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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:48pm On May 04|
The modern man, unlike before, will have to oppose society and its modus operandi in living the traditional patriarch lifestyle. Also, since unlike in the past, the modern man's traditional and patriarchal rules begins and ends in his home (society no longer supports patriarchy and automatic Male leadership. It has opted for 50-50 and liberalism), how will he deal with bait and switch when children are involved and when society provides a safety net for the woman to pull her bait and switch and cry out against a family life women and society today deem "oppressive", "misogynistic", "patriarchal", and "toxic" (even when she agreed to these settings during dating and marriage) ?
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by FRANKOSKI(m): 7:02pm On May 04|
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by angelfallz(m): 7:09pm On May 04|
I don't think Aisha Yesufu is a northerner. She should be from Edo state.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:14pm On May 04|
angelfallz:Noted. I will look it up.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 7:30pm On May 04|
Well, some people believe gynocentrism cannot come into Nigeria because of men in power and the Islamic North. A lot of men, even most in the North and those you think are patriarchs, are actually simps. Also, the North is not the only part of Nigeria; even if the North doesn't yield to gynocentrism, can't we have a case where other parts are gynocentric except the North? Even when that happens, educated Northern women (eg. Aisha Yesufu) will subtly collude with women from the South to push "equality" and gynocentrism. Mind you that generation by generation, Muslim men are becoming soft and simpish, especially the educated ones in urban areas; it's only a matter of time. Do women like Aisha Yesufu look like traditional submissive women to you despite their hijab and whatever? She is even a feminist, a Muslim feminist, let that sink in. Does her husband look like the domineering, Islamic, alpha patriarch some aspiring patriarch here wetdream to become? Where is the power of Islam in the face of gynocentrism and already-embraced western influence? Many muslims, especially educated ones, are even being moderate muslims if not leaving Islam or being nominal muslims. It's so bad that you have muslims who are feminists or support "equality," and the rise of muslim women who are demanding that their husbands remain married to only them and not get other wives.
Factors, which I will not explain, that ushers a society into gynocentrism
(1) A safe and comfortable time.
(2) A simp culture and the majority of men being simps.
(3) "Equality" in the constitution and the participation of women in positions of power and lawmaking.
(4) Lack of a manly fathers/strong masculine figures in the lives of children, especially boys. Your mother, female guardians, simp fathers/guardians, will raise little boys to be simps.
Some redpillers might call me a misogynist, but if you encourage women to take up positions of power, become judges/lawyers, decide laws, and even vote, you have no ground to complain about gynocentrism and the propagation of the female agenda. You know fully well, as redpiller, that the females in these positions carry their female nature with them and will always work in accordance with the female agenda. With females (about half of the population) being allowed to influence laws, and majority of men (simps) on the side of the female agenda, gynocentrism is sure to run its course; it's only a matter of time.
I remember, few years back, on nairaland, when I conversed with a female nairalander (ladyçewhy, I think). She, a staunch feminist, played the victim and complained that Nigerian women are suffering and are shortchanged. I pointed out the error in this, and I asked her what the solution would be to her supposed problem. She said the family laws in western countries would be the solution in order to protect women. I kid you not. Even some Nigerian women are aware of the laws over there and they fully support it.
Those who marry now in Nigeria or western men who move to conservative terrains don't know how the existing laws will change in ten, fifteen or twenty year's time; you never can tell when or how it will change. Note that even if you marry before these laws, your marriage and divorce will be subject to the newly passed gynocentric laws once they are passed. This happened to traditional American men who got married in the 40s - 60s only for their virgin conservative wives to take advantage of the new marital, child support, and domestic violence laws that feminists fought for in the 70s and 80s (these are the traditionally nurtured and supposed well-bred wives of the 40s, 50s, and 60s, whom are esteemed by the media and others as the archetypal submissive and traditional wives). Some of these wives even became feminists in the 70s and 80s, to the chagrin of their husbands, most of whom fought in world war. AWALT. (They were submissive and traditional because of the world wars, and they couldn't dare venture feminist talking points. They allowed men go to war while they played the traditional women until things became safe).
Finally, I acknowledge that Islam got a lot things right about women and it's the most red-pill religion among its abrahamic contemporaries. However, Islam isn't just about the red pill, it is way more than that, and it needs a lot of reforms in order to make it compatible with basic human rights, especially freedom of speech and expression, and technological advancements. Also, instituting Islam for the sake of putting women in check and establishing patriarchy in every facet of life will face many challenges: do most people believe in Allah and are they willing to thread the core Islamic path in an age where we know so much? NO! If that's the case and an Islamic caliphate is established, a rebellion will quickly abolish the caliphate or a massive bloodshed and force by muslims will be required to keep the caliphate alive. We already know that an apostate or critic of Muhammad will be killed in an Islamic caliphate, and most people abhor honor killings and a lot more in Islam. Also, a theocracy is as strong as the number of those who earnestly embrace the necessary beliefs and practices of the required religion. It also doesn't help that there is a reason why people flee Islamic countries and come to the west. If you are willing to trade your freedom and rights because you want to put "hoès in check", that's your business; Islam doesn't put only women in check, it also put men in check as well. Perhaps, one can create a system based of (Islamic) red-pill principles and infuse it with secularism and freedom of speech and expression; that's not my headache.
From the onset till now, I accept that patriarchy is good for both genders, but in a time like this where the SOCIAL pillars ancient men had to enforce and protect their masculinity is almost nonexistent, the patriarchy that men of old had shall somewhat remain an unattainable ideal of the modern man.
With the level of Simping being displayed by 70% of men born from the mid-90s to date, it is extremely heartbreaking to say indeed the future is Gmail. Unless some kind of miracle take place.
The older Redpilled generation of men are dying it is just a matter of time before SIMPS take over the mantle of leadership in Africa and when that happens, I fear to imagine the kind of laws they will make and pass in favour of women/feminism. And guess what ? It will be worse than that of the Western world.......
With the level of weakasss men we have in this age and time, it is only a matter of time before the world is run and control by angry and frustrated feminists who sees men as the source of their imperfections.....
Do you know that most male children from wealthy and influential families are Glorified Simps ?
Do you know that our schools now teach our sons how to be SIMPs while at the same time they teach our daughters how to be entitled, aggressive and arrogant ?
Unless something urgent is done if not, then the future is indeed Gmail
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 7:32pm On May 04|
Gynocentrism is already here in nigeria and there is little to nothing anyone can do. I agree with all you wrote. I don't know why people think they can fight a trend.
I understand people don't always like change when the present condition favours them.
Some whites are still annoyed today for we blacks being free and not still slaves, for us having our freedom, ability to do what we want and like.
Some Germans are still fantasizing about forming Nazi and conquering europe again, dreaming about the old good days.
Traditional setting is good but we should acknowledge the fact that the era is fast going and it is very very expensive and risky to run in this era.
How many nigerian men can boast of being financially buoyant to fully finance the family for a GOOD LIFE? including side spending like in-laws, extended family wahalas, investing for the future etc
Peradventure the man can do it, what of life unforeseen emergencies death, fatal accident that will man the provider bed-ridden etc the unprepared woman will be thrown into distress of carrying the family expenses and how will she do it? when she is not trained or prepared for that, when she is not earning her own income. Ohhh, i guess some people just think in one direction, they think life is a straight line graph, the accidents, death, financial disasters and business collapses can't affect them because they are immune, they serve a living God, we are pessimistic, weak and afraid to face the future like a real man, i guess.
The truth is that you can't easily run a traditional life in a 21st century civilized life. They are 2 different paths.
Traditional setting makes humans work in group and beat back any person drifting away from the group and it thrives when there is regular and imminent threats - regular tribes clashes, neighbouring villages and communities fighting. So the group live together, obey an agreed law etc just to be able to survive.
Reason while in traditional settings, face you, i face me houses thrives were people go to eat, drink and sleep in each others places, they share things in common, clothes, everything was natural and organic. They frown against a woman with mentality of - my body is my body and i can use it the way i like etc
Even when going to school, the whole community will gather money to sponsor some to school with the hope they will come back to the community and help or pay back when the time is due. We have so many of these traditional settings
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 7:56pm On May 04|
Like i was saying, the traditional setting encourages people working together as a group in other not to weaken them because they don't have much finance or sophisticated equipment to survive much then else they will perish and collapse to the lurking threats.
Contrary to what most people believe that traditional setting created strong men who ruled and controlled their families effectively, i will disagree with them and say the men then were just very luck to have the laws in their favour. The traditional setting created a pillar and structure to disarm/dis-empower the women in the society thereby making the women to automatically be humble and subservient to the men.
Believe me, a large percentage of the men then were very very lazy compared to the modern man. Is it the blacksmith that barely makes any earning a month but goes home to meet a woman that respects him and manage whatever he brings, taking the remaining things she needs from neighbours, the fisherman, farmer with less than 1 acre of farm, the bricklayers, well diggers, carpenters, biker riders, civil servants (earning 70 naira in the 70/80's) who were all struggling to make ends meet but their wives all respect them, they there not speak when the men are speaking despite these men not worth answering or listen to on a normal day. It is a system that doesn't appreciate talents, skills much rather age.
The oldest man in the family automatically assume the position as the head of the family even if he is not educated, irresponsible in his own nuclear/immediate family, backward in thinking but the traditional setting accords him the position while more competent,vibrant , younger family member is there.
I do see how some of my family members - uncles staying in my village without really doing anything meaningful but you see their wives respecting them, addressing them with respect and humbleness, kneeing down when they serve them water or food - Do we all think the women are doing all these because the men had frames? because the are strong and can control their wives? we must be joking. The structures and pillars laid by the traditional setting did that for all of the. The weak, old, lazy, drunkards etc among them all enjoying the benefits they never worked for nor deserve.
The modern man is really trying his best but what does he get back? more shaming from both men and women for being useless, lazy and not hustling like his forefathers (people that never hustled like we)
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL: 7:57pm On May 04|
These not true
Even Dubai and other Arab nations that have allowed liberalism for their economic development and progress have ensured that they maintained their Islamic Patriachal values
Mainstream media narrative has struck fear into your heart, Nigeria has many problems and gynocentrism is the least of our worry
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL: 8:03pm On May 04|
Sure Simps abound
Mordern Redpillers like us are not like western men that are anonymous and afraid of embracing their innate Patriachal masculinity because they are shamed as toxic misogynist, some African christians men like me and my Ishmaelite Islamic brothers are not cowards under the covenant of our Abraham we are ready to ensure the continuance of Patriachy we will teach our sons and sons sons
Same way Jewish religion and Islam was passed on we will pass on the redpill too our children , it's no longer a philosophy for us it has become our new faith that must live on after us
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rozcol: 8:11pm On May 04|
Martinez39s:To what end with all these your write-ups? anyways I know you are good at sciences I'm throwing a challenge at you and I bet you I'll take you to the cleaners in that regards.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:20pm On May 04|
The 21st century is quite different -
it encourages individualism and competition. If you don't earn it, you don't worth it.
People will only listen and respect you when the believe you have succeeded in life (any ara of life)
A failure becomes automatically invincible. It is a winner takes it all system.
It is a earn as you work system.
If you are not doing fine, the system to protect you against women to respect you is no more there, they will insult, drag you and dump your ass or make it miserable.
One of the major turning point between the traditional setting and civilized setting is EDUCATION.
The moment women were allowed to go to school and work, the game became staked against men.
The more women gets empowered with jobs, working and earning for themselves, it becomes very hard for men to control these women simply because they can feed themselves, cloth, rent an apartment etc virtually everything they want from a man.
If we can stop women going to school - they won't have a choice than to stay at home and help in home chores with mama, thereby become homely, feminine, reserved, family-oriented and the family will want to rush them to marry at a very early age since there is no point staying longer at home AND there you have it guys, you homely, feminine, traditional woman we all crave for BUT will the world allow this archaic, backward lifestyle? Of course not.
Going to school - a woman becomes infected with the western culture, becomes loose, stays away from family/home that are to monitor, guide and caution her, free to do whatever she wants to do, clubbing, banging etc when working - office romance etc
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL: 8:21pm On May 04|
Don't disrespect our forefathers, they fought tribal wars, faced famine,they were captured as slaves by western men, they faced death, mordern men even some Redpillers have been weakened and reduced to online commentators afraid of facing real life battles like our fathers in these peaceful era , our fathers carried their burden of performance without complaining and what they faced we won't wish it upon ourselves especially the wars
They were the real disposable sex unlike modern Simps who want women to share the burden of performance with them in a equalist manner forgetting that they would pay a very high cost their freedom
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Olochee: 9:58pm On May 04|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 10:24pm On May 04|
I don't understand how a sensible Nigerian in his or her analysis of Nigeria being gynocentric won't even factor tradition,religion and culture and wil b blabbing about Nigerian being fully gynocentric SMH!!
Indeed modem men nowadays are weaklings, low valued beta male simps. They will rather watch gynocentrism happen than look for ways to prevent it from happening.
No wonder western men in western societies are second class citizens. They will rather be online warriors than stand for patriarchy and masculinity. I love the way western women divorce rapes them and they will b screaming MGTOW lolzzzzzzzzz such baffons and weaklings.
Some western idiotic men still believe in feminism and gynocentrism low key but they will be claiming MGTOW or redpiller SMH!
Anyways I will only accept gynocentrism if Islam allows it, till then lemme have fun and watch how western women oppress western men and watch how the great western civilization collapses. Even china is taking necessary steps to ensure their society isn't gynocentric or femcentric.
Western men and their stupidity never ceases to amaze me lolzzzzzzzzz.
Wats paining me is some so-called Nigerian redpillers all because they are useless in the society and don't have ambition and drive are even buying into this Nigeria is fully gynocentric all because of their lazy attitude to life. These men are meant to be castrated and fed to the dogs.
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 10:39pm On May 04|
When they say black men have the lowest IQ wen compared to other races now I believe it.
The Chinese are watching the western societies and taking steps to ensure that their society doesnt become femcentric.
The Arabs are doing same
African men are clamouring and even wanting gynocentrism to be the norm in Africa SMH!
Black people and their folly ehn e get as e b mtscheww!!
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 11:05pm On May 04|
A nice last couple of pages.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 11:27pm On May 04|
She is from Auchi in Edo State.
Regardless, your points are very valid.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:53am On May 05|
DAY 125, REDPILL 2021
Friendzone is avoidable only when men emphasize on sexual related underlying overtons during interaction or communication with women.
She will not fall in love with you as per your intelligence or your Columbus knowledge about the world. You must be able to generate intriguing emotions in her.
Authority: Have an alpha mindset.
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 10:24am On May 05|
Olochee:Nice, my own too na Tuesday. Nema cds.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Brayss(m): 11:05am On May 05|
[quote author=DEMZEE post=101387394]
Anyways I will only accept gynocentrism if Islam allows it, [/qoute]nice one.
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Stonecoldstare1: 11:23am On May 05|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:30am On May 05|
emmaodet:I wouldn't say gynocentrism is already here in Nigeria, though there are elements of it here. However, we can safely say that it looms on the horizon given the following:
(1) Massive simp culture,
(2) Mother worship,
(3) The vilification and abandonment of patriarchy and automatic male leadership,
(4) The increasing participation of women in key positions, especially law making.
(5) the scarcity of manly fathers/strong masculine figures who will raise little boys to be masculine and redpilled.
(6) Influence of social media and the subsequent open hoè culture among Nigerian girls. Social media also fortifies and flairs up the feminist disposition of our females, and it acquaints them with the latest feminist and gynocentric trends around the globe. Thanks to "women liberation and empowerment", women are not required by society to improve in character and fitness or to bring anything to the table even though men are still required to maintain their disposability and meet their traditional burden of performance (which is even increasing and getting stricter). For the females, just being a female is enough.
While from my view gynocentrism isn't fully here, these six problems are what is currently plaguing our society. These problems will likely prove to be the foundation of full-blown gynocentrism in upcoming decades.
Gynocentrism and the six problems I listed are not something few redpillers can fight and prevent. A few redpillers are not bigger than the society; few people can't fight the government, politicians, legal institutions, police & military, and the masses who are deep in the matrix. Even hundred Ubunjas can't change the system; even a thousand DEMZÈE (Dapcity) with all his signature braggadocio, uncultured aggression, and patriarchal zeal can't fight these even if he becomes rich, marries ten wives, and lives the patriarchal lifestyle; the influence of society and these things will burst into the home of a modern-day patriarch and other few like-minded individuals through their wives (especially series of bait and switch, her female friends, social media, and subtle parental alienation) and their children (especially the daughters). To combat these, there need to be a serious cultural revolution. For this to happen, the overwhelming majority of men must be red-pilled and understood gynocentrism and they must be on the same page on how to abolish the six vices I listed and gynocentrism (if it exists); a city divided against itself will not stand. It will take generations, years, and persistent efforts. Even the gynocentric structure in the West took years, careful planning, hardwork, media influence and persistent efforts from feminists, and such is still happening; they even had support from men (simps) and the government (with time). How much more redpill revolutionaries who will face stiff opposition from women (who will never agree with us, or they would try to infiltrate us) and simps and the government and constitution (along the line, we will try to infiltrate these two, but it will be hard.)
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 11:37am On May 05|
In your leisure time tryna watch this documentary: The Truth About Marriage. Link: https://www.thenetnaija.com/videos/movies/13873-the-truth-about-marriage-2018
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 11:58am On May 05|
DEMZEE:Trash as usual please learn to shut dat gutter u call mouth.
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 12:46pm On May 05|
Bro, where is the link? can't see it.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 12:48pm On May 05|
Nice points raised.
More reason i do say you can't fight a trend or swim against the tide/current. Let it help you and take advantage of it rather than struggling to counteract it.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KennedyOkpara(m): 1:19pm On May 05|
Yesterday I was listening to the radio. There was this "wish someone a happy birthday program" A guy called for the radio broadcasters to wish his gf a happy birthday, They called her guess what? The girl denied knowing the guy and saying she wasn't in a relationship lol, I was embarrassed for him. Women ain't worth it joor...
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 1:31pm On May 05|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Xsergize(m): 1:33pm On May 05|
He wan spoil her business with her other customers
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 1:39pm On May 05|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 1:41pm On May 05|
KennedyOkpara:But what if she is right bro? The dude might be a stalker-like toaster who the girl doesn't like or want and have warned him severally to keep off her. What if that radio stuff was a stunt by the dude to get at the girl?
I have seen some really desperate dudes out there who went even lower than that to hoodwink a woman's affections
N.B: Not knocking off your point bro. Girls do deny their so-called bf...but some men do some really weird shiit also for attention
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kennyking1234: 1:48pm On May 05|
Hope it continues
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