Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,676,017 members, 6,295,640 topics. Date: Wednesday, 19 May 2021 at 12:31 AM

I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her (355 Views)

If Your Woman Does These Things...leave Her. / I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ / South African Woman States Why Men Don't Want To Leave Her Alone (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by Slimtuns(m): 9:31pm On Sep 13, 2020
Evening Nairanlanders,

Okay so there's this girl in my hood, we started with the brother-sister relationship. Then she started giving me greenlight. It was so obvious to everyone she was into me, we got really close that I couldn't help but ask her out (just to have fun) and as expected, she accepted. While dating, it was as though she was the only one in the relationship cos I hardly gave her my attention. She is the kind of girl every man would want to have as a partner, she's so caring, loving, not demanding and respectful.

Like 5 months ago, something serious happened to me that totally wrecked the little attention I used to give her. That made me decide to end things with her although I didn't tell her it was over myself, but my attitude made her decide she could no longer endure the pains I was making her go through. It wasn't easy for her tho but she decided to be strong. For those 5 months, I'd be lying if I said I didn't think of her but the feeling, I can't explain. Last week I called her to talk about everything that happened between us and probably end things on a good note but I just couldn't say I'm done for real. I feel throughout the relationship, I wasn't sincere with her, I feel I took advantage of the love she had for me.

Now we're talking about getting back together but she needs me to commit myself to the relationship this time, she needs me to have time for her but still, I don't feel a genuine love for her. I also wanna love but my mind is just so stuffed that I'm not sure I will be able to give her the true love she deserves. Telling her the relationship can't continue as well will hurt her deeply, although she acts like that wouldn't hurt her but I know it would.

What should I do? Can I really learn how to love her? Kindly give me some advice..
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by dingbang(m): 9:33pm On Sep 13, 2020
Yawns. Can she come online too so we can read her side of the story
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by Degrezhaa: 9:34pm On Sep 13, 2020
Let the elders come first
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by Samakus(m): 9:37pm On Sep 13, 2020
This was so me.

Emphasis on was.


Before I gave my life to Christ and exhausted all bleeps remaining for girls
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by Nobody: 9:51pm On Sep 13, 2020
Take some red pills and stop being a simp weak man bro
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by donbachi(m): 10:01pm On Sep 13, 2020
dingbang:
Yawns. Can she come online too so we can read her side of the story
wetin him sey happen sef?
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by Slimtuns(m): 10:10pm On Sep 13, 2020
collinsuchendu:
Take some red pills and stop being a simp weak man bro

Simps flock around girls that don't give a EFF about them, that ain't me bro
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by Odion2016(m): 10:13pm On Sep 13, 2020
The cookie jar is good!!
Re: I Don't Feel Genuine Love For Her Yet I Don't Wanna Leave Her by phazotron(m): 10:54pm On Sep 13, 2020
Slimtuns:
Evening Nairanlanders,

Okay so there's this girl in my hood, we started with the brother-sister relationship. Then she started giving me greenlight. It was so obvious to everyone she was into me, we got really close that I couldn't help but ask her out (just to have fun) and as expected, she accepted. While dating, it was as though she was the only one in the relationship cos I hardly gave her my attention. She is the kind of girl every man would want to have as a partner, she's so caring, loving, not demanding and respectful.

Like 5 months ago, something serious happened to me that totally wrecked the little attention I used to give her. That made me decide to end things with her although I didn't tell her it was over myself, but my attitude made her decide she could no longer endure the pains I was making her go through. It wasn't easy for her tho but she decided to be strong. For those 5 months, I'd be lying if I said I didn't think of her but the feeling, I can't explain. Last week I called her to talk about everything that happened between us and probably end things on a good note but I just couldn't say I'm done for real. I feel throughout the relationship, I wasn't sincere with her, I feel I took advantage of the love she had for me.

Now we're talking about getting back together but she needs me to commit myself to the relationship this time, she needs me to have time for her but still, I don't feel a genuine love for her. I also wanna love but my mind is just so stuffed that I'm not sure I will be able to give her the true love she deserves. Telling her the relationship can't continue as well will hurt her deeply, although she acts like that wouldn't hurt her but I know it would.

What should I do? Can I really learn how to love her? Kindly give me some advice..


Try get time for madam nau

If she give u another chance make it work

God works in mysterious ways

(1) (Reply)

Any Lady Ready For Phone S_e_x This Night / Sperm Analysis Calculator / I Need A Mature Woman To Marry

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2021 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 54
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.