Negroid001:
Ya'll should check this book out...

Miracood2:
caveadullam

I'm a bit disappointed king.

Women know this game by heart.
They started by elevating the who of some of the strong pillers of this thread, succeded in getting the attention of one.

Then went on to execute their plans.

Do not quote any female moniker, even if she bears the same name with your mother.

ubunja:

Pre-selection. That's what it is. As others have said already.

Pre-selection is when a man is already wanted by other women, or already "selected" before a woman accepts him. It makes the man wanted because him being already wanted vouches for him. It's like a letter of recommendation. The simplest way to see this in action is when you're single, no woman wants to talk to you. But when you get a girlfriend, suddenly all these women are interested in you. What has changed? A girl likes you now. And that broadcasts to all women that you're a good guy after all not some awkward loser.
Think of it like money. If you want to deposit your money do you choose a bank that looks broke or do you choose a bank that looks rich? Obviously the bank that looks rich. That the bank has its own money already broadcasts to you that your money is safe with them. Same thing. When a man has a woman, or women, it broadcasts to a woman that she's in safe hands with a man who knows what he's doing. That you've a girlfriend tells other women a lot about you instantaneously- that you can provide,, you're not stingy, you can fucc and you can protect. When you're single it's not easy for women to deduce these things and for any woman to get close and try to test you, it will take too much of her time and effort. So women rely on Pre-selection to get the job done. They want another woman to do the work on their behalf. To test and choose you first.

Why do women want married men? Pre-selection. Why do female friends steal each other's boyfriend? Pre-selection. Why does a guy who makes 1 girl pregnant usually make another girl pregnant soon after? Pre-selection.

Just like it's easy for a rich man to have more money because money goes to money; it's easy for a player to have more women cause women go to where other women are.
It's easier for a man in a relationship to get another woman than it is for a single man to get a woman. Pre-selection.

I can stop here or I can go on:
If Sandra is dealing with two men who want her: one, Lazaro who does everything and moves heaven and earth to show her. And two, Martinez, who doesn't do anything really to show her love, but instead has other women moving heaven and earth to show HIM they want him, who will Sandra choose?

Martinez of course.

Why? - - - - - - - > Pre-selection.

A Woman wants a man everyone wants. She wants that man to then ignore everyone and choose HER. That makes her feel more special than having only one man move worlds to prove his love. Women want to compete for a man. Not men to compete for them. When men compete over a woman Yes it's a special thing for her, but not as special as when she herself beats ten prettier women to get that one guy all women want. It's why women will literally exchange blows over a man,, that man is Alpha. But when men exchange blows over a woman, those men are Beta, regardless of who wins. A woman wants to win her man.
The man she wins she'll submit to,, but the man who wins her, ends up submitting to her in fear of losing her. Therefore the man she wins is her Alpha while she's his beta. Whereas,, the man who wins her is her Beta while she's his Alpha. Remember Alpha gets the power, Beta gets the fantasy. The chaser/competitor is the beta who gets their fantasy but does so at the expense of power.
What is Power in a relationship? Well when there are fight and disagreements, who usually apologizes and compromises to keep the other happy? The one without power. This must be the woman if a relationship is to work, and Masculinity and Femininity coexist peacefully. Women must have the fantasy, men must have the power. By "women must have the fantasy" I mean women must be the ones dating their dream man.

Coming to the pic below,, it's not a good feeling for a woman to see you trying to get other women but dismally failing because it broadcasts to her that you were lucky with her. And that fuccs up her hypergamy internally. She feels like a loser for dating you whom no woman wants.

It will make your girlfriend's ego sky rocket if she went through your phone and saw YOU turning down women in your DMs or texts. Her pucc would flow with the juices. And not because you're faithful,, but because WOMEN WANT YOU. She stays feeling like a winner. Listen, you can cheat on your girl, but if the female you cheated with is drop dead gorgeous, many times better than your girl, your girl will forgive you. By demonstrating you can get that woman who is a 10, your girlfriend who is a 7 feels also like a 10. How?. If a guy who usually fuccs female celebrities fuccs a nobody of a girl, that nobody will feel like one of the celebs. Pre-selection.

That's why being single is never an option. Always be dealing with women. That's how you get women.

Martinez39s:
You sef get am. There are lots of things I could point out, but it's not everything one will always explain. Anyway, we move.

Martinez39s:
You sef get am. There are lots of things I could point out, but it's not everything one will always explain. Anyway, we move.

davidswhales:

Ubunja! I sometimes wonder where your wisdom comes from. All you said up there is nothing but the truth and every guy who has dated , still dating must have experienced and will always experience Pre-selection. Thumbs up bruv for the wonderful and detailed explanation. God bless

KAM3KAZI:


I swear to God!
Where does this knowledge come from?? Abi Ubunja get three heads??

Martinez39s:
Ubunja's knowledge of red pill/game is second to none on nairaland. His maturity is exemplary. I learnt a lot from Ubunja. He has my respect and I would recommend anyone to read his miseducations. Once again,

Martinez39s:
Ubunja's knowledge of red pill/game is second to none on nairaland. His maturity is exemplary. I learnt a lot from Ubunja. He has my respect and I would recommend anyone to read his miseducations. Once again,

leetylee:
Ahem... They always seek for a validating approval to entitlement.

Miracood2:
caveadullam

I'm a bit disappointed king.

Women know this game by heart.
They started by elevating the who of some of the strong pillers of this thread, succeded in getting the attention of one.

Then went on to execute their plans.

Do not quote any female moniker, even if she bears the same name with your mother.

Nezzjnr:

Most times i ask myself if this Man is a genuine Cleric.

PUSSYHOE:


Ubunja is a god and i want one thing from him.


Tell me how to keep a baby mama in check because i have one too. I have applied all redpill knowledge on her as gf it worked wonders but not a baby mama i need help.

Martinez39s:
The dynamic of leverage has changed. She is more settled and she now has a child for you. Let me guess (I could be wrong), the child stays mostly with her, you send money regularly and pay them visits sometimes. Am I right?

PUSSYHOE:


Quoting a female shouldn't be a big deal sometimes we just quote them for them to display their stupidity or just for fun.

E.g see her reply to my question, doesn't that prove woman's nature? You should know better women will always come in and one of us will wanna have fun

Smartb0y:

Maybe do it on another thread, let's reserved this for redpill issues.
I just schemed through 4 pages,not much to take home tonight.

posty56:
this what I was saying that nobody be boss forget how many redpill dose you swallow, that's why you need the pill continuously, I am not shading anyone , I just trying to tell nobody be 100% for this game, lower your expectations he,'s a human just like you and me.

PUSSYHOE:


Apologies my man it may not be me next time, i shit you not someone will reply. I give you my words.

posty56:
and another thing I notice nobody here they claim say in they make mistake, it makes here more uptight and looks strict if you make mistake better voice it out, and redpillers in the house if person make mistake make una no crucify am instead correct him, this is not a military camp we are all here to I come in peace.

Martinez39s:
Being redpilled is a continuous journey that doesn't end till death. No redpiller is infallible and there are times when there are lapses; what will show if you a redpiller is if you recognise your mistake and plan to do better next time. Mistakes and lapses are one of the ways redpillers grow and one cannot tell what lapses he will make: it usually comes without warning. This is not to say that there are no things one should outgrow with time. Everything is a lesson and there should never be any expectation of perfection. I too have made brief slip-ups in the past. Sometimes, lapses get you back on track in a certain aspect.

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What has happened has happened, let's not make a big deal out of it and beat CaveAdullám down. Believe me, what happened takes nothing away from CaveAdullàm: things will only get better from here. We move.

PUSSYHOE:


Apologies my man it may not be me next time, i shit you not someone will reply. I give you my words.

CaveAdullam:


And it will be me of course! Sure 10 odds.

Lol!

PUSSYHOE:
What da Bleep man How did you know?

So how do i tame her? I think it is a different game now if i go she uses her hypergamy to get richer men if i stay i must marry her which two elderly women that love me said i shouldn't not with her past( they are not women supporting women type) they 60plus women who love me like a son.

CaveAdullam help!

posty56:
caveadullum , stuff is not a case to me, I know he wanted to put that troll in his/her place, I just wanted to use it as an avenue to voice some certain things, I notice the uprightness here , I sometimes to post go they fear me , if I make mistake I come here to read caveadallum post and other OGs post in the house to get sense