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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:13pm On Feb 21
Mom is celebrated, loved and respected by virtue of her femaleness.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:15pm On Feb 21
Dad is constantly reminded to man up which defines his disposable gender.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:17pm On Feb 21
As i alluded before. When it was Mother’s Day, our pastor told all the women to stand up and be applauded.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:18pm On Feb 21
However, when it was Father’s Day, the pastor ignored the day, even though he is also a man.

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Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 8:23pm On Feb 21
Dpsychologist:
However, when it was Father’s Day, the pastor ignored the day, even though he is also a man.
Unfortunately, that's the sad world we live in and it's not gonna change anytime soon. It's the reality we have to deal with.

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Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 6:16am On Feb 22
Dpsychologist:
However, when it was Father’s Day, the pastor ignored the day, even though he is also a man.

Men are significant contributors to these issues, not because they hate their fellow men but because of the natural conditioning of men not to react (elements of stoicism) to certain issues.

Mother's day is being celebrated by the Catholic church and the secular world in about 3 to 4 days of the year. The only day men are celebrated (which coincidentally, though suspect) shares the same day with the World Toilet Day, is also being appropriated by single mothers praising themselves as "father models".

The reasons men don't take father's day serious like women is numerous. One of these reasons include the natural conditioning of men from their young age to be "givers" (sacrificing). Men don't see the reason to celebrate what they are "expected" to do. To men, it's petty, and childish, hallmarks of the female gender. Another reason is that they are too "busy" with responsibilities to take note of special days like this. Much appreciation also goes to women (widows and some single mothers) who play the father roles well in the absence of dead beat dads.

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Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 6:30am On Feb 22
Dpsychologist:
Dad is constantly reminded to man up which defines his disposable gender.

The burden of performance is placed on men. The reason why men above the other genders (females, intersex) generally perform better in life. Whether we like it or not, we are disposable as men.

My only advice for men is to perform well as it is expected of them within limits that their lives are protected. In areas where they have to make "sacrifices" like they typically do, they should have legacies that outlive them.

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Re: The Red Truth by Regex: 6:33am On Feb 22
Dpsychologist:
However, when it was Father’s Day, the pastor ignored the day, even though he is also a man.

In our house, such dates don't move us. Whether it is mother's day or our birthday. My mother is now very masculine (displays masculinity) since papa left.

It is true that men make women feminine.

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Re: The Red Truth by Faber(m): 8:13am On Feb 22
Dpsychologist:

I have gotten that taken care of.

I have an upcoming book that's even better than this thread.

Please bring it on Boss.
I have also decided never to help simping niggas who are in financial difficulties. You help them...they spend on girls who don't value them. Thats indirect way of funding simping.

Case Study: One of my closest friends is co-habiting with a serial cheater. I am the only one in our clique that refused to Bleep the girl. This maga of a guy knows this and will instead become enemies with his friends who bleeped the girl than expelling the girl. I told him several times to sack the girl. But he will always see reasons to justify their continued relationship. The girl even stopped talking to me when I visit the guy.

On the 18th of this Month his quit notice was due and he was evicted from his apartment...he came running to me for help. I told him point black: " I cannot help you cos...my hard earned money will directly or indirectly help you to continue simping" I also ask him to fall back to his hoeing babe for help. He spends heavily on the girl...now he is unable to pay his house rent.

I think we should stop helping Simpsons...cos when you need help from them...they first consider their girlfriends, who will always control them for their own selfish interests.

A core Simpson will betray you anytime anyday to favour a bitch. Once he don see boobs and hips...He may give the girl his last card and both of you will trekk home under the sun. Having them as closest pals makes no sense.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:47am On Feb 23
In the feminine reality, words and facts take a second place to emotions and the shifting moods of relationship.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:49am On Feb 23
The masculine means what it says. A man's word is his honor.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:49am On Feb 23
The feminine says what it feels. A woman's word is her expression in the moment.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:54am On Feb 23
Skepticus:


Men are significant contributors to these issues, not because they hate their fellow men but because of the natural conditioning of men not to react (elements of stoicism) to certain issues.

Mother's day is being celebrated by the Catholic church and the secular world in about 3 to 4 days of the year. The only day men are celebrated (which coincidentally, though suspect) shares the same day with the World Toilet Day, is also being appropriated by single mothers praising themselves as "father models".

The reasons men don't take father's day serious like women is numerous. One of these reasons include the natural conditioning of men from their young age to be "givers" (sacrificing). Men don't see the reason to celebrate what they are "expected" to do. To men, it's petty, and childish, hallmarks of the female gender. Another reason is that they are too "busy" with responsibilities to take note of special days like this . Much appreciation also goes to women (widows and some single mothers) who play the father roles well in the absence of dead beat dads.

grin Men are terrible at noticing dates.
A man was asked how long he was married he said 6 years, his wife said 7years(she is correct).

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Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 9:58am On Feb 23
Dpsychologist:


grin Men are terrible at noticing dates.
A man was asked how long he was married he said 6 years, his wife said 7years(she is correct).
Men don't care about it. A girl I once dated always remind me of our anniversary date.
Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 12:24pm On Feb 23
Dpsychologist:


grin Men are terrible at noticing dates.
A man was asked how long he was married he said 6 years, his wife said 7years(she is correct).





My dad used to quote my age two years below my actual age. He totally forgot my birth date.
My mom forgot none.
Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 5:01pm On Feb 23
Dpsychologist:
The masculine means what it says. A man's word is his honor.

Well, masculinity which has a lot of components have been generally watered down these days that there is an identity crises for boys and young men on what it really takes to be masculine.

Another significant part is that "sacrifice" which is a major component of masculinity (men generally term it as "responsibility"wink practiced by a decent number of men in courtship and marriages today is not reciprocated by women generally. The entitlement and greed mentality among women today is over the roof.

My advice to guys is that when making those sacrifices as they will always do in, courtship, co-habitation and marriages (for those who seek long term relationships with women) or even as business partners/work colleagues, have your senses intact and put yourself first.

As for me, I'll be stingy with mine except for my trusted buddies or for a diverse set of people like in charities

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:02pm On Feb 23
Oneitis can be defined as: The tendency for an individual to pedestalize one woman and feel like she is “the one”.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:03pm On Feb 23
Oneitis is an old concept dating back to the very beginning of pick-up and manosphere (check Straus' The Game , The Mystery Method and David DeAngelo ).

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:04pm On Feb 23
In short, oneitis refers to men who obsess over a single, specific woman.
So you would say that a man suffers from oneitis when he loses his mind for one woman and thinks she’s so awesome that he must absolutely be with her or he’s ruined.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:05pm On Feb 23
Rollo suggests that this is in part due to the mistaken belief of “The One”, such as there is a woman (or a man) out there who is just right for you.
And you “just” need to find her.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:05pm On Feb 23
I completely agree with Tomassi here: this idea makes no sense whatsoever and it should be so obvious that we don’t need to discuss it any further smiley.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:07pm On Feb 23
In Power dynamics, The Secret To Relationship Power is : Don’t Need Her

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:08pm On Feb 23
The Rational Male makes the point that whether or not you want to see relationships with the lenses of power dynamics or not, it doesn’t matter: the power dynamics will be at play anyway.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:11pm On Feb 23
Power in a relationship goes to the individual who needs the other the least and power is taken from the individual who needs the other the most.

Whether you agree with this or not life doesn’t GAF.

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Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 11:21pm On Feb 23
Dpsychologist:
Rollo suggests that this is in part due to the mistaken belief of “The One”, such as there is a woman (or a man) out there who is just right for you.
And you “just” need to find her.


The "soul mate" myth. The most ridiculous concept that came with western civilization and Victorian-era prudity in my humble opinion.

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Re: The Red Truth by Xavfra(m): 8:32pm On Feb 24
Plead:
If you don't want a woman to cripple you with divorce it's simple, marry your class. But no, these folks keep marrying women that are way below them in earning and social status.
A woman who's as rich as you can't bring up some shitty reasons as to why she wants you to give her this and that, it won't work.

Don't wail after marrying a jobless lady and upgrading her then she turns around to rip you off during divorce.


Kim Kardashian?

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Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 8:44am On Feb 25
Faber:


Please bring it on Boss.
I have also decided never to help simping niggas who are in financial difficulties. You help them...they spend on girls who don't value them. Thats indirect way of funding simping.

Case Study: One of my closest friends is co-habiting with a serial cheater. I am the only one in our clique that refused to Bleep the girl. This maga of a guy knows this and will instead become enemies with his friends who bleeped the girl than expelling the girl. I told him several times to sack the girl. But he will always see reasons to justify their continued relationship. The girl even stopped talking to me when I visit the guy.

On the 18th of this Month his quit notice was due and he was evicted from his apartment...he came running to me for help. I told him point black: " I cannot help you cos...my hard earned money will directly or indirectly help you to continue simping" I also ask him to fall back to his hoeing babe for help. He spends heavily on the girl...now he is unable to pay his house rent.

I think we should stop helping Simpsons...cos when you need help from them...they first consider their girlfriends, who will always control them for their own selfish interests.

A core Simpson will betray you anytime anyday to favour a bitch. Once he don see boobs and hips...He may give the girl his last card and both of you will trekk home under the sun. Having them as closest pals makes no sense
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At the bolded has been my daily routine, you know what they call me? Mr stingy.

A close Nigga was even mad at me cause I ignored to spend on a girl if he like make he enter lagoon I no care nah he life.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:04pm On Feb 25
LIFE OF A SIMP
A simp is a man who puts women on the pedestal and seeks to win their favor by acting like a doormat.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:06pm On Feb 25
Simp is a new word, but it’s a new word that describes an old phenomenon for which there was a word already.
That word is “beta male”. Simp is a type of beta male, like the white knight.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:09pm On Feb 25
The simp version of beta male courts a woman running around at her beck and call.


Sometimes possible to get women like a nice guy
But not when you chase like a simp.

And it’s possible to bang women as friends if they see you like a hot cool “friend”.

But not when you’re a simpy friend. (this is advanced)

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:11pm On Feb 25
Being a simp however does not mean he will never get a woman. it’s also possible that a woman will eventually decide that the simp is “good enough” and, in the absence of a better prospect, she might have sex with him or get into a relationship with him.

But he’d be entering those relationships as super low in power in her frame.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:13pm On Feb 25
Unfortunately, there’s always a beta male willing to simp and play these women’s manipulative and waiting game , just make sure it’s not you

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