Please don't bash me... I be una person.



I have this guy I am dating for 2 years now. I met him via a friend in Uyo. I was a virgin then when I met him. We always talk about marriage almost everytime.

I am still 28 years old, I had sex with his brother for about 3ice. I confessed to him without him knowing cos I was feeling guilty. Now it's 3 months after, he's still showing me love but his thirst for sex is now overboard.


Please nairalanders, do you think he can marry me?. If he eventually did, what about my shameful act with his brother. Please help.

Insult is welcome. But make sure your opinion is posted. Kindly don't send to FP please.

Wait:

His brother disflowered you while dating him?

Move on, move on, move on.....

wetin go happen if him come marry u? u go Bleep his father plus the whole community be that na.

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Naira land n stories lyk dis are like beans n rice

Somebody help me with the picture of an Hoe please

bukatyne:
Wait:

His brother disflowered you while dating him?

Move on, move on, move on.....

He was the one who did it. I accept my mistake.

Klass99:
Lol

That relationship is over in his mind, he is only using you for sex and will discard you when he wants.

Men do not forgive the infidelity of a woman, what's worse you did it with his brother!

Will you marry yourself, after what you've done?

That guy won't marry you, you're too old to be asking this kind of question and displaying naivety like this nah aunty

You have said it all Bros.

Drops Mic.

Do you know what it takes to have sex thrice with someone? Were you trying to double date with his brother or what?

Maybe you should be with the brother (who I'm sure only had you for a fling), and trust me if him and the brother are very close and they have a mother eh.. Just forget marriage. Forget that you were a virgin.

And don't even use the it was a mistake slogan.

Once is a mistake, twice is a desire, three times na witchcraft and plan work.

Klass99:
Lol

That relationship is over in his mind, he is only using you for sex and will discard you when he wants.

Men do not forgive the infidelity of a woman, what's worse you did it with his brother!

Will you marry yourself, after what you've done?

That guy won't marry you, you're too old to be asking this kind of question and displaying naivety like this nah aunty

Thanks for your input. I sensed this, I am only trying to be sure.

Here we go! Commenting cause we are less busy. Lol.

1) His brother is not nice.
2) You are not nice.
3) You and "your guy" are now sex mates.
4) He is using you to satisfy his cravings while waiting for his Miss Right.
5) Well, you can also use him to satisfy yours while waiting for your Mr Right and hoping you don't sleep with his (Mr Right's) father this time.
6) I suggest you move on like someone suggested above cause you might be blocking other men from coming your way. Bedsides, messing around with someone in the absence of love could be dangerous
7) Erase every thought of marriage here. This isn't a movie.

Extra:
Your guy seems like the calm but deadly type. He could have broken up with you at once but that wouldn't be as painful as he would want it so he's deliberately wasting your youthful age and having constant sex with you while at it. He will soon invite you to his wedding and watch you cry while he smiles satisfactorily. As for his brother, that one should watch his back cause his own story might even be more epic.

I could be TOTALLY wrong.

WoundedLamb:
Here we go! Commenting cause we are less busy. Lol.

1) His brother is not nice.
2) You are not nice.
3) You and "your guy" are now sex mates.
4) He is using you to satisfy his cravings while waiting for his Miss Right.
5) Well, you can also use him to satisfy yours while waiting for your Mr Right and hoping you don't sleep with his (Mr Right's) father this time.
6) I suggest you move on like someone suggested above cause you might be blocking other men from coming your way. Bedsides, messing around with someone in the absence of love could be dangerous
7) Erase every thought of marriage here. This isn't a movie.

Extra:
Your guy seems like the calm but deadly type. He could have broken up with you at once but that wouldn't be as painful as he would want it so he's deliberately wasting your youthful age and having constant sex with you while at it. He will soon invite you to his wedding and watch you cry while he smiles satisfactorily. As for his brother, that one should watch his back cause his own story might even be more epic.

I could be TOTALLY wrong.

Appreciate this.

NO, you are not not eligible.

Not possible.. Even if he tells you to marry him,pls don't try it. E get why.. Only d wise will understand...

Count your teeth with your tongue and move on.

Wait, what about the fathe, uncles and junior brothas?! let them sample you too Na!!!

Community toto...

DoubleEngine007:
Not possible.. Even if he tells you to marry him,pls don't try it. E get why.. Only d wise will understand...

Thanks

Samfloxin:
NO, you are not not eligible.

Thanks

Op is a male trying to show that our ladies have lost it finally

FanOfMyself:
Op is a male trying to show that our ladies have lost it finally

This is a serious matter. And very sensitive.

advise1980:




This is a serious matter. And very sensitive.

You can fool them all, but not me.
I am enjoying what you are doing sha.

advise1980:





He was the one who did it. I accept my mistake.

Who? You ex or his brother?

1. Luckily for you there are people who will still want you. #Fact
1b. Outcome of dating (a.k.a sex trade). Women always come out bruised. Just marry or be single.
2. It is a lesson for upcoming "mistake" makers.

bukatyne:


Who? You ex or his brother?

We haven't broken up yet. I am still with him. My BF did.. meaning he's an ex already.


From your wealth of experience. Please how can I gently break up with him without being at fault cos he seems subtle.

advise1980:




We haven't broken up yet. I am still with him. My BF did.. meaning he's an ex already.


From your wealth of experience. Please how can I gently break up with him without being at fault cos he seems subtle.

I don't have wealth of experience in such matters.

It is just common sense to end the relationship.

MrBrownJay1:
Wait, what about the fathe, uncles and junior brothas?! let them sample you too Na!!!

Community toto...

Haba!!! This comment is not necessary....

bukatyne:


I don't have wealth of experience in such matters.

It is just common sense to end the relationship.

So sorry for my word. I haven't broken up with any man before, unless they did.

What do I tell him without hurting his feelings.

bukatyne:


I don't have wealth of experience in such matters.

It is just common sense to end the relationship.

advise1980:




So sorry for my word. I haven't broken up with any man before, unless they did.

What do I tell him without hurting his feelings.

Tell him the relationship can't continue because the trust has been tampered with. Simple!

bukatyne:


I don't have wealth of experience in such matters.

It is just common sense to end the relationship.

Your words in bold made me laugh out loud.

mariahAngel:


Tell him the relationship can't continue because the trust has been tampered with. Simple!

Thanks.... You all just saved a soul .....