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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 10:48pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


Hahahahahahaahaahaha @ 'I defend men a lot.' cheesy

I don't defend any sex, I look at individual cases on their merit and carry on from there. Defending a sex would mean subjective analysis when issues crop up because I NEED to defend the side I am on.

I am always on the side of objectivity hence I have been called misogynist, a man hater, feminist, anti-feminist etc.

Regards to your mom too. smiley
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 10:53pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
You once asked me to go read ubunja topics and I was supprised,so I'm somehow right when i said you defend men alot
How does that translate to 'supporting men?'

If I told you to read the Quran so you are better equipped to preach to Muslims, does that mean I want to convert you to Islam?

Can you remember why I told you to read his miseducations? smiley
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 10:57pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:

How does that translate to 'supporting men?'

If I told you to read the Quran so you are better equipped to preach to Muslims, does that mean I want to convert you to Islam?

Can you remember why I told you to read his miseducations? smiley
i can't really remember,but you were the first person who told me about the miseducation
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by DrayZee: 10:57pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
For such judgement to be passed, it means the man must have really dealth with the lady.Africans are weird somehow,it is OK for women to suffer various forms of abuse in the hands of men and go scott free,thanks to the whites who don't reason same way as us
If I ask you what "abuse" that woman suffered, you wont be able to tell me anything tangible. The laws in that country are heavily biased in favour of women. Everyone knows this. Women get lesser sentences for the same crimes committed as men. You probably already know this.
I know you're just basking in the fact that the man is being unjustly treated, but not everything is a gender war. This your talk about "Africans" and "Whites" is just a woman playing the victim card, as usual. It has nothing to do with the matter on ground.

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:33pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:
@Bold:

Just learnt that.

I remember some years back when spousal support was justified based on the potential income the non-earning spouse would have lost due to staying home and supporting the earning spouse.

Good luck to them.

Yes, sadly today the world has changed greatly, and you can have a quickie with a total stranger in a broom closet, and if this woman gets pregnant, she can sue you for 10s of millions of dollars even though she has never spent a day in your luxurious lifestyle (ask Mick Jagger or that tennis player Boris Becker)
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Smile4mee01: 1:40am On Sep 13, 2020
Ybaby:
He said what he said.

Discuss below?

Hmnnn... Interesting. The truth is Life is becoming harder for men. With increased population, scarce resources, growing women in the workforce. It's really tough to keep up with this.

I have a friend who lived in the middle east, she told me women there dont work. They only have children and take care of things in the home. They dont compete with men for jobs and the govt supports the families.

Men if you can, please pay all Bill's. If you cant dont beat yourself down, if you over work yourself, pay all Bill's get stressed and die from overwork. The same wife go move on oo...
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by chii8(f): 6:15am On Sep 13, 2020
Una wan kill the manah! shocked shocked shocked

Please, couples should contribute to the growth of the family and not only the man, Biko....
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by DaInferno(m): 10:01am On Sep 13, 2020
Evolutionlove:
See two Vaginas up there having conversation. One have sense and the other doesn't, Just boobs and Ass only, It's obvious her pvssy will definitely suffer...... grin grin grin
aswear... u just spoke the minds of 80million Nigeriansgrin
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by DaInferno(m): 10:07am On Sep 13, 2020
this bukatyne has to be the most reasonable, rational lady I seen in awhile.

"I look at people based on their merits"; so me!
I love that line.

I defended a lady here awhile ago because of her good behaviour, but some called me simp(normal trend here these days) while others applauded, can't go into details RTN
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Savlamara(f): 10:54am On Nov 05, 2020
If all I had to do in this life was "pay bills" my life would be so easy.

Instead I was born a woman, ordained by God to bear children to further the man's bloodline, raise his children so as not to be an embarrassment, cook to nourish everyone in the home, sometimes including in-laws and extended family, clean house, teach the kids, especially now during Covid we are homeschooling all day, build up house buying and decorating everything, support my husbands endeavors sometimes working in his business for FREE and without any appreciation, organize and pay bills with the money the man makes, keep myself looking sexy and ready for when he gets home from work so I can help him unwind from hard day... Some of this is done while feeling the daily pains being pregnant with YOUR child.

Then you want to add outside work to it as well while we are working day and night as it is? GOH

God ordained men to provide. You all have only ONE job and yet complain. Goodness...

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Smile4mee01: 5:01pm On Nov 05, 2020
Savlamara:
If all I had to do in this life was "pay bills" my life would be so easy.

Instead I was born a woman, ordained by God to bear children to further the man's bloodline, raise his children so as not to be an embarrassment, cook to nourish everyone in the home, sometimes including in-laws and extended family, clean house, teach the kids, especially now during Covid we are homeschooling all day, build up house buying and decorating everything, support my husbands endeavors sometimes working in his business for FREE and without any appreciation, organize and pay bills with the money the man makes, keep myself looking sexy and ready for when he gets home from work so I can help him unwind from hard day... Some of this is done while feeling the daily pains being pregnant with YOUR child.

Then you want to add outside work to it as well while we are working day and night as it is? GOH

God ordained men to provide. You all have only ONE job and yet complain. Goodness...

I think you have spoken well. All valid points.

Sister, Its the curse of womanhood, very little can be done about it.

I once thought to myself. Will women be happier if they really were at home than in the workforce ? That's one thing I admire the middle east for i.e Qutar or is it thier religion. Both sexes know thier roles and no one dc complains. The man works, the wife takes care of the home front. And the govt. Insures the family just incase something goes wrong.

I once thought again. For every well employed female we see in the corporate organisation, is there a man who lost an opportunity for a job to take care of his family. As women became more educated and entered the workplace, it displaced alot of men. Making life harder for men and relationships tougher for women.

When I speak to a young men today, I advice them to seek careers with less competition i.e Engineering, Medcine, IT, Military, etc.

The further we deviate from the natural order of God. We live to regret it. I still feel women are not wired to work like they do. That's why once the husband is into money I.e politics, sports, entertainment the wives almost certainly go to the default setting of being a house wife regardless of her education.

May God bless the Men with the resources needed to lead thier Homes so it can ease the stress on the wife.

Until theN Hustle.
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by 2dice01: 6:19pm On Nov 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
Lol another few donkeys spotted on this thread!!!

No wonder so many men are taken for a ride with such failed mindset. If your woman has a job and doesn't contribute to the wellbeing of the family, then this woman is useless to the family unit, and any man should get rid of her.

A family is a UNIT, where both daddy and mummy will do their everything to better the family. If a man does everything while a woman doesn't then why should they be called husband and wife?! She is just a maid/cook and walking womb....aka a family employee.

That above man is just one of the deluded low self esteem men who use money to control women.
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