[quote author=Nomorelove post=93547317]Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

What do i do ?

I think u should start making money and leave all this bitches/holes they won’t add anything value to your life, i am talking from experience the time u wasting on this bitch is good enough for to learn a good skills that will bring food to your table man.

Those holes no get life think man ?

A word is enough for the wise !

think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her ( exactly mate) !

you were not in a relationship after all

Are u crippled ?

It's normal especially if your breakup wasn't an embittered one. It just didn't work out due to some inevitable circumstances. Y ex-still has feelings for me. But that's bygone

Op search for this guy on twitter and swallow some Redpills. Ubunjas threads are there for you too.

Let her go to avoid feeding and bringing up another man child.

use your fucking head

don't cut ties with her, buy her luxuries things like your fellow SIMP....shebi she's the only lady left over in the world



I wonder how crazy you would be, if she was a virgin? a used lady is having feelings for her past user and you don't see it as an insult to your person?


a guy broke up with her and she's still having feelings for him speak about her low mentality, lack of principles, classlessness and tastelessness, that's the kind of lady that's driving you crazy


a lady that understand mathematics, brilliant and ready to influence you mentally will never drive your likes crazy but those used papers



some people sha

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Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

"but have spoken about our feelings for each other."
**NEVER DATE NOR WORSE MARRY THAT GIRL**
She is not over her past relationship or no relationship with her and never can she truly love you.
Look for a MATURE and RESONABLE WOMAN not a girl nor lady.

24 year old chasing after woman.....Classic! The girl in question now tells you she has feelings for another but you still dey do strong head....Tragic! Now you've come on public forum looking for people to encourage or discourage you.....Comedy!

Some boys are sad excuse for a male and pathetically poor specimen of a man. What is he even expecting?

eat her shit please

Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

leave her you piece of low self-esteem simp

Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

Give her some space to figure out her feelings. She's confused. She might be over the guy already but thinks she still have feelings for him.
Once you make yourself unavailable to her, she might realize where her heart truly lies, whether with you or her ex.
She needs to go back and see that there's really nothing there to miss.

Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

Brody, you do not want to put urself in that position. You should understand that tho she is most likely a nice person, you're not meant for each other.

Really hate to misuse the word 'simp' as it is now being abused. But , u tell me what you will call a man who is essentially putting a stamp of approval to being a second option?....

You are not her ideal mate. Take it like a man and move on. The world is a big place! Any other thing is accepting mediocrity.. mediocrity in every other thing is fine, but not your love life. It'll hit ur self esteem, emotional stability etc.

At 24 by god's grace, i shouldn't be in nigeria. I will be going to ikeja LGA.

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Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

Please save her from the spirit of confusion.
Whatever made the guy to leave her before,, will still cause another break up.
By the time that ex is through with her, you must have been married with children by then.
Please wake her up to reality.

Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

Another BBNaija Ozo about to be made.
It will end in tears.....

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You're not in love relationship with her and you never made a viable move to take her out on a date to start with!

She may have done that to know if you truly have serious feelings for her as you've not made any move. Or she's actually telling you the truth about her feelings for her ex.

Make a move now or forget about her and move on with your life.

To the people condemning him, so u didn't see where he wrote they have spoken about their feelings for each other. Meaning they unconsciously believed they re already dating

Holy smith and wesson what the fvck guy? drop that girl now and i mean now else it will end in tears let her go back to her vomit

Las Las u go do that thing wey they your mind, I'm a stoner I don't know love, I fvck u and that's all

Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

Simple Bruh. Keep fucking her while you look for a serios gal, provided ure serios too. Otherwise just continue catching fun with her only..

take 100naira bus to maza-maza, enter night bus to Onitsha 2k only or attached at 5huns only. when u reach river Niger, just CME down n jump inside. all your worries wud be gone. as kwantiri tear reach Una still dey stupid. rabbish! nwanne waa!

KristaPretty:
You said it yourself, you are not in a relationship so you automatically turned yourself to the brother zone.
If you wanna date her, go ahead and ask her out and stop hoping and dying in silence.

Fact

KristaPretty:
You said it yourself, you are not in a relationship so you automatically turned yourself to the brother zone.
If you wanna date her, go ahead and ask her out and stop hoping and dying in silence.

why are u encouraging a 24year old boy to delve into a relationship

These kids should know that a relationship @ this age is a total waste of time & won't lead to nowhere

KristaPretty:
You said it yourself, you are not in a relationship so you automatically turned yourself to the brother zone.
If you wanna date her, go ahead and ask her out and stop hoping and dying in silence.

why are u encouraging a 24year old boy to delve into a relationship

These kids should know that a relationship @ this age is a total waste of time & won't lead to nowhere


Perhaps, u are of same age group

Olohun a ba e settle e o