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Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 7:42pm On Aug 12, 2020
Straight to the point!
My madam like me right from the first day I started working with her, it was very obvious, I even head one of my colleague telling my other colleagues that our madam like me a lot. she is very nice to me and she favour me a lot.
My concern now is that if am chatting with her she do used words romantic words as well as romantic emojis to chat with me but I am very scared of reciprocating such expression to her because she is married, I'am afraid to chat another man wife with romantic words or used romantic emojis to chat with her (to me that's being disrespectful), sometimes I do delete our chatting so that someone may not mistaking or intentionally read it and read meaning to it
Please advise:
Should I reciprocate? is it normal or I should be careful? If she chat me with romantic words or emojis, can I reciprocate too because sometimes I am being tempted to reciprocate because she is really amazing! but the fear of "somebody" wife will not allow me to do it, I don't want any trouble so I try to be careful. Will she be unhappy if i am not reciprocating such expression to her if we are chatting? please advise me, I really love working with her and I don't want to lose my job.
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Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by iLearner: 7:47pm On Aug 12, 2020
Your boss is a nairalander, and will soon see this and fire you




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Why did you remove her chats!? angry

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Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:48pm On Aug 12, 2020
Irijosa777:
Straight to the point!
My madam like me right from the first day I started working with her, it was very obvious, I even head one of my colleague telling my other colleagues that our madam like me a lot. she is very nice to me and she favour me a lot.
My concern now is that if am chatting with her she do used words like "I love you, you are very special, I will do anything for you" and she also uses romantic emojis to chat with me but I am very scared of reciprocating such expression to her because she is married and she is not my age, she senior me by far. I can't tell another man wife that I love you or used romantic emojis to chat with her (to me that's being disrespectful), the highest I do go is "thanks a lot, God bless you, you are the best." sometimes I do delete our chatting so that someone may not mistaking or intentionally read it and read meaning to it
Please advise:
Should I reciprocate? is it normal or I should be careful? If she tell me "I love you" or uses those romantic emojis to chat me, can I reciprocate too because sometimes I am being tempted to reciprocate because she is really amazing! but the fear of "somebody" wife will not allow me to do it, I don't want any trouble so I try to be careful. Will she be unhappy if i am not reciprocating such expression to her if we are chatting? please advise me, I really love working with her.

you say you CANT tell another man's wife that you love her and then ask us if you should reciprocate...are you ok?!
make this woman understand that you APPRECIATE her and CARE for her and her family... but thats about it.

remember the golden rule of life: DONT SHIIT WHERE YOU EAT!

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Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Sundrus: 7:53pm On Aug 12, 2020
E go soon end in tears... since u no know wetin dey right from wrong.
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 7:53pm On Aug 12, 2020
iLearner:
Your boss is a nairalander, and will soon see this and fire you




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Why did you remove her chats!? angry
My madam is too nice to that, she will understand my fear
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 8:01pm On Aug 12, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


you say you CANT tell another man's wife that you love her and then ask us if you should reciprocate...are you ok?!
make this woman understand that you APPRECIATE her and CARE for her and her family... but thats about it.

remember the golden rule of life: DONT SHIIT WHERE YOU EAT!
thanks for this advise, I really appreciate it
that's all that I need to do. this advise is a enough for me
God bless you
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by youthsinitiativ(m): 8:07pm On Aug 12, 2020
So, because I was trying to encourage and give you hope you now feel like Gods gift to a woman and decided to bring our chats here.

You don't have to turn up for work from tomorrow.

You are fired (in Trump's voice).
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Nobody: 8:07pm On Aug 12, 2020
na wa ooo this world have spoil finish
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 8:12pm On Aug 12, 2020
youthsinitiativ:
So, because I was trying to encourage and give you hope you now feel like Gods gift to a woman and decided to bring our chats here.

You don't have to turn up for work from tomorrow.

You are fired (in Trump's voice).
lolzzzzz! thanks you boss I accept it (in Trump's words)
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 8:14pm On Aug 12, 2020
Zzor:
na wa ooo this world have spoil finish
Lol
As in?
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by UDUJ(m): 8:15pm On Aug 12, 2020
Irijosa777:

thanks for this advise, I really appreciate it
that's all that I need to do. this advise is a enough for me
God bless you

Better. MrBrownJay1's advice is all you need.

Unless you want to end up back in the unemployment market, or in jail or death from magun or assassination or Karma (if you fvck someone's wife your present or future wife will definitely be seriously fvcked by other men- no two ways about it. It's the law of Karma).

So pick one of the evil outcomes I have addressed above or just do the alternative and take MrBrownJay1's advice.

If you love fvcking older women, there are so many sex starved women around. You just have to ask around.

Be wise cool

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Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 8:21pm On Aug 12, 2020
UDUJ:


Better. MrBrownJay1's advice is all you need.

Unless you want to end up back in the unemployment market, or in jail or death from magun or assassination or Karma (if you fvck someone's wife your present or future wife will definitely be seriously fvcked by other men- no two ways about it. It's the law of Karma).

So pick one of the evil outcomes I have addressed above or just do the alternative and take MrBrownJay1's advice.

If you love fvcking older women, there are so many sex starved women around. You just have to ask around.

Be wise cool
thank you
I appreciate

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Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by fr3do(m): 8:22pm On Aug 12, 2020
are you a baby?

stop it with the 20 something questions!
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by paulolee(m): 8:24pm On Aug 12, 2020
guy, face ur work and leave her and her greenlights alone, if she's interested she would come clean and let u kno, the only bad issue about her is that shes married and that's a more resons why you should try avoid her even if it cost u that job.
the worst mistake in life is cheating with a married person because karma is always sitting by thr corner and watching..
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by frozen70(f): 8:37pm On Aug 12, 2020
Irijosa777:
Straight to the point!
My madam like me right from the first day I started working with her, it was very obvious, I even head one of my colleague telling my other colleagues that our madam like me a lot. she is very nice to me and she favour me a lot.
My concern now is that if am chatting with her she do used words like "I love you, you are very special, I will do anything for you" and she also uses romantic emojis to chat with me but I am very scared of reciprocating such expression to her because she is married and she is not my age, she senior me by far. I can't tell another man wife that I love you or used romantic emojis to chat with her (to me that's being disrespectful), the highest I do go is "thanks a lot, God bless you, you are the best." sometimes I do delete our chatting so that someone may not mistaking or intentionally read it and read meaning to it
Please advise:
Should I reciprocate? is it normal or I should be careful? If she tell me "I love you" or uses those romantic emojis to chat me, can I reciprocate too because sometimes I am being tempted to reciprocate because she is really amazing! but the fear of "somebody" wife will not allow me to do it, I don't want any trouble so I try to be careful. Will she be unhappy if i am not reciprocating such expression to her if we are chatting? please advise me, I really love working with her.

You are still young to be used for selfish pleasure, you have to resist anything that will affect your future

You have to be serious at this level because its obvious she wants you and the green light you will give her us the onky thing she is waiting for

Any time she sends you romantic messages and emojis, don't reply rather change the topic

Very soon, she will also send you romantic videos to get you in the mood of what she wants

If she ask you why you don't return her chats, especially the romantic once, simply tell her that your spirit warns you to stay away from love chats with married women

It's either she accepts it or not, but the moment you continue such chats, your mind will quickly start imagining how her nakenedness will be

Whatever the eye sees that's what the mind tells the brain
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by LightOnScams: 8:38pm On Aug 12, 2020
Assssh oooh aaaah harder!!!
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 8:47pm On Aug 12, 2020
LightOnScams:
Assssh oooh aaaah harder!!!
leave here
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 8:51pm On Aug 12, 2020
frozen70:


You are still young to be used for selfish pleasure, you have to resist anything that will affect your future

You have to be serious at this level because its obvious she wants you and the green light you will give her us the onky thing she is waiting for

Any time she sends you romantic messages and emojis, don't reply rather change the topic

Very soon, she will also send you romantic videos to get you in the mood of what she wants

If she ask you why you don't return her chats, especially the romantic once, simply tell her that your spirit warns you to stay away from love chats with married women

It's either she accepts it or not, but the moment you continue such chats, your mind will quickly start imagining how her nakenedness will be

Whatever the eye sees that's what the mind tells the brain
You are very correct!
okay, thanks for this advise
I will try and mind my business and my job
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by frozen70(f): 8:57pm On Aug 12, 2020
Irijosa777:

You are very correct!
okay, thanks for this advise
I will try and mind my business and my job

I know its not going to be easy, once you start with her as a married woman, you will want more of married women because they comes with less stress and less worries

They will pamper you and take care of you but that's not the kind of thing you need now

Now is your future
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by LightOnScams: 9:00pm On Aug 12, 2020
Assssh oooh aaaah harrrrder!!!
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 9:05pm On Aug 12, 2020
frozen70:


I know its not going to be easy, once you start with her as a married woman, you will want more of married women because they comes with less stress and less worries

They will pamper you and take care of you but that's not the kind of thing you need now

Now is your future
yes, you are right
I am beginning to admire her even, but I am just scared to be closer to her, I know women can be dangerous specially having an affair with a married man. I fear for my life and future
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Lamanii22(f): 9:08pm On Aug 12, 2020
Whatever you do... Don't you ever see/meet her whenever she's alone... And don't ever kiss her, there's power In a kiss....
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by frozen70(f): 9:12pm On Aug 12, 2020
Irijosa777:

yes, you are right
I am beginning to admire her even, but I am just scared to be closer to her, I know women can be dangerous specially having an affair with a married man. I fear for my life and future

Women are wonderfully created
But the most manipulative human
They sure knows how to get what they want, unless it's not useful to her
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Nobody: 9:13pm On Aug 12, 2020
The fury of a scorned woman is hotter than hell, just start looking for work so you dont get taken unawares.
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by UDUJ(m): 9:15pm On Aug 12, 2020
frozen70:


Women are wonderfully created
But the most manipulative human
They sure knows how to get what they want, unless it's not useful to her

I just added you to the list of ladies I respect. I admire people that are never gender biased cool

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Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Irijosa777(m): 9:20pm On Aug 12, 2020
Starlight10:
The fury of a scorned woman is hotter than hell, just start looking for work so you dont get taken unawares.
thanks for this
no job
no chatting
no seeing
no temptation
no sin
no future destroy, because she is getting attractive to me already, I don't how long I can overcome it.
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by frozen70(f): 9:22pm On Aug 12, 2020
UDUJ:


I just added you to the list of ladies I respect. I admire people that are never gender biased cool

Nice to read this, lol
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Benwallt(m): 9:54pm On Aug 12, 2020
This your title almost gave me blurred vision
Re: Please Advise: Is My Married Boss Romantic Chatting With Me Is It Normall by Vyzz: 10:42pm On Aug 12, 2020
grin


If she wasn't married I would have told u to wait.... Don't do anything stupid till she tells u herself... Even if her greenlight won blind ya eyes.

U have alot to loose..


But since she is married...


I will just tell u that karma is real.

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