Junnior:

I'm taking note of this. I've been wondering lately the things that are okay to spend on ladies you're
1) dating and
2) friends with.

If you can make a more exhaustive list for each, based on your experience, it would be great. Thanks

luminouz:



Lmaooo@exhaustive list? Bro, I no get such list abeg.

Check these out:

1. Dating: I don't give women money for hair,shoes,clothes,bag, school fees,house rent or allowance. These bills are not mine to pay, especially if she has extant(living) parents. If she is kind, nice and generous, then, I give her stuff on her birthdays(whatever I have in mind), after she must have demonstrated such at my own birthdays. I'm not a fan of eating outside,so all these daily/weekly hangouts are not for me. But taking her out once in a while(as a surprise) is still ok.
I love hardworking women and if she has skills that need money to invest in, I don't give her that money outrightly,I make her a partner and let her know business is different from dick/pussy issues and I won't hesitate to collect my investment if she ain't serious.
Girls go broke,just like guys. So tfare and miscellaneous expenses are still ok for me. But these must NEVER become the ritual in the relationship. She must never believe that I'm her ATM for each and every need. That ain't my role, mudafucker!!!

2. Friends: I have very few female friends,like two or so. If they are the generous type, then I can give them food when they come visit or if broke,some recharge cards to call. Business wise, we would be partners and I will control 60-70% of the stakes. All other bills are NEVER mine to carry.

Junnior:

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Thanks so much boss.

MJBOLT:

real4real2021:
Hello
First I'll like to appreciate all those making effort to help fellow men and brothers out of the darkness into light on this thread
Secondly this might be a bit lengthy and that's because I really want get out of this 'simpish lifestyle' so I just want to pour everything out.

I'm posting this with the hope of getting support and guide from my seniors here
Am reading this thread from the beginning hopefully I will turn fully RED before I get to this page.

So growing up I was a typical 'nice guy' trying hard to appear just 'right', pleasing people and avoiding disagreement like plague.
Extremely shy at some point Infact small things like bargaining for a price is a problem even when I know am being cheated on. (Damn)

My social anxiety is such that I can't even ask question in class, can't ask for money i lend  someone(my own money oo lol),
step on my foot and I might thank you and apologies for putting my leg there LMAO

And that has in turn, limit my progress in almost everything I do, missing opportunities like damn

And when it comes to girls and relationship stuff,
Yeah you are right, it sucks too.
Never had a real girlfriend, not even close female friends like that. I mean how could I with my stupid mindset
I still couldn't maintain serious conversation and relationship with them ladies...

honestly my social life just sucks am tired.

I've tried several times to build my confidence an get out there an do my thing
Have recently gone through books. Like. The Superior man, No more Mr nice guy(still reading) etc
And yes that give me a better understanding
But I haven't seen much improvement in action

So I know some of you might have being there too,
I will be glad to get tips, advice, guide on how to get out of this am just tired.
A mentor I can relate with will be cool too.
You can ask me more about me if that will help.
Just anything to improve my f*cked up lifestyle


I am 20, in my 3rd year in the uni(at home now sha)

Please help me tag, those OGs here dem ubunja harddon etc

Martinez39s:
Even before I read the emboldened text, I was already laughing... even on your behalf. I remember a guy who deferred his admission for more than a year in other pay his girlfriend's tuition fee. After the girl had advanced and graduated, she broke up with him and said to his face "what kind of man defers his admission to hustle for another girl? Is that not a fooliśh man?" The guy said he couldn't believe his ears and he was flabbergasted at that moment.

real4real2021:
Hello
First I'll like to appreciate all those making effort to help fellow men and brothers out of the darkness into light on this thread
Secondly this might be a bit lengthy and that's because I really want get out of this 'simpish lifestyle' so I just want to pour everything out.

I'm posting this with the hope of getting support and guide from my seniors here
Am reading this thread from the beginning hopefully I will turn fully RED before I get to this page.

So growing up I was a typical 'nice guy' trying hard to appear just 'right', pleasing people and avoiding disagreement like plague.
Extremely shy at some point Infact small things like bargaining for a price is a problem even when I know am being cheated on. (Damn)

My social anxiety is such that I can't even ask question in class, can't ask for money i lend  someone(my own money oo lol),
step on my foot and I might thank you and apologies for putting my leg there LMAO

And that has in turn, limit my progress in almost everything I do, missing opportunities like damn

And when it comes to girls and relationship stuff,
Yeah you are right, it sucks too.
Never had a real girlfriend, not even close female friends like that. I mean how could I with my stupid mindset
I still couldn't maintain serious conversation and relationship with them ladies...

honestly my social life just sucks am tired.

I've tried several times to build my confidence an get out there an do my thing
Have recently gone through books. Like. The Superior man, No more Mr nice guy(still reading) etc
And yes that give me a better understanding
But I haven't seen much improvement in action

So I know some of you might have being there too,
I will be glad to get tips, advice, guide on how to get out of this am just tired.
A mentor I can relate with will be cool too.
You can ask me more about me if that will help.
Just anything to improve my f*cked up lifestyle


I am 20, in my 3rd year in the uni(at home now sha)

Please help me tag, those OGs here dem ubunja harddon etc

boninho:
If she's streets-worthy, she ain't sheets-worthy

Remember this and know peace

luminouz:


You welcome,I already updated it sef..so check it again.

real4real2021:
Hello
First I'll like to appreciate all those making effort to help fellow men and brothers out of the darkness into light on this thread
Secondly this might be a bit lengthy and that's because I really want get out of this 'simpish lifestyle' so I just want to pour everything out.

I'm posting this with the hope of getting support and guide from my seniors here
Am reading this thread from the beginning hopefully I will turn fully RED before I get to this page.

So growing up I was a typical 'nice guy' trying hard to appear just 'right', pleasing people and avoiding disagreement like plague.
Extremely shy at some point Infact small things like bargaining for a price is a problem even when I know am being cheated on. (Damn)

My social anxiety is such that I can't even ask question in class, can't ask for money i lend  someone(my own money oo lol),
step on my foot and I might thank you and apologies for putting my leg there LMAO

And that has in turn, limit my progress in almost everything I do, missing opportunities like damn

And when it comes to girls and relationship stuff,
Yeah you are right, it sucks too.
Never had a real girlfriend, not even close female friends like that. I mean how could I with my stupid mindset
I still couldn't maintain serious conversation and relationship with them ladies...

honestly my social life just sucks am tired.

I've tried several times to build my confidence an get out there an do my thing
Have recently gone through books. Like. The Superior man, No more Mr nice guy(still reading) etc
And yes that give me a better understanding
But I haven't seen much improvement in action

So I know some of you might have being there too,
I will be glad to get tips, advice, guide on how to get out of this am just tired.
A mentor I can relate with will be cool too.
You can ask me more about me if that will help.
Just anything to improve my f*cked up lifestyle


I am 20, in my 3rd year in the uni(at home now sha)

Please help me tag, those OGs here dem ubunja harddon etc

luminouz:



Lmaooo@exhaustive list? Bro, I no get such list abeg.

Check these out:

1. Dating: I don't give women money for hair,shoes,clothes,bag, school fees,house rent or allowance. These bills are not mine to pay, especially if she has extant(living) parents. If she is kind, nice and generous, then, I give her stuff on her birthdays(whatever I have in mind), after she must have demonstrated such at my own birthdays. I'm not a fan of eating outside,so all these daily/weekly hangouts are not for me. But taking her out once in a while(as a surprise) is still ok.
I love hardworking women and if she has skills that need money to invest in, I don't give her that money outrightly,I make her a partner and let her know business is different from dick/pussy issues and I won't hesitate to collect my investment if she ain't serious.
Girls go broke,just like guys. So tfare and miscellaneous expenses are still ok for me. But these must NEVER become the ritual in the relationship. She must never believe that I'm her ATM for each and every need. That ain't my role, mudafucker!!!

2. Friends: I have very few female friends. If they are the generous type, then I can give them food when they come visit or if broke,some recharge cards to call. If they are the not generous but the "urgent2k, I'm always hungry, gimme-gimme" type, their texts,calls or WhatsApp statuses are forever unread, unreplied and on eternal mute mode. Business wise, the skillful ones would be partners and I will control 60-70% of the stakes. All other bills are NEVER mine to carry.


N.B: Once a girlfriend or friends start giving you orders on what to do for her, with your own money and threatening to do bla bla blaaaaa...it's time to let her know you are in charge. It is your money,not hers and you don't owe her sponsorship, only her parents do.
I was chatting with a babe yday and she said " I ghosted a new guy sometime ago when he asked for tfare after coming to see me at work,for the first time". According to her, that was uncool and I told her, women have been collecting first visit tfare that we give willingly without crying,so why was she upset? She wanted to convince me but I said I wasn't unconvinced, then she asked "are you part of those who believe in spending their wives/gf's money?" I said why not!!!! As my wife,she has access to mine,why shouldn't I have access to hers? She wasn't Ok with my reply. I smiled inside me. Nothing is sweeter than watching a woman squirm with discomfort because you have a mind of your own and you maintained frame.

real4real2021:
Hello
First I'll like to appreciate all those making effort to help fellow men and brothers out of the darkness into light on this thread
Secondly this might be a bit lengthy and that's because I really want get out of this 'simpish lifestyle' so I just want to pour everything out.

I'm posting this with the hope of getting support and guide from my seniors here
Am reading this thread from the beginning hopefully I will turn fully RED before I get to this page.

So growing up I was a typical 'nice guy' trying hard to appear just 'right', pleasing people and avoiding disagreement like plague.
Extremely shy at some point Infact small things like bargaining for a price is a problem even when I know am being cheated on. (Damn)

My social anxiety is such that I can't even ask question in class, can't ask for money i lend  someone(my own money oo lol),
step on my foot and I might thank you and apologies for putting my leg there LMAO

And that has in turn, limit my progress in almost everything I do, missing opportunities like damn

And when it comes to girls and relationship stuff,
Yeah you are right, it sucks too.
Never had a real girlfriend, not even close female friends like that. I mean how could I with my stupid mindset
I still couldn't maintain serious conversation and relationship with them ladies...

honestly my social life just sucks am tired.

I've tried several times to build my confidence an get out there an do my thing
Have recently gone through books. Like. The Superior man, No more Mr nice guy(still reading) etc
And yes that give me a better understanding
But I haven't seen much improvement in action

So I know some of you might have being there too,
I will be glad to get tips, advice, guide on how to get out of this am just tired.
A mentor I can relate with will be cool too.
You can ask me more about me if that will help.
Just anything to improve my f*cked up lifestyle


I am 20, in my 3rd year in the uni(at home now sha)

Please help me tag, those OGs here dem ubunja harddon etc

dontai:
I really understand your plight, I can't/which I don't talk much. all you need .........


........
also get a friend that has those qualities you need, and be imitating him.

Dapcity007:


Bro's you are young and it's good you are getting an educ.........

real4real2021:

Thanks, am glad to see the replies.
gives me more courage to move forward.
I look forward to going through the phases, and ultimately living a fulfilling life.

For now am going through the thread from beginning and reading the books that were recommended
Hope that's a good start right?

343tipster:


You already know many things from the way you write

You know how to be comfortable but what you don't know is how to be uncomfortable

If I advice people they're 70% likely to get hurt the next day or the third day

If you don't want to get hurt don't quote me
If you want to go the nice way don't quote me

For me to advice my friends in a nice way I will have to ask another nice guy to tell me how to, and at the end they will just laugh

But pls note this, I might advice you to stake your sch fees for 2odds so don't quote me bro if you don't want to get hurt

Cos sometimes I don't like my way too but at the end it makes me ------------------ don't bother fill in the gap bcs I don't know the right word to use there

Peace

Dapcity007:



Bro's you are young and it's good you are getting an education on the nature of women at an early age, so many men wished they had redpill awareness when they were young

The redpill is not a social movement but an individual philosophy, a guide to make pragmatic decision when it comes to women and life

The redpill consists of two aspects , the anti-feminism and the personal development aspects

With regards to your path, you first need a vision for life,what's your life's purpose,what goals do you want to achieve
,how to define happiness and success because they are both different.

We focus on your mental wellbeing, physical fitness,your health, how do you improve society, how can you create wealth, how can you be impactful to humanity

With regards to women , you will understand their manipulative nature, why feminism is a big lie,why men and women are not equal,then you have four options

1)Men Go There Own Way (MGTOW)- which means monk mode and introspection for only your personal development and achieving your goals in some cases you avoid women totally

2)Men Rights movement (MRM)- Not what redpill wants,but some men begin social awareness campaigns with regards to issues affecting Men

3) Pick Up Artistry (PUA)- These involves you gaming with several ladies, having sexual non- exclusive ( no serious dating) relationship with them , it was the earliest form of the redpill online, you can also game to have female friends

4) The girl friend's game- These involves gaming in a long term relationship (LTR) with your girlfriend,the skills and knowledge required to sustain your relationship

5)The Patriarch- These the family man who has settled down with his wife or wives having kids and dealing with family dynamics with redpill awareness



As a young man I expect you to pass through all these five phases then settle down with one in the long run

If you have any questions and anything on your mind feel free to discuss with me

luminouz:


You already nailed the points I was about to pen down.

You can also mail him those books you recommended for a member back there

real4real2021:
Hello
First I'll like to appreciate all those making effort to help fellow men and brothers out of the darkness into light on this thread
Secondly this might be a bit lengthy and that's because I really want get out of this 'simpish lifestyle' so I just want to pour everything out.

I'm posting this with the hope of getting support and guide from my seniors here
Am reading this thread from the beginning hopefully I will turn fully RED before I get to this page.

So growing up I was a typical 'nice guy' trying hard to appear just 'right', pleasing people and avoiding disagreement like plague.
Extremely shy at some point Infact small things like bargaining for a price is a problem even when I know am being cheated on. (Damn)

My social anxiety is such that I can't even ask question in class, can't ask for money i lend  someone(my own money oo lol),
step on my foot and I might thank you and apologies for putting my leg there LMAO

And that has in turn, limit my progress in almost everything I do, missing opportunities like damn

And when it comes to girls and relationship stuff,
Yeah you are right, it sucks too.
Never had a real girlfriend, not even close female friends like that. I mean how could I with my stupid mindset
I still couldn't maintain serious conversation and relationship with them ladies...

honestly my social life just sucks am tired.

I've tried several times to build my confidence an get out there an do my thing
Have recently gone through books. Like. The Superior man, No more Mr nice guy(still reading) etc
And yes that give me a better understanding
But I haven't seen much improvement in action

So I know some of you might have being there too,
I will be glad to get tips, advice, guide on how to get out of this am just tired.
A mentor I can relate with will be cool too.
You can ask me more about me if that will help.
Just anything to improve my f*cked up lifestyle


I am 20, in my 3rd year in the uni(at home now sha)

Please help me tag, those OGs here dem ubunja harddon etc

Ablemax:



Okay I'll get it , but what app are you using to read book cuz me I don't like the PDF reader style

Saviolamemphix:
U can use light reader

Dapcity007:



Bro's you are young and it's good you are getting an education on the nature of women at an early age, so many men wished they had redpill awareness when they were young

The redpill is not a social movement but an individual philosophy, a guide to make pragmatic decision when it comes to women and life

The redpill consists of two aspects , the anti-feminism and the personal development aspects

With regards to your path, you first need a vision for life,what's your life's purpose,what goals do you want to achieve
,how to define happiness and success because they are both different.

We focus on your mental wellbeing, physical fitness,your health, how do you improve society, how can you create wealth, how can you be impactful to humanity

With regards to women , you will understand their manipulative nature, why feminism is a big lie,why men and women are not equal,then you have four options

1)Men Go There Own Way (MGTOW)- which means monk mode and introspection for only your personal development and achieving your goals in some cases you avoid women totally

2)Men Rights movement (MRM)- Not what redpill wants,but some men begin social awareness campaigns with regards to issues affecting Men

3) Pick Up Artistry (PUA)- These involves you gaming with several ladies, having sexual non- exclusive ( no serious dating) relationship with them , it was the earliest form of the redpill online, you can also game to have female friends

4) The girl friend's game- These involves gaming in a long term relationship (LTR) with your girlfriend,the skills and knowledge required to sustain your relationship

5)The Patriarch- These the family man who has settled down with his wife or wives having kids and dealing with family dynamics with redpill awareness



As a young man I expect you to pass through all these five phases then settle down with one in the long run

If you have any questions and anything on your mind feel free to discuss with me

real4real2021:


LMAO, well I know quite a few things. But It somehow doesn't reflect in my daily life.

Do I want to go the nice way? NOT anymore.

And talking bout getting hurt, well if it's worth it y not.
But for that 2odds we'll use your school fees today, 2moro we use mine.
How u see am. Lol