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My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Zealoy(m): 7:08am On Sep 09
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by EmptyGarden(m): 7:13am On Sep 09
Na so men dey use marry o... "if I leave her, she will die", "she can't live without me".
Always remind yourself this "I AM NOT OXYGEN".
now put your boxers back on, get up and RUN!

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 7:16am On Sep 09
My man u are very lucky o,
U don't know what God has done for u yet

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Zealoy(m): 7:25am On Sep 09
VeeVeeMyLuv:
My man u are very lucky o,
U don't know what God has done for u yet
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by aprilwise(m): 7:25am On Sep 09
Transfer your girlfriend to me. I need her

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Deborah98(f): 7:27am On Sep 09
What other people are craving for,but who gave you the mentality of just having sex with her,you see my problem with some people, let me just hit and run forgetting that karma knows everyone,e be things ooooh,if you don't want her go ahead and tell her,let her cut off her feelings for you cos it's obvious all you want in the relationship is sex.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by MediMedi: 7:31am On Sep 09
How do world want us to love....?

A lady love more, na problem.

A man love more, na problem.

The worst part is that, guys nowadays see all ladies as sex object.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Dliquidmetal(m): 7:33am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me
god of men ain't shit, do what you wanna do not what one man tells you to do

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by OlaitanAkanbi(m): 7:36am On Sep 09
She attached her self with you because she loves you to see girl that will love a man this days is hard .give me her number let me marry her if you don’t want lol

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by MJBOLT: 7:37am On Sep 09
give me her phone number,let me talk to her on your behalf.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Juliusmomoh(m): 7:37am On Sep 09
EmptyGarden:
Na so men dey use marry o... "if I leave her, she will die", "she can't live without me".
Always remind yourself this "I AM NOT OXYGEN".
now put your boxers back on, get up and RUN!
Hahahaha.. Bad guy

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Dande55: 7:38am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me
What's making you not to love her to the extent of not wanting to marrying her?

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Juliusmomoh(m): 7:40am On Sep 09
MediMedi:
How do world want us to love....?
A lady love more, na problem.
A man love more, na problem.
The worst part is that, guys nowadays see all ladies as sex object.
Yes na.. If not sex object what else.. undecided ...

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Juliusmomoh(m): 7:41am On Sep 09
MJBOLT:
give me her phone number,let me talk to her on your behalf.
grin grin grin bad guy..
Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Charleys: 7:46am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.


Please send me her number in my DM

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by DaInferno(m): 7:47am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.
men are scumundecided
you get a quality woman, but u say it will end in tears;may her God punish you when u mess up. I dislike selfish bad people

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by 1StopRudeness: 7:53am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me

Are there no prostitutess anymore....instead of putting yourself on Karma’s list......why would you wake up and deliberately decide to hurt another human being ....

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Missyford31(f): 7:58am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.

Aww heartbreak sucks. U should think bout it tho as the next girl U meet might not be as great as her. Good girls are hard to find

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Missyford31(f): 8:01am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me

Pastors don't have a direct ph line to talk to god. They're supposed to teach U bout the bible not bout who u should be dating

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Charlex23(m): 8:09am On Sep 09
See let me tell you something about Love. I'll rather prefer to be with a lady who loves me more than i love her, rather than to be with a lady i love more. Appreciate what u have bro.
It's difficult to find true love these days and don't let go of her. Those who u tend to love don't always love u back, but those you don't really love tend to love you more. That's one of the mystery of life.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Jqtyfx(m): 8:10am On Sep 09
You've already said you didn't really love her from the beginning and only wanted her for sex, so let her go. If the next girl you meet treats you like crap, don't come to Nairaland to complain.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by simplepee(f): 8:16am On Sep 09
Pastor again!!! Op, you are very wicked may God punish you. Whatever anyone sows in this life, he or she shall reap by God's grace.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 8:18am On Sep 09
Op, i know you dnt like her at first... You just want to have sex with her. And, now It has "catch up" with you now, because at first... u must have promised her marriage. And those early stages you did a lot of " high service" just for you too taste a her "cookies". Now she love u and see you as a marriage material.

Does type of girls are deadly



I repeat, does type of girls are deadly.


Carry your cross....

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Aimerosa25(f): 8:22am On Sep 09
Be careful, with your life, you r playing her, don't reach d point of no return.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by FGonline: 8:24am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.
she may not love u too


Just using ur end as her freedom centre

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by jesmond3945: 8:32am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me
did that man of God tell you that you had sex with her in the first place?

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Tango123: 8:41am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.

If u leave the girl because u want to, or because u are seeing bad habits and behaviour in her, that is understandable

But saying a (god of man) man of God told u really makes me wonder

How sure are u that the said god of men (man of God) is telling u the truth. Why are you mortgaging your future on what a human being like u said? Are you a man of Lucifer yourself? Why privilege the statement of a human being?

Many have been led astray by so called statements from gods of men (men of God). Many gods of men are evil, although there are a few good ones. But even those few good ones are not always right. They can make mistakes. Their past experiences and human qualities can cloud their judgments, and make them misinterprete any sign they receive, that is if they did receive any in the first place.

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Diamond23(f): 8:51am On Sep 09
Zealoy:
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me
How sure are you that man of God is from God and not from the gods?. Don't trade what you NEED for what you WANT!

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by jayied(m): 8:54am On Sep 09
Please let her go, tell her the truth about how you feel about her, then wait for hot roasted thunder to faya you�

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by 444crop: 8:55am On Sep 09
My advise is, make sure when u settling, settle with one who's love is greater than yours

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by austine4real(m): 8:56am On Sep 09
Seen next please

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Re: My Girl Is Too Attached To Me, How Can I Stop That? by Justkatty(f): 8:57am On Sep 09
Op what's your name please? I need to check something

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