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Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Opus85(m): 8:11pm On Aug 18, 2020
I will be turning 30 end if this year but the pressure to marry is building up. Look right, they will ask when are you marrying, look left same thing.

With all this marriage wahala I have been seeing everywhere, praying for an understanding lady because marriage this days scare shit out of me

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Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Dainy1(m): 9:13pm On Aug 18, 2020
No body should pressure you, do it at your convenient

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Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Dainy1(m): 9:16pm On Aug 18, 2020
OcVoice:


40
Oga, please go and marry

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Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by roughdiamond(m): 11:10pm On Aug 18, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So what's her husband doing if she's the bread winner? Hope it's temporary sha cos she go old before her time with such load
She works and I support her too. They are living very fine and happy. That's what is more important to me.
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Ishilove(f): 11:16pm On Aug 18, 2020
Dainy1:
Oga, please go and marry
Very straight to the point. No finagling cheesy
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by SweetCunt97(f): 12:35am On Aug 19, 2020
roughdiamond:
She works and I support her too. They are living very fine and happy. That's what is more important to me.
If u say so. Seems u living with them.
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by bigfrancis21: 4:53am On Aug 19, 2020
Ishilove:

It is well.

If you are 40, how come your people are telling you "you are coming of age". How can a man of 40 be coming of age?

Op, I put it to you that this is not your real age.

grin grin grin

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Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by edoman2016: 7:10am On Aug 19, 2020
OcVoice:


I am in the charismatic. I also pray very well.
Are you a graduate? What did you study in school? I wonder why you couldn't have gotten a good job before 40 years?
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by OcVoice: 7:21am On Aug 19, 2020
edoman2016:

Are you a graduate? What did you study in school? I wonder why you couldn't have gotten a good job before 40 years?

Yes. I am a graduate. I studied Industrial Chemistry with 2.1 grade.
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by edoman2016: 7:28am On Aug 19, 2020
OcVoice:


Yes. I am a graduate. I studied Industrial Chemistry with 2.1 grade.
Which university? In case I have a job opening for you.
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Klass99(f): 7:36am On Aug 19, 2020
roughdiamond:
Personally, the pressure to get married is coming from myself. Everyone in my family including my younger brother is married with a child. My sister is the breadwinner in her family and they are very comfortable and peaceful.

These two sentences don't sound right or feel right at all. Especially the second sentence, if your sister is the bread winner what then is her husband's role in that marriage? What exactly does he do as a man, a husband and a father? If they have kids.

Why do you really want to get married? Is it just a case of even my younger brother is married with a child? I mean no offence by my questions, I am honestly just wondering and thinking out loud about everything you wrote.

Again, take no offence because I meant no offence. I feel the need to stress this, as people blood too dey hot for NL.

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Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Gloriagee(f): 7:55am On Aug 19, 2020
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Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Klass99(f): 8:04am On Aug 19, 2020
thesicilian:
Pressure only gets to you when you allow it to. Telling you that marriage brings good things and that you will surely get a job or business when you marry is one of the greatest scams of the 21st century.

zed7:


Marriage is a personal thing. I only give advice to people who come for advice and nothing more. Nobody will support you financially when you get married and start struggling to survive.

As for getting blessed when married, I will only assume that the married person makes more effort to make money and saves more because of the added responsibilities. That may explain the fact that he thinks he is getting 'blessed' because of marriage.

Amanee:
The problem with Nigeria is that most Nigerians always like to put the cart before the horse because I don't understand how you'd advise a jobless and broke young man to get married when it's not as if marriage is going out of fashion

Dear OP/OcVoice, if I were in your shoes I would pay good attention to what these 3 people have said.
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by kodix(m): 8:06am On Aug 19, 2020
Don't mind those people, you know what you want in life,nobody should push you after all not everyone that is telling you that even have your wellbeing in mind,what of if you choose not to marry! So know what you want let them don't push you.
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:23am On Aug 19, 2020
OcVoice:


Thank you.... but you know it's not easy to forget all they said and then act like all's well!

Olga, wat I will tell U is dat u listen to dem but don't put ursef under immense pressure. Remember there is always sense embedded in nonsense o.

See don't let us decv ourselves, no one can have it all before marrying.

We re in same shoe bro, mine is even more, den U start thinking that how can someone marry wen he's not even having a gf

The only difference is dat av got work to do at least to survive. so my advice for u is DAT u should try and find a valuable work/business, den start a relationship (I pray God give U a befitting woman "and me too" )grin
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:28am On Aug 19, 2020
Ishilove:

It is well.

If you are 40, how come your people are telling you "you are coming of age". How can a man of 40 be coming of age?

Op, I put it to you that this is not your real age.

Hmm, wait madam, am confused ...


are u saying he's more than forty or not up to?

is forty not coming of age??
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by Ishilove(f): 8:48am On Aug 19, 2020
OlawaleBammie:


Hmm, wait madam, am confused ...


are u saying he's more than forty or not up to?

is forty not coming of age??
In the context in which his people are using it, one has the impression that he is not up to 40
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:52am On Aug 19, 2020
Ishilove:

In the context in which his people are using it, one has the impression that he is not up to 40

Yea, I even tot he's within 29 and 33
Re: Bachelors, How Do You Manage Marriage Pressure? by OcVoice: 8:53am On Aug 19, 2020
Ishilove:

In the context in which his people are using it, one has the impression that he is not up to 40

It's the way you understand it.

What the passage simply explained is that I'm not getting any younger.

Except if your perception of 40 years is old age..........could also be your reason for "evening newspaper"! It's usually not so for a man!

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