When a stream of clean water suddenly turns bad, starts producing dirty and perhaps stinking water, scooping out the bad water will never solve the problem. The solution is to trace the fountain from where the stream runs. Fix the fountain and restore your clean stream again.
But we leave in a generation where people seek for remedies to problems without first finding out the root cause. People want to judge the consequences of an action but nobody cares to discuss the root.
Very often, men are beaten, ridiculed, arrested and even killed for abusing their wives physically. But no one care to know what the wife has done

No. 1 - Keep late nights
A situation that has no solution is yet to be born. After you must have asked her to change her bad characters in many loving ways, yet she sees good reasons to remain in them, then try this.
When you are done from work, find a friend's place where you can stay and be comfortable, do not go home until it's late at night, when she must have been tired and retired to bed.
Do not keep late nights in the bar, the devil may be there waiting for you. Discuss your plan with a trusted friend, let him know you are trying to caution your wife. He will help you with other sub and reasonable plans while in his house.
If your woman is not jealous enough to stop anything that led to your late nights, then she has the heart of a rod. Try the second way.

Are you having blames for beating your wife and nobody cares to ask you what she did?

Don't vex, tell us now, what did she do?

Waiting for the rest....

Deborah98:
Waiting for the rest....

who are the rest pls

No. 2 - Give her a cold shoulder
It's not every woman that can survive being ignored by the man they share a house with. Some women feel hurt deeply when she see that you are deliberately ignoring her.
Let her keep her good morning whenever she wakes up, let her keep her thank sir when she's done eating, let her keep her gists when she sees you. Every other communication should be halted
Watch your television, mind your business, make your calls and laugh out so loud, sing and whistle around the house. But ignore every move she make to come close. If she ever insist, tell her to change or leave you to live your life.
If she is truly your wife, she would seek to know what she has done and where she went wrong. Remind her that it's the same bad attitude she has refused to give up on. If the cold shoulder continues, she definitely must come back begging.

OkhaiAsein:
No. 1 - Keep late nights
A situation that has no solution is yet to be born. After you must have asked her to change her bad characters in many loving ways, yet she sees good reasons to remain in them, then try this.
When you are done from work, find a friend's place where you can stay and be comfortable, do not go home until it's late at night, when she must have been tired and retired to bed.
Do not keep late nights in the bar, the devil may be there waiting for you. Discuss your plan with a trusted friend, let him know you are trying to caution your wife. He will help you with other sub and reasonable plans while in his house.
If your woman is not jealous enough to stop anything that led to your late nights, then she has the heart of a rod. Try the second way.

If she also starts to keep late night how we go com do am.

Ernerstdavid55:
who are the rest pls

his remaining points.

KNOWMORE56:


If she also starts to keep late night how we go com do am.

lolzzzzz party don scatter be dat

No. 3 - Stop eating her food
This may not be easy for some men, but it very very potent. When she serves you her supposed delicacy, kindly ignore the table and the food, tell her you lost your appetite. If you repeat it for consecutive days, she will know you are rejecting her food.
When coming home, eat outside and buy some snacks that you maybe needing at night. Mind your room and your phone, but also know that in this situation, you have to also mind your emotions and control your urge.
This doesn't mean you won't be keeping money for meals, you are trying to make things better and not necessarily to worsen them. So you continue to provide for her while she eat and dine alone. When she realizes that she's alone in the house, she will come back with begging and pleading.
In all her pleas, make sure she promise to stop.

No. 4 - Deny her some bodily pleasures
One of the basic needs in marriage is emotional pleasure and satisfaction. If situations get so bad that your wife no longer listen to you, try this.
If you both share the same bed, then leave her side for her, if she won't allow you to sleep, go to the sitting room. Please, this measure should be taken with caution. Know the kind of person your wife is before you start with this no. 4. If she is an erotic addict, please don't try this, she may go out in search of it. Try the ones above but satisfy her on bed just for satisfaction sake.

Professorcplus:
All this one doesn't apply to *hoes disguised as house wife. If you like keep late night, they will also keep their, if you like don't eat her food and don't have sex with her, they won't care because they will get it else where. Las las na you go loose.

At least you have specified the kind of women that won't care about these antics.

What's left is to ensure you don't marry a hoe.

crackhaus:


What's left is to ensure you don't marry a hoe.

You got a point there boss

Deborah98:
his remaining points.

haha I fear o

Ernerstdavid55:
haha I fear o

lolzzzzz why the fear?

No. 5 - Leave the house for her
If every other one fails, leave the house for her. Travel. Even if it's in your neighbor's house, leave the house for her.
Some women are quite incompetent to run a family. They cannot lift a finger to help issues when you are not there, so she wouldn't want to search and not find you. Again, some women who are strong and feminist-minded would even love to throw you out in the first place, so they won't bother you left. But in all, learn to stay away from your home, and gradually, you will be detached from her emotionally. This detachment will help you overcome her ill attitudes when she starts, it will help you forget so easily when you are hurt, it will also help you to move on when she finally breaks off.

OkhaiAsein:
No. 4 - Deny her some bodily pleasures
One of the basic needs in marriage is emotional pleasure and satisfaction. If situations get so bad that your wife no longer listen to you, try this.
If you both share the same bed, then leave her side for her, if she won't allow you to sleep, go to the sitting room. Please, this measure should be taken with caution. Know the kind of person your wife is before you start with this no. 4. If she is an erotic addict, please don't try this, she may go out in search of it. Try the ones above but satisfy her on bed just for satisfaction sake.

No no no no no, I don't agree with this. Why starve yourself of sex to punish a woman?
Makes no sense...

Best remedy is to keep having sex with her, but ensure you do it with some form of detachment.
As long as she's not refusing you, continue having sex with her, but cüm as quickly as possible and leave her hanging – just go to sleep afterwards or go do something else.

Married men! be careful who you listen to. The Safest place to be is the home, The closest person to you should be your wife.

A couple is a team, together they conquer and grow as a unit. Fighting and hurting each other in the name of punishment is pure foolishness.

Op! One of the intentions of getting married is to build a home, not tearing it down by following those advise you have above.

crackhaus:



What's left is to ensure you don't marry a hoe.

Ensure u dont marry a hoe abi cutlass so dat all these punishments will pain her abi?

Please before you embark on this journey, make sure to tell your wife that you may change because of her consistent bad attitude. This is to make her know that she is the one bringing out the stained colour out of you.
Tell any of your friends you want to confide in about your plans and what you wish to achieve. Let them know and help keep an eye on your woman.
It is note worthy to remember that these disciplinary actions are for the good men, for men who are on their own, disciplined and therefore capable of impacting others.
If you are a liar, a cheat, a barterer, an infidel, a stingy husband and father, please, these actions are not for you because when karma decides to take its toll on you, you may not find the mouth to defend yourself.
Do not beat somebody's daughter for any reason, find out a way to handle her mess or send her parking. Lots of successful women today were once thrown out of their marital homes, they left and picked up the pieces of their lives. Fixed their hearts and started rising, some have risen higher than the men who threw them out.
Sometimes, some marriages cannot be fixed, no matter what you apply to it, it will keep breaking and quenching.
Do Not Be Offended
It's not anyone's intentions to break homes, we have healed, we are healing and we shall continue to heal. But some cases where chances of death is higher than that of healing, we find another alternative.
It is better to be divorced and be alive than to die or be widowed at a young age in a bid to remain married.

merieam16:
Ensure u dont marry a hoe abi cutlass so dat all these punishments will pain her abi?

My response was specific to that guy's comment.

Since he believes it won't work on a hoe, then he must not marry a hoe.

crackhaus:

No no no no no, I don't agree with this. Why starve yourself of sex to punish a woman?
Makes no sense...

Best remedy is to keep having sex with her, but ensure you do it with some form of detachment.
As long as she's not refusing you, continue having sex with her, but cüm as quickly as possible and leave her hanging – just go to sleep afterwards or go do something else.

That won't change her attitude she would still think she has satisfy u even though u are angry with her...

OkhaiAsein:
Please before you embark on this journey, make sure to tell your wife that you may change because of her consistent bad attitude. This is to make her know that she is the one bringing out the stained colour out of you.
Tell any of your friends you want to confide in about your plans and what you wish to achieve. Let them know and help keep an eye on your woman.

It is note worthy to remember that these disciplinary actions are for the good men, for men who are on their own, disciplined and therefore capable of impacting others.
If you are a liar, a cheat, a barterer, an infidel, a stingy husband and father, please, these actions are not for you because when karma decides to take its toll on you, you may not find the mouth to defend yourself.

Do not beat somebody's daughter for any reason, find out a way to handle her mess or send her parking. Lots of successful women today were once thrown out of their marital homes, they left and picked up the pieces of their lives. Fixed their hearts and started rising, some have risen higher than the men who threw them out.
Sometimes, some marriages cannot be fixed, no matter what you apply to it, it will keep breaking and quenching.

Lol, very important caveat.

Deborah98:
lolzzzzz why the fear?

haha madam u like to ask qwesin o OK I dive in, I no fear again, can I get ur number I promise to call?

OkhaiAsein:

That won't change her attitude she would still think she has satisfy u even though u are angry with her...

Well that's the idea, because you still won't cosy up to her or become friendly with her afterwards.

That shït confuses them, and makes them feel like they have wasted their time thinking sex will magically solve all unresolved issues.

crackhaus:
Lol, very important caveat.

yes o

OkhaiAsein:
No. 1 - Keep late nights
A situation that has no solution is yet to be born. After you must have asked her to change her bad characters in many loving ways, yet she sees good reasons to remain in them, then try this.
When you are done from work, find a friend's place where you can stay and be comfortable, do not go home until it's late at night, when she must have been tired and retired to bed.
Do not keep late nights in the bar, the devil may be there waiting for you. Discuss your plan with a trusted friend, let him know you are trying to caution your wife. He will help you with other sub and reasonable plans while in his house.
If your woman is not jealous enough to stop anything that led to your late nights, then she has the heart of a rod. Try the second way.

Unless the friend is single ooo....
Don't go and rain on another man's parade with your marital issues.
Don't use your reggae to spoil another couple's blues...go sort your wahala some place else

OkhaiAsein:
No. 2 - Give her a cold shoulder
It's not every woman that can survive being ignored by the man they share a house with. Some women feel hurt deeply when she see that you are deliberately ignoring her.
Let her keep her good morning whenever she wakes up, let her keep her thank sir when she's done eating, let her keep her gists when she sees you. Every other communication should be halted
Watch your television, mind your business, make your calls and laugh out so loud, sing and whistle around the house. But ignore every move she make to come close. If she ever insist, tell her to change or leave you to live your life.
If she is truly your wife, she would seek to know what she has done and where she went wrong. Remind her that it's the same bad attitude she has refused to give up on. If the cold shoulder continues, she definitely must come back begging.

Two can play that game.

OkhaiAsein:
No. 3 - Stop eating her food
This may not be easy for some men, but it very very potent. When she serves you her supposed delicacy, kindly ignore the table and the food, tell her you lost your appetite. If you repeat it for consecutive days, she will know you are rejecting her food.
When coming home, eat outside and buy some snacks that you maybe needing at night. Mind your room and your phone, but also know that in this situation, you have to also mind your emotions and control your urge.
This doesn't mean you won't be keeping money for meals, you are trying to make things better and not necessarily to worsen them. So you continue to provide for her while she eat and dine alone. When she realizes that she's alone in the house, she will come back with begging and pleading.
In all her pleas, make sure she promise to stop.

OK. Dis one go pain me

OkhaiAsein:
No. 5 - Leave the house for her
If every other one fails, leave the house for her. Travel. Even if it's in your neighbor's house, leave the house for her.
Some women are quite incompetent to run a family. They cannot lift a finger to help issues when you are not there, so she wouldn't want to search and not find you. Again, some women who are strong and feminist-minded would even love to throw you out in the first place, so they won't bother you left. But in all, learn to stay away from your home, and gradually, you will be detached from her emotionally. This detachment will help you overcome her ill attitudes when she starts, it will help you forget so easily when you are hurt, it will also help you to move on when she finally breaks off.

This will apply to a very toxic relationship.