ubunja:
understandable that you feel Beyonce has more sex appeal , just that the overwhelming consensus is that Rihanna is the more sexually appealing to a bigger demographic of men.
And that part about guys is true,, If we look at guys who get the most puccy and the guys who are the most babydaddies it's not necessarily the best looking dudes.
Especially those repeat babydaddies who get plenty of women pregnant they have that pull on women and need to be studied, especially if they're not celebrities and have no status to speak of. Cause the one thing more important than a puccy that a woman can give you is a baby. And a baby is a woman's ultimate investment and sacrifice for a man. So that man who has multiple babymamas is the man we must look closer at. Too bad he's the same man that's demonized and called all types of names. But if a man is getting women everywhere pregnant it first of all means women like having sex with him.

Peaceyw:
don't know, saw it on facebook

ubunja:
there's looks , and there's sex appeal.

good looks makes you nice to look at, sex appeal makes people want to have sex with you.

but can sex appeal be learnt and adopted? or it's a case of either you have it or you don't?

Meedon:


I do 120 sit ups and 70 push ups a day before hitting the street. I would like to increase the number as time goes on.

Someoneschild2:

What is the first?

BigBashiru:

but don't play patriarchy I e she has to fend for herself financially in the marriage...

Zabiboy:

Facts
BUT would the ego of Naija men allow them?
it's the reason i skip marriage discussions..

In this era of social media, even the blind would know that women want to flex their youth and dont want to be traditional. Even the ones that would welcome the idea are doing so solely for the resources. Still yet, still yet, men crave to be used. Or could there be a ( i dont even know the word to use tbh) huge surge of adrenaline that pumps in men when they FEEL (cos in reality they are not) in command while with a so called "submissive " woman?

Omor...make i drop pen here so i wont discourage anybody. Even the disgust on the face of men offline when i share my views about modern marriage has made to stop discussing it.... Very soon, very very soon, we'll have quality artificial virginity tools ( made by our fellow men ofc), until and even after then, we ( who the society call cowards because we dont want these kind of "responsibilities" ) would keep watching the game from the sidelines.

Nice discussion bro, i love your idea. Thats the best fit for modern day relationship.

SweetVibe:

You are absolutely right.
Rihanna has more sex appeal than Beyonce

orchin:


Men love being slaves!!!

BigBashiru:


The ones who do get married young are unstable in the marriage, they have their eyes outside the marriage because they are wondering "what if I find a better man"....they keep wondering this until they hit their decline...

What I recommend to guys is to marry the 29 yo but don't play patriarchy I e she has to fend for herself financially in the marriage....then be with ur younger hotter girlfriends...

CaveAdullam:


This is broad daylight self-delusion!

1. No woman is compelling you to commit to her, so why hassle your mind around such an absurd thought? What's the difference between what you just stated and not getting married? (Hope you were not intoxicated when typing this).

2. Even in Scandinavian countries, there is still a high rate of inequality between men and women. No matter the kind of relationship, even though mutual, there will always be one party doing the leading or additional work. No relationship is EXACTLY 50/50.

3. You are a man and in control. Evolution is the stimulant that pushed men to appeal to hypergamy. What he gained for himself can be used to get the best mates, they are what concludes his authority over a woman.

4. You invite a woman to your domain. Because it is your domain, and don't depend on her, it remains and she takes nothing whenever she decides to leave. Before that, in your wisdom, she must have earned all that she has gained from you during the relationship and you from her.

5. Men have their roles and women have their roles. You are a provider and a protector once you decide to enter marriage, there is no bleating and grumbling about that. It is a decision you made and must be ready to perform to full capacity, ditto for the woman.

6. Man is the head of the home. Women are the nurse of the home. You provide the aids, she uses the aids to cater to your needs and children. This is the price those willing to raise an empire from a lineage must bear.

7. Male and female relationship is a leadership followers relationship. Men lead, women follow. It is the behavior of women that men can pinpoint they are leading effectively; despite women's emotional state and neuroticism, to a larger extent, they must be able to submit after recognizing an effective leader. If she's unable, she is a conundrum that must not be paid attention to.

8. A woman who provides for her family in the presence of her husband WILL NEVER HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR THE HUSBAND. If you always insist on 50/50, you will constantly make jest of yourself, because 50/50 in any relationship is not attainable. Refer to the 2 above.

Any woman that even insists on 50/50 sets you up for a bigger scam.

9. Women can assist their husbands in whatever way they can financially. But as a man, a woman must be your last option as you plan various ways how to maneuver when you crash from top to bottom. Women will not even stay close when you crash, which is more reason you must BUILD YOURSELF FOR YOURSELF...WOMEN ARE EXTRA.

10. The reason men are clamoring for 50/50 is because of the zeitgeist of our time, things are hard, stressful, and tough. So, a man wanting to leverage marriage equality can find consolace, but that isn't gonna solve the problem. Even women are striving for independence because they know that things are not the way they were before.

There are plenty of problems in this world. Hmmm.

11. Until men in one voice and unity take the bull by the horn and push for restructuring and order there will be no tangible change. Nobody is gonna do the job for anybody.

Since there are benefits for many to enjoy in this decline...will you dine or not?

DAY 277, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Positive masculinity.

Zabiboy:

Facts
BUT would the ego of Naija men allow them?
it's the reason i skip marriage discussions..

In this era of social media, even the blind would know that women want to flex their youth and dont want to be traditional. Even the ones that would welcome the idea are doing so solely for the resources. Still yet, still yet, men crave to be used. Or could there be a ( i dont even know the word to use tbh) huge surge of adrenaline that pumps in men when they FEEL (cos in reality they are not) in command while with a so called "submissive " woman?

Omor...make i drop pen here so i wont discourage anybody. Even the disgust on the face of men offline when i share my views about modern marriage has made to stop discussing it.... Very soon, very very soon, we'll have quality artificial virginity tools ( made by our fellow men ofc), until and even after then, we ( who the society call cowards because we dont want these kind of "responsibilities" ) would keep watching the game from the sidelines.

Nice discussion bro, i love your idea. Thats the best fit for modern day relationship.

JESHAL:



My issue with him is thinking post wall women are humble and matured enough to accept or share masculine roles in relationships, doesn't he understand female nature, he needs to read preventive medicine.

Karlifate:
Women marry up financially.
Men marry up morally.


The criteria for judging men and women are not the same;

• Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities.

• Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.


Women and Men are not the same.

heartofcity12: