Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,778,075 members, 6,619,787 topics. Date: Tuesday, 07 December 2021 at 01:45 AM

What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger - Family - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger (1797 Views)

What Made You Stronger? / What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? / We Have Stronger Women And Weaker Men Now!! (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (Reply) (Go Down)

What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Chizybrown: 1:00pm On Sep 04, 2020
As Africans and even in some other parts of world, a number of young people are brought up to the reality of things being made a little easier for their existence especially in the early years of life and even into early adulthood.

From parents who work their fingers off to see a majority of us through the 3 stages of schooling and way into adulthood, to senior siblings who became assistant parents to their younger ones when they didn’t have to. For some people, this culture of always having things easy breeds a very unhealthy ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY that leaves them thinking they deserve everything good, handed to them on a platter, even when they don’t work for it.

We grow up expecting a lot from people but the truth is:

No One Owes You Anything!!
Not your uncle that promised to help you with fees in University and his numbers remain very much un-reachable even long after you’ve finished NYSC, not even your friend who promised to inform you when a job opening comes up in the company they work in but somehow forgot.

A lot of young persons are so used to being spoon-fed until they’ve developed a very unhealthy mentality where they feel entitled to being taken care of way into adulthood and this has bred some adults who become very bitter towards people whom they believe should help them but have refused to help them, they fail to realize that no one owes them anything, the people who worked to be able to afford the luxury life reserve the right to extend help to people they want or not, they do not have two heads, if you want the good life, get up and go get it.

https://www.naijatalkzone.com.ng/hardest-truth-accept-life-made-stronger/

AM Giving out 30GB to 20 people 1.5GB each with the Best comment. Click above link and comment on the website relating to the topic. You can copy your comments here and paste because some people has already won. Note add your email or number so that we can reach you. thanks

6 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Nobody: 1:03pm On Sep 04, 2020
smiley
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Deborah98(f): 1:04pm On Sep 04, 2020
That life doesn't give us what we want rather what we worked for, correct me if I didn't get it.

1 Like

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by donbachi(m): 1:09pm On Sep 04, 2020
Na only me waka come
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Zammygaga(m): 1:11pm On Sep 04, 2020
Deborah98:
That life doesn't give us what we want rather what we worked for, correct me if I didn't get it.

You are correct sis

1 Like

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz: 1:11pm On Sep 04, 2020
1. Humble people will never become a leader... Only bold people

Life; it's an animal kingdom, so it's hard to find loyalty.

9 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by falcon01: 1:18pm On Sep 04, 2020
1. Life is full of lies and you can never see that light unless you reject every thing including the truth then you learn again.
2. Ignorance is actually bliss (I regret knowing somethings)
3. Been good doesn't mean you'll have it good with people some will hate you for been good
4. And most Importantly this world is not for the weak and fragile you gotta get your hands dirty sometimes.

5 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by DontBullshitMe: 1:19pm On Sep 04, 2020
Mother's love is not unconditional. grin

10 Likes 2 Shares

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by EzzyCarter: 1:33pm On Sep 04, 2020
Nobody really gives a shit, all they do is pretend they do. Live your life for yourself. Stay on your grind and make yourself proud. Case closed

9 Likes 1 Share

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Nobody: 1:43pm On Sep 04, 2020
LIFE IS NOT FAIR.

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by professore(m): 1:47pm On Sep 04, 2020
Every man for himself (nobody really likes you but yourself).

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by illicit(m): 2:23pm On Sep 04, 2020
That nobody send me

4 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Ninejaywon: 2:52pm On Sep 04, 2020
No woman can love a man unconditionally except his MOTHER.
The only person that make or Mar you is YOU.

4 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by ChemicalReaction(f): 3:55pm On Sep 04, 2020
What you are to your parents is a RESPONSIBILITY, but what you are to that relative, that friend, that brother is an EMERGENCY. So, please, if they make efforts to help you, show gratitude, if not, just bounce. No need holding grudges.

There's a difference between "I'll find you something" and "how much do you need?"
If someone wants to "find you something", anything should be appreciated.

That your lover dumped you today doesn't automatically mean you'll see them hawking plantain chips or gala in traffic. You can also see them in their expensive ride, fine house and cute family while you're still broke.

Start taking all the right decisions necessary for your own growth. That you suffered growing up doesn't mean you'll become Dangote tomorrow. Life isn't Nollywood.

17 Likes 2 Shares

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Cashio(m): 4:32pm On Sep 04, 2020
all man to himself.. no man owe u no shit

1 Like

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Uyi168: 4:51pm On Sep 04, 2020
ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
1. Humble people will never become a leader... Only bold people

Life; it's an animal kingdom, so it's hard to find loyalty.
.

Can't one be humble and the same time bold??
Are the two mutually exclusive

2 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Uyi168: 4:53pm On Sep 04, 2020
That the only difficult thing in life is making Money..
Every other thing is quite easy.

4 Likes 1 Share

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Nobody: 4:55pm On Sep 04, 2020
DontBullshitMe:
Mother's love is not unconditional. grin

I just learnt this.

However, my mum has done so much for me more than anyone ever will.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by merieam16(f): 5:30pm On Sep 04, 2020
That u alone in this world...trust no one

1 Like

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by HomerTimpson: 5:55pm On Sep 04, 2020
Life has taught me me to learn from the elders up there. cool
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Fortissimo502: 6:00pm On Sep 04, 2020
That I need a saviour.
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Sage161(m): 6:21pm On Sep 04, 2020
People never remember the million times you help them, only the one time you don’t.

7 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by crackhaus: 6:53pm On Sep 04, 2020
I've accepted so many truths about life, but I figure that the most important one for me so far is, "humans are by nature very fickle".

There's just few people, and I mean really few, who have been able to transcend themselves into the realm of the sublime.

7 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Palema007: 7:12pm On Sep 04, 2020
ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
1. Humble people will never become a leader... Only bold people

Life; it's an animal kingdom, so it's hard to find loyalty.
Sir, "Timid" is the right word not Humble.

Humble people become leaders.

4 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Palema007: 7:18pm On Sep 04, 2020
Two things :

You define you! Whatever goes or stays on your mind is determined by YOU alone! You are You because that is who you want.

Life is a personal race.
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Twenty8: 7:23pm On Sep 04, 2020
1).That it not just the Nigerian government that sucks but it's the fault of the people who do not condemn corruption and injustice even when it doesn't benefit them.



2). Their are a lot of tribalist online than offline, because they are cowards in real life.


3). Nairaland is filled with a lotta toxic muscularist and feminist.

4). When Nigerians dupe people they call it street smart, hustle, but when they are duped they call it corruption and injustice.

2 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by YourCoffin: 9:01pm On Sep 04, 2020
Destroy those who aims or wishes to destroy you

Stay far away from feminists and religious folks

1 Like

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by Noloss(f): 9:08pm On Sep 04, 2020
Later
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by annayawchee: 10:34pm On Sep 04, 2020
Expect nothing
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by culf: 11:00pm On Sep 04, 2020
ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
1. Humble people will never become a leader... Only bold people

Life; it's an animal kingdom, so it's hard to find loyalty.


hard but very possible. Nice one
Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by SKhanmi: 11:32pm On Sep 04, 2020
Everything is temporary. Can disappear in the twinkling of on eye, including you. And life.will.go.on

3 Likes

Re: What Is The Hardest Truth You Had To Accept About Life That Made You Stronger by n1ky(f): 5:09am On Sep 05, 2020
Don't compare yourself to others, our time are different so Wait for Your time.

2 Likes

(1) (2) (3) (Reply)

Have You Met Human(man or woman) That Can Regurgitate? / First Bank Nigeria Is After My Life And Future / Funny Pictures Of Kids And Their Moms

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2021 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 88
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.