i Came back home after my pop from NYSC batch A 2019,I had had high hopes of getting a job as my family depends on me to be successful so I can take care of them and my younger ones,this has put a lot of pressure on me and I'm now frustrated and depressed that all I can think of is dying, my life has no direction,because I can't even take care of my self not to talk about them,I have no job,I don't even have capital to start up a business I learned during my service year.I am going to be 30years next year and i still deeply depends on my parent for food and shared three(3)rooms with my four(4)siblings including mom and dad and this makes me mad but I can't help it.Since three(3) years I have not bought any clothes,all I have is faded clothes which I maintain very well.
I have attended four(4) interviews in five(5)months all with no way forward, I cried at nights at my situation and I have come to conclusion that my life has no meaning, am just so tired,confused and don't know what to do.

Life's hard bro. But life's also sweet too, check my signature bro. Let's Start from there

Always gives thanks to God Almighty.

Nigerians are suffering if we ghanaians had the kind of resources Nigeria had we would had been greater than USA but Nigerians are allover our country littering everywhere Nigeria with an illiterate president


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hmmm...its not easy for many

sorry

Bros your case is better than most Nigerian.

Firstly, you are a graduate. Some Nigerians possess no financial power to sponsor themselves to school.

Furthermore, you are exposed and can use this to your advantage. Some Nigerians have not saved up to #10000 since birth.

For starter, submit your CV to schools after resumption. I believe that will be avail you to think about next action of your life.

I hope this help

I don't know if u can find comfort here

I know you feel like a disappointment, but I can tell you it's all in your mind! You are better than millions of people in the world. Do u know that there are people better qualified than you that lack even a shelter for their heads? Do you know there are many master degree holders still eating "mama thank you" (As Nlanders put it)? Do you know that many that graduated 5,8, 10 years ago have not been gainfully employed? Be grateful to God in any situation. This situation will pass but you will need to make the best use of it... For there are indeed lessons to be learnt.

wayfoward:
i Came back home after my pop from NYSC batch A 2019,I had had high hopes of getting a job as my family depends on me to be successful so I can take care of them and my younger ones,this has put a lot of pressure on me and I'm now frustrated and depressed that all I can think of is dying, my life has no direction,because I can't even take care of my self not to talk about them,I have no job,I don't even have capital to start up a business I learned during my service year.I am going to be 30years next year and i still deeply depends on my parent for food and shared three(3)rooms with my four(4)siblings including mom and dad and this makes me mad but I can't help it.Since three(3) years I have not bought any clothes,all I have is faded clothes which I maintain very well.
I have attended four(4) interviews in five(5)months all with no way forward, I cried at nights at my situation and I have come to conclusion that my life has no meaning, am just so tired,confused and don't know what to do.

First of all, you need to calm down.
Anxiety will only make you desperate, but it doesn't solve anything, neither will it get you the job you want quicker.

For now, apply for any job, even those you feel are too small for your qualification.
When you get any of those small offers, accept it, even if it pays 20k.
At least, it'll help keep your mind active and help you with little expenses.
Sometimes, small jobs are open doors to big ones.

Yours is still better.
Finished my NYSC 2017 .

Bros first thank God say your parents send you go school, we wey our parents no get money send us go higher institution we no offend God, secondly make 3 bedroom you Dey live with your parents, bros na room and parkour we grow. Shey we offend God! Only thing I see meaningful na your faded cloth I think that’s the least of a mans probkem. Clothing!!

wayfoward:
i Came back home after my pop from NYSC batch A 2019,I had had high hopes of getting a job as my family depends on me to be successful so I can take care of them and my younger ones,this has put a lot of pressure on me and I'm now frustrated and depressed that all I can think of is dying, my life has no direction,because I can't even take care of my self not to talk about them,I have no job,I don't even have capital to start up a business I learned during my service year.I am going to be 30years next year and i still deeply depends on my parent for food and shared three(3)rooms with my four(4)siblings including mom and dad and this makes me mad but I can't help it.Since three(3) years I have not bought any clothes,all I have is faded clothes which I maintain very well.
I have attended four(4) interviews in five(5)months all with no way forward, I cried at nights at my situation and I have come to conclusion that my life has no meaning, am just so tired,confused and don't know what to do.

OP.

It is what is on your head that determines your possibilities.

Time does not change anything. It only reveals.
Listen to Apostle Joshua Selman messages.

Start with the "lifter of men" and "commanding results"

Your life is about to change.

Let me know if you've basic knowledge about cryptography so that I can tell you what to do.

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ThothHermes:
OP.
It is what is on your head that determines your possibilities.
Time does not change anything. It only reveals. Listen to Apostle Joshua Selman messages.
Start with the "lifter of men" and "commanding results"
Your life is about to change.

will listen to the messages, thanks.

bogdaddy:
Bros first thank God say your parents send you go school, we wey our parents no get money send us go higher institution we no offend God, secondly make 3 bedroom you Dey live with your parents, bros na room and parkour we grow. Shey we offend God! Only thing I see meaningful na your faded cloth I think that’s the least of a mans probkem. Clothing!!

bros,we'll get better

devlishGINGER:
Yours is still better. Finished my NYSC 2017 .

it's not easy at all.

mariahAngel:


First of all, you need to calm down.
Anxiety will only make you desperate, but it doesn't solve anything, neither will it get you the job you want quicker.

For now, apply for any job, even those you feel are too small for your qualification.
When you get any of those small offers, accept it, even if it pays 20k.
At least, it'll help keep your mind active and help you with little expenses.
Sometimes, small jobs are open doors to big ones.

thanks

Asetime:
I know you feel like a disappointment, but I can tell you it's all in your mind! You are better than millions of people in the world. Do u know that there are people better qualified than you that lack even a shelter for their heads? Do you know there are many master degree holders still eating "mama thank you" (As Nlanders put it)? Do you know that many that graduated 5,8, 10 years ago have not been gainfully employed? Be grateful to God in any situation. This situation will pass but you will need to make the best use of it... For there are indeed lessons to be learnt.

yes indeed,much lessons.

mariahAngel:


First of all, you need to calm down.
Anxiety will only make you desperate, but it doesn't solve anything, neither will it get you the job you want quicker.

For now, apply for any job, even those you feel are too small for your qualification.
When you get any of those small offers, accept it, even if it pays 20k.
At least, it'll help keep your mind active and help you with little expenses.
Sometimes, small jobs are open doors to big ones.

I have tried getting small jobs,nothing yet.I will keep trying.

jidamsel43:
Bros your case is better than most Nigerian.

Firstly, you are a graduate. Some Nigerians possess no financial power to sponsor themselves to school.

Furthermore, you are exposed and can use this to your advantage. Some Nigerians have not saved up to #10000 since birth.

For starter, submit your CV to schools after resumption. I believe that will be avail you to think about next action of your life.

I hope this help

yes,thanks.

wayfoward:

I have tried getting small jobs,nothing yet.I will keep trying.

Don't despair.
So many people are going through similar challenges.
Apart from looking for a job, what are you good at?

RightsToReject:
Let me know if you've basic knowledge about cryptography so that I can tell you what to do.

no knowledge on that at all.

mariahAngel:

Don't despair. So many people are going through similar challenges. Apart from looking for a job, what are you good at?

I learned photography during my service year

wayfoward:

I learned photography during my service year

Are you passionate about it?

You can get busy with it in the mean time.
Look up different types of photography to find out the ones appeal to you.

Food photography
Art photography
Environment/nature photography
Etc.

wayfoward:

I learned photography during my service year

When school re-open go to any university close to u and do your photography work there, students like taking pictures a lot,

mariahAngel:

Are you passionate about it?
You can get busy with it in the mean time. Look up different types of photography to find out the ones appeal to you.
Food photography Art photography Environment/nature photography Etc.

thanks

mariahAngel:

Are you passionate about it?
You can get busy with it in the mean time. Look up different types of photography to find out the ones appeal to you.
Food photography Art photography Environment/nature photography Etc.

thanks

I am ur 100th subscriber, any better for me?

zeusV:
Life's hard bro. But life's also sweet too, check my signature bro. Let's Start from there