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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 9:00pm On Sep 06

This is what ultimately leads to a lot of resentment and bitterness from women and constitutes a huge part of the core demographic in the most radical elements of the feminist movement, blaming their lack of social/sexual appeal on concepts like “the patriarchy” and “misogyny” to rationalise away their lack of biological attractiveness to the opposite sex and the social ramifications which follow from that.

It is only with this erosion of power in a woman’s life that a shift in priorities takes hold, such women scramble in desperation to find a man to settle down with, often settling for men they would not give a look but a few short years before.

This is why you see ladies marrying men they are not attracted to but because she is desperate for marriage she has to marry whoever is ready.(This is another cause of dual mating strategy)

They date a man they love but marry a man that loves them.

Men on the other hand are beginning to acquire more power than they had in their twenties around this age, becoming even more attractive to women( you will then be surprised that now that you have made it, the same lady who may have rejected you will now be going gaga for you) .

A woman burns brightly in youth but extinguishes quickly with age, time is much kinder to men, permitting them to age more like wine than milk. This is why it is like a taboo to ask a woman her age, whilst men bear no such sensitivity over the issue .

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Kalatium(m): 9:53pm On Sep 06
Dpsychologist:

Real life Example of women playing victim mindset

Elizabeth Banks has been exhibiting an excellent example of Female HypoAgency by blaming the failure of her unsuccessful "Charlie’s Angels" feminist promoting movie, on men’s failure to attend the cinema because women are the action heroes.

She never want to consider the fact that, could it just be that the film is crap? But no, it must be men’s fault.

What about wonder woman and captain marvel that were blockbusters were they not also female led action stars?


SMH

The old Charlie’s Angels was far better than the new Charlie’s Angels. The new Story line is not intriguing.

Why blame men for the movie being a box office bomb. Didn’t the old one still sold well despite being female led.
Her statement is not only non sequitur but also preposterous.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Martinez39s(m): 10:17pm On Sep 06
This is good stuff. Ride on!

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 10:44pm On Sep 06
Kalatium:


The old Charlie’s Angels was far better than the new Charlie’s Angels. The Story line is not intriguing.

Why blame men for the movie being a box office bomb. Didn’t the old one still sold well despite being female led.
Her statement is not only non sequitur but also preposterous.

Yea true
Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 10:47pm On Sep 06
Martinez39s:
This is good stuff. Ride on!
We will keep riding till all the red pill in the world is exhausted. cheesy

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by softguy1: 8:14am On Sep 07
Dpsychologist:

We will keep riding till all the red pill in the world is exhausted. cheesy
Exactly bro

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 9:45am On Sep 07
ongback:


Truth, but the rate have increased in recent times. Amplified simps everywhere, it's the norm nowadays.
As funny as this may seem. I have Discovered that simps/nice guys have Financial dominance(findom) complex. Lemme explain

Financial domination (money slavery or
findom ) is a sexual fetish , in particular a practice of
dominance and submission, where a submissive ( money slave, human ATM usually a male) will give gifts and money to a dominant (money mistress, findomme, or cash master) woman .

The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM and master/slave relationships, like
erotic humiliation , but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals.

The relationship between the "slave" and the dominant may take place solely via online communication, but it is not uncommon for the "slave" to accompany the dominant while shopping and paying with the submissive's money.

The submissive guy may grant all their money saved and earned to the dominant(woman) , in addition to many other aspects of their autonomy, and it is not uncommon for both partners to have an intimate relationship as well.

Financial domination can also be distinguished from sugar baby relationships in which a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination.

SMH

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by ongback: 9:57am On Sep 07
True, but in most cases such man will end up in tears and regrets.


Dpsychologist:

As funny as this may seem. I have Discovered that simps/nice guys have Financial dominance(findon) complex. Lemme explain

Financial domination (money slavery or
findom ) is a sexual fetish , in particular a practice of
dominance and submission, where a submissive ( money slave, paypig, human ATM usually a male) will give gifts and money to a dominant (money mistress, findomme, or cash master) woman .

The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM and master/slave relationships, like
erotic humiliation , but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals.

The relationship between the "slave" and the dominant may take place solely via online communication, but it is not uncommon for the "slave" to accompany the dominant while shopping and paying with the submissive's money.

The submissive guy may grant all their money saved and earned to the dominant(woman) , in addition to many other aspects of their autonomy, and it is not uncommon for both partners to have an intimate relationship as well.

Financial domination can also be distinguished from sugar baby relationships in which a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination.

SMH

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 10:04am On Sep 07
ongback:
True, but in most cases such man will end up in tears and regrets.



Unfortunately that is the consequences they have to face. Some have lost their jobs, some assets, some lost their sanity and some lost their lives.

There is no benefits for being a weak man.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 10:06am On Sep 07
20.) MEN ARE MADE , WOMEN ARE BORN :
Women are born, a woman is just a girl that can conceive children. There is no challenge mental, spiritual or otherwise that distinguishes a girl from a woman, nothing other than age even attempts to make this distinction. And thus it is so that whilst we hear chatter of what constitutes manliness, that a hated man is a boy whilst an admired man is “a real man”, we hear no such rhetoric in regards to women.

Unlike womanhood, there are barriers to manhood which transcend age and they embody qualities and characteristics which men as a collective respect and aspire to. Things like fearlessness, confidence, bravery, strength and honour. Unlike women, men are not born, they are created. Pain, poverty, difficulty and heartache, these are the things that make men out of boys.

It is women that pushed most men to the red pill

Conflict and pain is what forges the masculine mindset, a boy cannot grow into a man without conflict and retrospectively analysing his mistakes. A man is the embodiment of experience and difficulty.

Men need to apply logic to the pain endured in their lives in order to become powerful enough to transcend boyhood. Men are not born because comfort doesn’t breed men, men are bred in the fields of bloody battle, be it a war of economy, psychology, violence, or a combination of such.

A man is a soldier of differing kinds, an individual that has learnt to repress fear and hone the adrenaline it elicits to attack his limitations and evolve. This is the spirit of “manning up”, all this the process necessary to become someone worthy of the mighty majesty the word “man” represents.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 10:26am On Sep 07
Dpsychologist:

19.) THE WALL : MEN APPRECIATE , WOMEN DEPRECIATE:

Women possess neoteny. Lemme explain

Neoteny refers to an adult organism retaining childlike features. In humans, this means a roundish, soft face with large eyes, short nose, full lips and clear skin, but also overall a shorter and weaker stature. Neoteny is a highly desirable trait in women and women are more neotenous than men, both in appearance and behavior (e.g. adult crying ).

Women use make-up to enhance their neoteny by smoothing their skin and enhancing eye contrast.

Women's neoteny steeply declines in their twenties such that women's rate of aging is faster than men's, which is known as hitting the wall .

A twentyfive year old woman will already have a less neotenous facial fat distribution and hence appear less sexually attractive than an eighteen year old woman.

Men desire neoteny. This preference can be seen in

1. Men's re-marriage: The age gap is little at first marriage, it becomes widest at second or third marriage.

2. Hypogamy: A 40year old man marries a 20year old woman is another example.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 11:07am On Sep 07
21.) SINGLE MOTHERS BREED WEAK MEN :
Single mothers are ill-equipped to breed men, and overwhelmingly lack the tools necessary to give a boy the guidance he needs to reach a higher stage of male development.

Boys don’t meet their potential, they are poorly disciplined(no mental toughness) and have little sense of purpose or life direction.

Poor discipline breeds low confidence and passivity, qualities which are inherently anti-charismatic in nature and hence deleterious to a man’s romantic chances.

These are men that end of being mama's boy. Single mothers raise weak men. However, a single mother breeds a strong/masculine woman

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by hahn(m): 11:08am On Sep 07
Dpsychologist:
21.) SINGLE MOTHERS BREED WEAK MEN :
Single mothers are ill-equipped to breed men, and overwhelmingly lack the tools necessary to give a boy the guidance he needs to reach a higher stage of male development.

Boys don’t meet their potential, they are poorly disciplined(no mental toughness) and have little sense of purpose or life direction.

Poor discipline breeds low confidence and passivity, qualities which are inherently anti-charismatic in nature and hence deleterious to a man’s romantic chances.

These are men that end of being mama's boy.

Now I finally understand that for a woman it ain't easy trying to raise a man - Tupac

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 11:11am On Sep 07
hahn:


Now I finally understand that for a woman it ain't easy trying to raise a man - Tupac
Yea. I remember that line from his song, Dear mama.

Its difficult to raise a man for them.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by hahn(m): 11:13am On Sep 07
Dpsychologist:

Yea. I remember that line from his song, Dear mama.

Its difficult to raise a man for them.

I grew up with a single mom myself and the man who was my father figure taught me a lot though he was a simp.

The red pill has definitely taught me a lot and helped me in my marriage.

I'll definitely teach my son

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 11:17am On Sep 07
hahn:


I'll definitely teach my son

This is very necessary for the male child especially in the kind of generation we are living in.

I have started teaching my juniors and cousins subtly. They need to be emancipated.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by hahn(m): 11:41am On Sep 07
Dpsychologist:


This is very necessary for the male child especially in the kind of generation we are living in.

I have started teaching my juniors and cousins subtly. They need to be emancipated.

True. Although I'll be teaching my son(s) head on

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 11:59am On Sep 07
22.) THE IMPORTANCE OF SOCIAL /SEXUAL MARKET VALUE :
In male - female relationship, Social/sexual market value is everything. Something a low-value man says which is seen as “creepy” is “flirty” or “sexy” when spoken by a high value man. If you are not high value you are invisible to women.

In your quest to be an alpha male never forget about your appearance. You have to dress the part

If you are not naturally handsome exercise and get muscles, eat well, take care of your scalp and facial hair, dress nice, put cologne this will compensate for your lack of handsomeness and will improve your appearance. This Self improvement Itself will increase your strength and Confidence

As an addendum, Get as popular as you can, hold leadership positions and do anything to increase you status. This will radically increase your Confidence. Also Hustle for money but be wise not to be used as an ATM(you know what i mean).

The theory of first impression
Do you know that in the first instance of meeting a woman, she has already decided (about 90%) if something will ever happen between both of you. This is due to first impression. If you put your hands in your pocket, can’t maintain eye contact and dress crappily, you will still have problem with women. Most will judge you because of the way you appear. Remember people will forever judge a book by its cover.

A man must as such focus on maintaining his physical appearance and status to the highest possible standard. This will make his life easier in areas not just confined to sexuality, but likewise in the social and financial.

The better looking you are , the more positively you are perceived. This bias for the attractive we all instinctively share is described by a phenomenon known as the halo effect.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 4:21pm On Sep 07
If you say the truth, it will set you free.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 4:22pm On Sep 07
The truth does not need a lawyer.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 7:35pm On Sep 07
Dpsychologist:

The better looking you are , the more positively you are perceived. This bias for the attractive we all instinctively share is described by a phenomenon known as the halo effect.
Being a bad boy helps 'get' women. Having the permission to act like an asshole/badguy around women requires that you already have a perceived looks, money, or status.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 7:53pm On Sep 07
23.) WOMEN GAIN MORE FROM RELATIONSHIPS / MARRIAGES THAN MEN :

Jeff Bezos estranged wife Mackenzie Scott is now worth about $68B after divorce settlement,making her the world richest woman. This is money she never worked for. She is richer than Oprah Winfrey who has been working her ass off decades ago.



Any man that’s ever heard other married men talk has surely heard of the “what’s yours is ours” and “what’s hers is hers” double standard.

To women, relationships are exercises in which you burden another with your baggage which lead to their betterment but do not want to contribute their part. A woman is very stingy with her resource. She wants to use your money but do not want you to use hers


For a man a relationship is a morbid attempt at controlled chaos, an exercise in the most burdensome leadership.

Relationship is something society encourages, because society derives benefit from it. Of course society derives benefit from all male sacrifice, which is why of course society has always encouraged men to do things that aren’t necessarily in their best interest.

Society encourages you to buy the flowers, do the calling, take her on a date, buy her gifts. All to their benefits, they are making money from it.

By my use of the word “society” I of course refer to women at large, the female hive mind. So aside from peer pressure, why do we do even do it? Why do men have relationships with women when they can enjoy the best a woman has to offer without making a promise of commitment?

Men have their various reasons. For some, it’s a fear of loneliness. For others, it’s the dream of being a patriarch that rules over his own family, a good (high value, well-trained) woman being essential to such an endeavour, rare as they are.

For the men still plugged in(blue pill) , it’s based on an archaic idealistic notion of undying love served to you by the societally entrenched meme of “The One™”(We will talk about the soul mate myth later )

Women have nothing to lose from securing a man’s commitment, but for a man it is a risk, a calculated risk. Our risk is higher because by merit of having more to give, we have more to lose.
We marry downwards or sideways and as such lose more

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 2:24pm On Sep 08
Good day everyone

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 3:06pm On Sep 08
24.) THE FEMINISATION OF EDUCATION :
The female child is regarded as more important than the male.

In my alma mater, during my University days an entrepreneur gave 150k to all male first class but then gave 250k to females.

The modern educational environment is not very kind to boys and young men. Women are starting to outnumber men in school and have a stronger presence within institutions of higher learning.

The concentration is on the female

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 3:08pm On Sep 08
25.) WHY WOMEN COVET MALE FRIENDSHIP :

Women want male friends because they’re better company. More interesting, more entertaining, less crazy, less annoying – all of that good stuff. Likewise they know if they’re pretty they can leverage that into favour whilst giving you nothing, so this is the scam most even moderately pretty women are working.

The more beautiful a woman is, the more guys in her friend zone

Men want to be friends with women because they are naive and think friendship is the first stepping stone to sex. Women profit from this false belief because men waste time, passion and energy on an endeavour which eventually yields nothing but hassle in return. When a man figures out friendship is not the path to sex with women, he ceases to see the point in having female friends.

Be weary of girls that dress provocatively. Because she dresses as such does not mean she is very cheap and will get laid with you. In fact they are the most difficult to Bleep. They are dressing provocatively so you can give them your attention, resources and commitment with the expectation of sex, unfortunately you will not get it. This is a tactic used by golddiggers. The irony is that the girls who dress decently and who are Innocent are those very easy to Bleep.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 3:09pm On Sep 08

Even though a man’s friendship is worth more than a woman’s, women won’t trade sex for it because being likeable doesn’t make you fuckable. Women have the opposite problem, they are fuckable rather than likeable. Men have to work to be fuckable, women have to work to be likeable.

But a woman is only concerned with her own needs(Narcissism) not yours. Just like men will gladly use a women up sexually, a woman will gladly use up a man emotionally and financially.

A woman is all too happy to devour your time and use you as a source of entertainment and conduit (means) for complaining all the while she gives you nothing in return.

This is a bad deal for a man because his company is infinitely higher quality, and thus more valuable than hers. In 99% of cases this means if you’re hanging out with a woman you are interested and you’re not fucking, you’re getting a bad deal .

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 3:10pm On Sep 08

Legitimate female friends, women you find unattractive and are interesting are rare, because most women have no personality. Their personality basic, based on gossip. This is most women; the epitome of boring. Most women never become more than their sexuality because they don’t need to evolve beyond that to be successful. This is why the vast majority of women make no effort to be funny or interesting. That’s just the way it is. If you want quality friendship, you look for it among men.

If you are ever in a situation where you’re stuck with women and bored out of your mind (you will be) the best way to make things interesting is to mock them. The only way women become interesting is if you tease them, call them out and be generally combative. Otherwise you’ll be bored, asking yourself why you’re with a gaggle of women when you’d have more fun reading the world’s least interesting book.

A lot of what i said here overlaps with the principles laid out in section 18, refer to that for a deeper understanding of this dynamic.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 6:23pm On Sep 08
26.) DOMINANCE & BOLDNESS :

When you are a push over, its game over
Dpsychologist


Always set boundaries with everyone, do not be a pushover. Cultivate a sense of fearless boldness. Men take more risks than women and are expected to do so by merit of being male.

Being fearful and unconfident as a man leads to failure and disrespect from peers. Men must be confrontational and risk-takers when a situation calls for it, they cannot be passive or defer responsibility without losing esteem.

As such, men are required to solve problem and deal with conflict in a way unexpected of women. Men are better equipped to deal with such matters (see sections 3 and 10).

TRP more or less advocates that the way to get girlfriends (including model girlfriends) is by building self-confidence and self-worth (mental 'frame') by yourself.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 7:13pm On Sep 08
Dpsychologist:

Women possess neoteny. Lemme explain

Neoteny refers to an adult organism retaining childlike features. In humans, this means a roundish, soft face with large eyes, short nose, full lips and clear skin, but also overall a shorter and weaker stature. Neoteny is a highly desirable trait in women and women are more neotenous than men, both in appearance and behavior (e.g. adult crying ).

Women use make-up to enhance their neoteny by smoothing their skin and enhancing eye contrast.

Women's neoteny steeply declines in their twenties such that women's rate of aging is faster than men's, which is known as hitting the wall .

A twentyfive year old woman will already have a less neotenous facial fat distribution and hence appear less sexually attractive than an eighteen year old woman.

Men desire neoteny. This preference can be seen in

1. Men's re-marriage: The age gap is little at first marriage, it becomes widest at second or third marriage.

2. Hypogamy: A 40year old man marries a 20year old woman is another example.


People tend to confuse beauty with virtue

Handsomeness lacks the visual childlike innocence signatory of beauty that leads the observer to infer virtue.

Effectively the visual cues that lead us to believe in the innocence of children is the exact mechanism from which women’s beauty takes a degree of its power; that degree pertaining to the conflation of beauty with virtue and the presumption of innocence that results from it rather than woman’s sexual power per se.

This phenomenon alone serves as further proof of women’s immaturity relative to man, if further proof were even necessary; greater neoteny is a biological marker of lesser maturity. In summary of this section’s thought, I leave you with this concluding statement: her first concern is her appearance, her second concern her cunning, but both serve the same ends.

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by sotall(m): 7:25pm On Sep 08
cool

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 8:30pm On Sep 08

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Re: The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist: 9:28pm On Sep 08
27.) INFINITE SHIT TEST :

TRP says that the way women choose men is by unconsciously submitting men to confidence tests called shit tests. When a man passes a woman's shit tests, and 'holds a higher frame' than her, TRP says he will 'get' her or have a good chance. TRP stresses that men not only have to have good confidence and self worth, but higher confidence and self worth than the woman he is pursuing.

However, She will never stop testing you for weakness. Women are biologically insecure. They are always thinking in the back of their heads “what if I have made a mistake.”

It is this constant need for romantic reassurance that causes them to rigorously shit test their men, on a seemingly primal level women are utterly obsessed with feeling safe, both emotionally and materially, and so will test their boyfriends/husbands to see if he still has what it takes to make them “feel safe.”

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