STARGREEN:
Go ahead

baralatie:

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ojun50:

Go ahead and use the vaccine
@op ask her out and start a new relationship with her and also let her know about the past

otobasin2323:
Dear nairaland family,

please ignore all my typical errors am not perfect but i really need your advise on this matter that i have been struggling with for over a month now.
most of you can remember the last i time i posted how can i get custody of my son

see here https://www.nairaland.com/5298084/how-take-custody-beloved-son

now the thing is it has been one year my girlfriend left me along with my son and ever since then i have been so devasted all beacuse i could not meet her required need that am a broke ass nigga according to her.

now there is this young lady who is very pretty in my own eyes , she is so down to earth i dont talk to her we just normally greet and she normally greets me back. she is just new in our neigbhorhood is a face me i face you yard, so one day what i saw was she sent me friend request i accepted we started chating and talking very well but everything seem to happen so fast which makes me think she is a spy or something else

one day she inquired from me what happen between me and my son that ever since she started comming close to me people do tell her to stay away from me that i have a son, that she just wanted to ask me and hear from my own mouth, i took it as nothing since we were just ordinary friends who chat so well on social media

after telling her part of my story is just as if the bond between me and her got so close, till the extend of her coming to my room to watch bbn and talk to me i just saw it as a normal thing because she was keeping me company even tho my neigbors do gossip about us, we did not bother about that

now last week i dont know what came into my head we started chating naughty chat then she was actually replying with great positvity and we almost share the same flows i started to fall in love with her but i dont want to tell her yet cause am confuse but each day my love grow for her
heavily without me knowing that she too she is waiting for me to pop the big question which am very sure she will say yes

why i say she will say yes is because on sunday, i took her out and we bought some drinks and we got high so we came bck to house we did so many funny stuff, she almost kissed me but i refrain from it and told her that she is high that i cant take advantage of her in that state.

she is seeing me as her boyfriend but am yet to ask her out, i really love her and am scared because of my past relationship, she gives me peace of mind and so down to earth, i love her but i dont want to make mistakes

please i need advice it will really help and guide me in orde not to do any mistakes again. Thank you

Zayttoven:
Rule number 632 Of the Male Code of Conduct "NEVER DATE YOUR NEIGHBOUR, LODGE MATE, FLATMATE, OFFICE MATE WHATSOEVER"

stanliwise:
@otobasin2323
Everything you told us up there is that you are attracted to her, also she is now attracted to you.
Attraction is the platform for relationships to occur but now let say this.

1. Do you really like her?, let us assume she don’t talk to you? Is your attraction as a result of because she comes to you?
Garri na poor man best friend until money comes

2. Will asking for relationship help you and her? Will it distract you from improving your situation?

No go add another new baby mama and also jeopardize your current situation with another child in the picture. This does not mean relationship is a no no. A good girl can help you out of hard moment but this also mean you are in a helpable situation and she on her part has substance to offer. But if you are a sinking she Abeg leave small girl alone and fix your own ship first o.

that was exactly what i do think each time am about to ask her out, but to me she is okay and she is content with what she has, she has never asked me of anything but she always gives me good advice on some business which can bring income to me. na just money dey insult man sha to execute am but am working hard to that, she understand me so well than my previous relationship well thank you for this i will still keep looking and waiting for the right time
No go suffer another man daughter for nothing.

Oluromantic:
We're different but in my own opinion and my experience so far. When emotions/love are growing so fast within a short while or a lady is going extreme on the hard-to-get game, it's not a good signal for emotional stability that will last. Friendship should flow normally between you two before love and proposal sets in. It's that friendship that will sustain the marriage much later when emotions fade.

Has she seen you talking to some other ladies before? Remember you live in same house. What's her reaction to ladies or colleagues jokingly calling you honey physically and on phones. How does she elate you in public among friends and families. It's not just about getting drunk together. How much tolerance does she have and how much can such tolerance last, attitude, respect, support, what kind of family is she from. Is she the type that will rain brimstone just on hearing rumors of you cheating without confirming.

You would see that if you don't propose soon around this particular time, she will start keeping serious malice with you in that house that you didnt take her love seriously whereas you just wanted the initial gragra to calm down. I'll advice you check how long her love and friendship to you can last without proposal. Compatibly is another thing you shd consider. In fact it's advisable you see her dark side too(anger, unforgiving etc), it's the love n flaky side you've been seeing so far. Don't make the mistake you made at first. God is your strength.

Zayttoven:
Rule number 632 Of the Male Code of Conduct "NEVER DATE YOUR NEIGHBOUR, LODGE MATE, FLATMATE, OFFICE MATE WHATSOEVER"

Zayttoven:
Rule number 632 Of the Male Code of Conduct "NEVER DATE YOUR NEIGHBOUR, LODGE MATE, FLATMATE, OFFICE MATE WHATSOEVER"

otobasin2323:

that was exactly what i do think each time am about to ask her out, but to me she is okay and she is content with what she has, she has never asked me of anything but she always gives me good advice on some business which can bring income to me. na just money dey insult man sha to execute am but am working hard to that, she understand me so well than my previous relationship well thank you for this i will still keep looking and waiting for the right time

Zayttoven:
Rule number 632 Of the Male Code of Conduct "NEVER DATE YOUR NEIGHBOUR, LODGE MATE, FLATMATE, OFFICE MATE WHATSOEVER"