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Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by sharpwriter(m): 1:05am On Sep 04, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Lol.... Really? So one girl just break hin heart ba? Doesn't even have a gf let alone a wife? Hahahahahh Guy suppose chop cane den. How can he come here post fiction to disturb aged and matured men for comments as if dem no get time for other things... SirMichael1 come and defend yourself here o |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 1:13am On Sep 04, 2020 |
afroxyz: Please, think back to the time you only had to cook for yourself, or probably your family. Imagine the stress and multiply it by 25 people. Then proceed to imagine you were carrying a pound of weight about with you (that's how much a fetus weighs at 5 months. Didn't even add pregnancy weight) during the whole time. And after cooking, you had to serve and then clean. It doesn't kill to reason with empathy! Educate yourself with this article so you don't become unfortunate to your future wife: https://www.momjunction.com/articles/5th-month-pregnancy_00361303/#complications-in-the-fifth-month-of-pregnancy 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 1:16am On Sep 04, 2020 |
sharpwriter: Even if he is trolling, that story must have been lifted from somewhere. And people are still learning. It's the reason I even bothered cos I saw her comment first. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by sugah: 1:20am On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1:There's still enough time to learn how to cook soup my dear brother. Watch sisiyemmie 's videos on YouTube, just type any soup you want to delight your brothers in the Lord with and the recipe will pop up. In this age you can't be allowing a woman do shakara for you with just cooking soup when you have 2 hands o. P.s you'd need to multiply the quantity of the recipe by 25. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by efavour: 1:24am On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1:Abeg hire caterer. Am sure you have little kids which is stressful enough.Even my 5 people get together for my girl stressed the hell out of me, I didn't do the cooking oh, their father payed for caterer to deliver food but decorating amid crying and messy kids is hell on its own.I vowed that I won't be doing the decorations next time just like your wife, that is why we have vendors for everything. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by OROSUNBOLB(m): 1:25am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Gavorche: Thank you very much for this excellent submission. Please don't be discouraged about marriage; it is one of the best things that can happen to a man if he is fortunate to have his own God ordained wife. There are still some,though few,God fearing,responsible and decent ladies out there. Your submission on the subject matter is spot on my brother. I love it ! |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by JorgedeToledo: 1:30am On Sep 04, 2020 |
OscarJaden: What if the event is a purely social event, will you still blame religion for it? |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 1:45am On Sep 04, 2020 |
bukatyne:op said he doesnt know how to do any kitchen stuff..so it would be his wife stll shouldering all the responsibility in the kitchen.He should suggest to the men that they should tell their wives to help out his wife in the kitchen.if six more women would help it would make the job easier and besides we no even get the full story.Who buys the food and drinks the visitors would eat.does it comes out of the op's own purse? or is it op"s wife who buy all the foodstuff in the market with her own money to feed the men? If na the woman dey use her money to feed men dat her not related to her in anyway its enuf to make her resentful.Even though i am not in naija i know how things are tough right now in naija.he should pity his wife small and suggest to the men dat they should instruct their wives to help out in the kitchen.the women even ought to use their initiative to help out Only one person to cook a hefty meal for a large company of men only she go cut yam only she go boil the yam then pound then do soup the cut meat then boil men and after the men don drink then chop she wil now clean the sittingroom then wash the giangantic mountain of plates osanobua if na me i no gree host if dem go suggest my wife to such make dem go report to pastor 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 1:48am On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1: Get another caterer who might charge N10,000 for all Caterer is just to cook and serve. She ain't buying anything. N1,000 per head is high. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 1:52am On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1:now u are talking dat one u wanted only ur wife to slave in the kitchen for 20 strange men all in the name of church didnt make sense invite at least 5 female church members to help her in the kitchen if she is reasonable she will cook the idea of just allowing ur wife all alone in the sweating it out to feed 20 hungry men isnt cool |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 2:00am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Saintmary:there is nothing wrong in cooking.If the wife was cooking for him and the kids thats normal.What is abnormal here is op subjecting his wife to cook for 20 men as if the wife is a slave..cooking for a large group of ppl is no easy feat.But if the wife was preparing a meal for the husband and the children thats a normal family setting and not slavery.I dont think any normal woman would grumble that she is cooking a meal for her husband and children. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 2:06am On Sep 04, 2020 |
prekumohtim:thats how its done in most churches in naija..i am surprised such is not done in op"s church 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by GboyegaD(m): 3:01am On Sep 04, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow: How do you mean? He's offered to help and get her more help so I don't think the baby is the issue. One thing is certain though, there is more to this that he needs get to. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ThatFairGuy1: 3:39am On Sep 04, 2020 |
mariahAngel:God bless you. I'm just surprised especially with what people are saying. WHAT'S SO SPECIAL ABOUT THIS ESPECIALLY WHEN THE HUSBAND IS GIVING A HELPING HAND! THE CREDIT GOES TO HER EVENTUALLY LIFE IS TURNING TO SOMETHING ELSE WITH THESE NONSENSE ENTITLEMENT. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ThatFairGuy1: 3:45am On Sep 04, 2020 |
NONSENSICAL. What will our mothers (WELL EDUCATED AS WELL) who happily cooks for the masses during festive period do? |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 3:45am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Your own na to the insult people abi??if you don't have any useful advice to offer why not keep mute? Be Opening your flat mouth waaaa like lizard...... gbongbolo cigar UyaiIncomparabl:
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Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Roseey0(f): 3:52am On Sep 04, 2020 |
The truth is that she was terribly stressed out from the last episode. That's why she is not willing to help this time. She didn't hesitate vtge last time so why is she hesitating now? Stress. Just find as much helping hand as possible. You didn't do any bad by asking her. It's the normal thing, you are the host, your wife is supposed to help you organise it to be successful. Why will you go and pay an outsider for just 20guest when you both can handle it if you put heads together. She's just stressed out. Offer her as many helps as you can get. You can offer to go buy the foodstuffs or assign the errand to a different person entirely. Still get an extra hand to help her in the cooking. Don't just stop at helping her do semo alone, offer to help her in many more areas. Make her understand why you both can do it and save money for the family. Don't just offer, let her see you put in more efforts. My parents are over 70 and have been hosting this kinda thing since we were little, we have never paid anyone to do it no matter the number. We put heads together or ask friends and family to help. It's just once in a year. As kids, we use to look forwards to the plenty food and drinks that follow afterwards. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Sarang(f): 4:06am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Something that 50k would solve without a whim Why do people like to suffer Haba mana |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by IMOHS(m): 4:15am On Sep 04, 2020 |
CanadianNaija:Take ur warped idealogy somewhere else |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by IgweBUIKE1(m): 4:34am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Liftmaster:Oga pls shut up...this is how women loose respect for their husband...guess you will be saying the same if the table turn and the woman is at his mercy...the cooking is not everyday. thing is once in a year,so quit this your act of supporting evil just to sound like a mldernise husband to be...wait till is your turn them you had know divorce is real..this is why I respect nwaAmaikpe...good analysis in a bad way but he is way better than this pussy worshipper we have here... |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by odogwu9(m): 4:41am On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1: Why don't you do the cooking? Oh..I get it. U don't know how to cook..Okay, tell ur wife to give u directives while u do the cooking... |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by odogwu9(m): 4:44am On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1:Leave the woman alone..do the cooking ur self or contract a caterer...or u get one of the member's wife to do the cooking.. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by patani(m): 5:38am On Sep 04, 2020 |
CanadianNaija: It's you with small mind. With ur myopic believe that everyone u see comment in nairaland that is poor like u... I laugh in swahaili... Enjoy ur day |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by LadyExcellency: 5:44am On Sep 04, 2020 |
eyinjuege: Let the wife bring her friends to help her or is she an island? Or better still the wife should do the hiring and pay for her laziness |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by LadyExcellency: 5:45am On Sep 04, 2020 |
eyinjuege: Is like you don't cook or everything in life for you is stressful. See this lazy generation? Let the wife bring her friends to her her or is she an island? Or better still the wife should do the hiring and pay for her laziness 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by LadyExcellency: 5:48am On Sep 04, 2020 |
koolaid87: This is shameful. I don't understand, maybe she will prefer cooking for her husband's funeral. Wicked generation. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Anextin(f): 5:50am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Now that you know they have lost it. What will u do. Force her to do it? And if she doesn't? Threaten her with divorce? Or send her packing? |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Saintmary(f): 5:51am On Sep 04, 2020 |
lefulefu:Cooking is not the problem here, but the mentality that women are born to cook! Everyone should cook, especially people who can't afford helps and caterers! He was trying to use the good woman angle on me, which will not fly. Na so so good woman she go dey form until she drops out of exhaustion. God forbid. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 6:09am On Sep 04, 2020 |
konkonbilo:lol |
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