story- i have a girlfriend(we disvirgined ourselves), we both are eachothers 1st serious relationship. We met in the uni through a friend, she is 17 & im 23, we started dating magically, we were there for eachother almost every moment, she is not a money freak, but i get few thngs for her and i also threw her 1st birthday for in a club, she completely has her parents support. She had a neigbour(male) that she chats and talk to, she has no female friend, and only 1 male friend(warned her but u knw girls), a particular night, she told me she was raped by that neigbour when she was sleeping, i confronted and told the nigga( that was settled, nothing happened btwn them), little arguments and we settle, it seems like we were perfect for each other, till she left our campus to another, from daily talks and visits to weekends, it became a distance relationship, i had academics to also pursue(we both did well_ i performed better) she saw a future in me, IN her new CAMP, i do check on her cos she was monitored @ome
Then with time she gave sex to a guy, she says rarely had her time that she just liked him and twas only once. She denied saying they werefriends but with evidence, i forgave her,i used to be a shouter cos she was stubborn and makes wrong decision when i complain bout things she says i talk and argue a lot, a lot happened which weakened us, i was busy but i never failed a weekend visit, she says i am nt always there when she needs me! Another time, she got close to another guy that smokes, they had sex 3-4 times as she told me(she also denied, i found out) each time we argue she runs to him, a lot happened, there is no form of sweet words i havent given this girl, i have done all in my power but****she doesnt knw hw to put guys where they stand!
Lately, we have'nt been smooth, we argue over the slightest things which r irrelevant, we r both bossy, this affects her mind mentally and i am always able to read her actions, Lately, we decided to take a break after lots of arguments, i love this girl, she says she loves me still, she also has been through a lot mentally, tough times from parents too, all because of me, she is a weak person and highly vulnerable, i have never cheated on her(though she believes i flirt a lot) WE HAVE NO SECRETS, she pended a guys proposal, says she is comfortable and in peace-SINGLE, says i should get another girl and she wants to knw the girl too, she says this isnt a breakup, i send her texts,she appreciates she doesnt text me, hardly reply my text on fb, chats rarely and claims to love me.

You need exorcism.

I dey tell you nigga

So what is now your problem in life?

@walezaza
I can’t believe how this story can be true and it appears is was doctored to receive some kind of opinions.
I jump and pass

What's all this?

What exactly do you want from us bayi?

Walezaza:
story- i have a girlfriend(we disvirgined ourselves), we both are eachothers 1st serious relationship. We met in the uni through a friend, she is 17 & im 23, we started dating magically, we were there for eachother almost every moment, she is not a money freak, but i get few thngs for her and i also threw her 1st birthday for in a club, she completely has her parents support. She had a neigbour(male) that she chats and talk to, she has no female friend, and only 1 male friend(warned her but u knw girls), a particular night, she told me she was raped by that neigbour when she was sleeping, i confronted and told the nigga( that was settled, nothing happened btwn them), little arguments and we settle, it seems like we were perfect for each other, till she left our campus to another, from daily talks and visits to weekends, it became a distance relationship, i had academics to also pursue(we both did well_ i performed better) she saw a future in me, IN her new CAMP, i do check on her cos she was monitored @ome
Then with time she gave sex to a guy, she says rarely had her time that she just liked him and twas only once. She denied saying they werefriends but with evidence, i forgave her,i used to be a shouter cos she was stubborn and makes wrong decision when i complain bout things she says i talk and argue a lot, a lot happened which weakened us, i was busy but i never failed a weekend visit, she says i am nt always there when she needs me! Another time, she got close to another guy that smokes, they had sex 3-4 times as she told me(she also denied, i found out) each time we argue she runs to him, a lot happened, there is no form of sweet words i havent given this girl, i have done all in my power but****she doesnt knw hw to put guys where they stand!
Lately, we have'nt been smooth, we argue over the slightest things which r irrelevant, we r both bossy, this affects her mind mentally and i am always able to read her actions, Lately, we decided to take a break after lots of arguments, i love this girl, she says she loves me still, she also has been through a lot mentally, tough times from parents too, all because of me, she is a weak person and highly vulnerable, i have never cheated on her(though she believes i flirt a lot) WE HAVE NO SECRETS, she pended a guys proposal, says she is comfortable and in peace-SINGLE, says i should get another girl and she wants to knw the girl too, she says this isnt a breakup, i send her texts,she appreciates she doesnt text me, hardly reply my text on fb, chats rarely and claims to love me.

On behalf of all reasonable and experienced Nairalanders, you deserve this below treatment