I've been on badoo for a while now. I met few girls there but one thing I've noticed is most of girls that chat me up hardly raise a convo after greetings. I decide not to carry on with the convo cos I don't have much to say. If she's interested in me why not go on wiv the convo. Why have girls formed the habit of letting the guys do all the work and just offer in between there in return. Ok even if we are not dating why don't u call on phone. When it's time for your birthday you will remember we exist. I don't subscribe to that shit

Another girl thread...

Funkyswagzz:
I've been on badoo for a while now. I met few girls there but one thing I've noticed is most of girls that chat me up hardly raise a convo after greetings. I decide not to carry on with the convo cos I don't have much to say. If she's interested in me why not go on wiv the convo. Why have girls formed the habit of letting the guys do all the work and just offer in between there in return. Ok even if we are not dating why don't u call on phone. When it's time for your birthday you will remember we exist. I don't subscribe to that shit

Read the chats again and you will see that even you too, don't know how to sustain a conversation....

gidob:



Read the chats again and you will see that even you too, don't know how to sustain a conversation....

What you expect me to say something constructive.. dude it's just hi, hello kinda thing what do u expect me to say. Or want me to say "oh you look so beautiful how u doin" when I don't mean it. Common let's be real ok

etrange:
Another girl thread...

Dude it's a romance section what d heck do u expect

Another wailing thread...

Funkyswagzz:


What you expect me to say something constructive.. dude it's just hi, hello kinda thing what do u expect me to say. Or want me to say "oh you look so beautiful how u doin" when I don't mean it. Common let's be real ok

Check your chat with patience you asked "how are you doing?" She replied you and kept the conversation open by adding "and you"....you replied with " not bad"!....that's like a dead end....
A reply like " I am not having a bad day, in fact I have been engaged at the office, [/b] what have you been up to?[b]" would keep the conversation open.

Even your chat with Lois you ended the conversation with your "not bad thank you"....
Guy you the problem not the girls.

gidob:


Check your chat with patience you asked "how are you doing?" She replied you and kept the conversation open by adding "and you"....you replied with " not bad"!....that's like a dead end....
A reply like " I am not having a bad day, in fact I have been engaged at the office, [/b] what have you been up to?[b]" would keep the conversation open.

Even your chat with Lois you ended the conversation with your "not bad thank you"....
Guy you the problem not the girls.

Ok sir point taken.. how about girls that reply hmmm, ok, fine, no when chatting wiv them it's that not a dead end?

Palema007:
Another wailing thread...

Well said lemme have fun wiv it..

gidob:


Check your chat with patience you asked "how are you doing?" She replied you and kept the conversation open by adding "and you"....you replied with " not bad"!....that's like a dead end....
A reply like " I am not having a bad day, in fact I have been engaged at the office, [/b] what have you been up to?[b]" would keep the conversation open.

Even your chat with Lois you ended the conversation with your "not bad thank you"....
Guy you the problem not the girls.

Thank you for this.


Imagine how he rushed to come and create thread to wail. I don't know if he was expecting us to follow the bandwagon and bash those females. SMH


Op learn how to be engaging in conversations. It's terrible u didn't even see you are the problem and jumped on Nairaland to create thread. Reading your wordings alone is tiring

Op, you tried. I just joined badoo as well going to about two weeks ago, no matter how I tried to chat them up they always seem to dull me. Same with the ones on Facebook.

Theslumflower:
Thank you for this.


Imagine how he rushed to come and create thread to wail. I don't know if he was expecting us to follow the bandwagon and bash those females. SMH


Op learn how to be engaging in conversations. It's terrible u didn't even see you are the problem and jumped on Nairaland to create thread. Reading your wordings alone is tiring

Chill ok.. no carry anoda pesin mata for head

Kingsasian:
Op, you tried. I just joined badoo as well going to about two weeks ago, no matter how I tried to chat them up they always seem to dull me. Same with the ones on Facebook.

Don't get me wrong I've met few girls from there. I'm just messing about. Facebook is the last place I will try chatting a girl. Try twoo.com have met like two girls from there buh I don't use it anymore

Funkyswagzz:


Don't get me wrong I've met few girls from there. I'm just messing about. Facebook is the last place I will try chatting a girl. Try twoo.com have met like two girls from there buh I don't use it anymore

ok. I just started chatting with girls because I am new in my present location. Just need a female buddy.

Kingsasian:
ok. I just started chatting with girls because I am new in my present location. Just need a female buddy.

It's fine just do a week sub if u want to enjoy it

Stop starting chats with sexy or pretty. Too many people say that, say something else.

Funkyswagzz:


Ok sir point taken.. how about girls that reply hmmm, ok, fine, no when chatting wiv them it's that not a dead end?

Guy, I like your response.. please can I learn some tips from you? I think I'm having challenges communicating with ladies too. Can I dm you?

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Check your chat with patience you asked "how are you doing?" She replied you and kept the conversation open by adding "and you"....you replied with " not bad"!....that's like a dead end....
A reply like " I am not having a bad day, in fact I have been engaged at the office, [/b] what have you been up to?[b]" would keep the conversation open..

Boss, please can I dm you. I will like to learn some tips from you

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Feel free bro

Funkyswagzz:


It's fine just do a week sub if u want to enjoy it

ok, thanks bro

Funkyswagzz:


Chill ok.. no carry anoda pesin mata for head

Lol it's a public forum. Get used to it

Theslumflower:
Lol it's a public forum. Get used to it

Aite kul.. u can have it ur way it's not my problem.

gidob:


Check your chat with patience you asked "how are you doing?" She replied you and kept the conversation open by adding "and you"....you replied with " not bad"!....that's like a dead end....
A reply like " I am not having a bad day, in fact I have been engaged at the office, [/b] what have you been up to?[b]" would keep the conversation open.

Even your chat with Lois you ended the conversation with your "not bad thank you"....
Guy you the problem not the girls.

Dude I hope u know u haven't answered my question.. most times when u chat up a girl there response is cold not because they don't like u buh want to do small shakara... So ur advice now implies that men are not allowed to do the same. See I have a reason for not responding to those girls cos I want to know if they can carry a convo. Bro some girls are too lazy to chat up guys they admire. I have some girls that carried on wiv the convo and I noticed they are really interested. U don't just give in to every woman thats what I want u to understand. Some will say hi and when I reply helo they stop chattin. U don't expect me to do ur work for u that ain't happening...

Both you and the babes na same rope tie all of una bros u nor even sabi yan self blame urself join.

tunize:
Both you and the babes na same rope tie all of una bros u nor even sabi yan self blame urself join.

dude chill

@ Funkyswagzz, what social media app is that?

ennydammy11:
@ Funkyswagzz, what social media app is that?

Badoo.com

amateur

succez09:
amateur

Pro

succez09:
amateur

Go register and kill yourself if u haven't