspring are her first point of concern for both her and her husband or the man she's in a relationship with. These other benefits they provide are because of their evolved thinking above primal instincts; give or take, hypergamy is still the reason. She buys a house for you, hypergamy. She gives you money, hypergamy. She's invested in you, hypergamy.

Women are submissive to dominant men, which signifies good genes and resources, so they invest in that man to satisfy hypergamy.

4. Men date low, women date high. That behavior took millions of years to become biologically wired in the human psyche. Society may not be going the way it ought to, notwithstanding, nature will always prevail.

What men want in women: beauty, fertility, modesty, grace, kindness, submissiveness, smartness, coachable, young, and elegance.

What women want in men: dominance, confidence, strength, intelligence, strong-willed, leadership, and resources.

Ying and yang will always come into place here: there is always a dot of femininity in men and dot of masculinity in women. The dot is to maintain balance and to help understand each other better. If there is a disorder in their makeup or how they ought to behave there will be abnormalities like what our contemporary world is experiencing today.

Expecting a woman to act and project what belongs to the masculine domain is abnormal. This always gives birth to caricatured males - feminists. Ditto for men - soy men and simps. Alias Mr. Nice guy.

5. A woman can support and help a man in their journey but that doesn't make her a captain and a man must not expect it from her. Demonstrating masculine qualities doesn't mean inheritance. Two captains can't lead same time.

But if you start viewing things from an egalitarian point: she must own a house, a car, a career, you are only settling for a masculine woman. (This hurts but that's the truth). You are calling for a share in power.

It is not bad if she owns these things per se, but most times they sacrifice their femininity on the altar to achieve them. Men and women will never come out with the same result if they pass through hell concurrently. Men most times are always refined and shaped, and women most times end up damaged. Why do you think career women and feminists are not alluring to men?

There will always be outliers: women who retained their femininity despite the hurdles and struggles. But they are the exceptions that prove the rule.

6. A man's highest investment in a relationship is his money/commitment because it is what women want. A woman's highest investment in a relationship is her body/sex because it is what men want. Any other thing they are benefiting from each other emanates from these basic roots. Women are the gatekeeper of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment.

After heartbreak is how you can also see this properly: women will always cry and repeat "after all that I have done for him...he used and dumped me". Sex is what makes her bitter. At this moment, sex can no longer be used to get his commitment. The woman that you didn't fvck will never complain bitterly after a breakup.

For men, you will hear him say " after all the money I have spent on her, paid for her expensive trips, paid her tuition fees, bought her gifts, and showed her a lot of surprises". What he is bitter about is his money and that his money will no longer be used to get sex. A man that did not spend much on a woman will never weep bitterly after a breakup. This now takes us back again to the concept: of genuine desire.

7. Genuine desire will make her sacrifice her highest investment which is her body/sex on the altar of your body/d!ck. Subconsciously this is hypergamy in display but consciously she is not placing a great demand on your shoulders. She has entered your frame and you can direct and lead her as you please and effectively. Other things will always fall in place because she wants to please you. Now, she has placed herself on the losing side for the betterment of the relationship. It is then left for you to maintain the frame and act accordingly. If you fail, you awaken her subconsciousness, the game changes and you become the one on the losing side.

8. The family and divorce laws hinge on a man's accomplishments. Because on a norm, even if a woman becomes uninterested in the relationship you still have her home, car, and money. She came with nothing and must leave with nothing. (Children benefit you and their genetic lineage).

Based on the biased family and divorce laws, at this junction, "sex seems not to be a woman's highest investment" because she is taking part of your resources she didn't work for. Here, egalitarianism seems reasonable, because in the advent of breakup you don't lose much.

Egalitarianism or not, women will still demand leadership from their man, and a man, followership from his woman. What then needs to be done is a proper understanding of their behaviors, characters, actions, and the societal structures that can ensure the efficiency of those actions and behaviors. Chaos looms when this is not done or followed appropriately.

Thanks.

DAY 240, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Positive masculinity. Positive femininity.

Cc. Heartofcity12.