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Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by kramacc: 2:07am On Sep 15
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by tetula123(m): 2:11am On Sep 15
No proof so until you have one don’t report to your dad.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Starlight10: 2:16am On Sep 15
Dont be unfortunate, better shut your mouth or cut it off

Modified**** Nigeria is hard now, you should pray to survive the economic hardship and become successful in life, but if you choose to be doing midnight prayer and fasting on top mountain because of what the pastor will call Powers from your fathers house go ahead and listen to the sabi sabi people here. Dont play with your destiny because even real pastors to deliver you when the time comes no dey like that.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Youngpo413: 2:23am On Sep 15
Lol,even if you tell your Dad,he won't be surprise cuz every sane man knows what nowadays ladies are capable of.....mind ur business!

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Youngpo413: 2:29am On Sep 15
Starlight10:
Dont be unfortunate, better shut your mouth or cut it off
Na so!

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by daddytime(m): 2:39am On Sep 15
This is a very tricky and dicey situation.

Just imagine you telling your dad and he'd be like " yeah, I know. We are on a swap deal or testing each other's wives because I do exactly the same with his wife while he is here with your step mum. It is just a game we both have been playing and used to as friends".

How you go feel if your papa tell you the above?

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by NobleAngell(f): 2:41am On Sep 15
How close are you with your dad?
You really need to get wisdom from God because you never can tell what the outcome might be.

1) You can choose to keep your mouth shut meanwhile dropping hints for them that you're aware, your step mom will then decide to kill you or your dad before you get the chance to say what you know.
2) Or she might decide to beat you to your game by setting you up and causing tension between your dad and you. After making you leave the house for good, she'll kill your dad and marry the man.
3) You may also act like you don't know what the hellll is going on, and then give them landslide victory. You'll still die in this case.

So if you're dying in all three cases, why not make sure she has it tough. Because trust me, a cheating wife can get to any length. She will kill anyone that stands in the way.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Akanoaaa(m): 2:49am On Sep 15
Starlight10:
Dont be unfortunate, better shut your mouth or cut it off


So that the woman can kill his dad abi? You get sense so? The woman wey dey do rubbish, if she no kill herself she go kill her husband. @op, don't tell your dad yet, wait till you get solid evidence.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by DaddyRochie1642(f): 3:08am On Sep 15
That's how people get poisoned and Killed for not Minding their BUSINESS grin

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Starlight10: 3:13am On Sep 15
Akanoaaa:



So that the woman can kill his dad abi? You get sense so? The woman wey dey do rubbish, if she no kill herself she go kill her husband. @op, don't tell your dad yet, wait till you get solid evidence.
i laugh in evidence, a woman that comfortably brings a man home to cheat on her husband with him is not ordinary, he better keep quiet and enjoy his future, a step mum is more dangerous than a tiger when provoked. He should better keep quiet. This is not his business unless someone else tell the father and when the matter is in the open then he can be a wittness, which is still very risky.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by linearity: 3:15am On Sep 15
So, what evidence do you have to report to your Dad now?

All yo u have now is, you met the man one day in your house and he was behaving ‘one kind’ and you stop greeting him and he did not complain and after that, he stop coming to your house....then there is the other heresay from someone else, who observe that they are too close...

Put yourself in your father’s and receiving the above report from a child you have sent to school to at least be educated and become literate, wouldn’t you be disappointed in that child?

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by yomi007k(m): 4:18am On Sep 15


I have noticed that most females on this thread are talking about death.


Could it be that they have been cheating on and killing men in the past?


Food For Thought.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by 777romanon: 4:29am On Sep 15
hmm, shit happens
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by J111333(m): 5:04am On Sep 15
Get proof before talking to your father about that and until then, pretend not to have noticed anything oo for your safety.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Kobicove(m): 5:06am On Sep 15
The fact is that you have no evidence therefore your case is still very weak undecided

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by amiibaby(f): 5:39am On Sep 15
Mind ur biz

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by kenodrill: 6:15am On Sep 15
amiibaby:
Mind ur biz






Ami how are you doing
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by DaudaTheSexyGuy: 6:17am On Sep 15
@ Kramacc what makes you think your father does not know already?

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Blackmann001: 7:11am On Sep 15
amiibaby:
Mind ur biz

That's all u can say..? For even her biological father...or do you not know it can lead to her dad's death..?

Dear, try and think next time b4 you talk

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by amiibaby(f): 7:23am On Sep 15
I have said my mind why not say urs and stop sliding into my mention. Mend u, the guy came for advise why not give urs and move on mr
Blackmann001:


That's all u can say..? For even her biological father...or do you not know it can lead to her dad's death..?

Dear, try and think next time b4 you talk

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by amiibaby(f): 7:23am On Sep 15
Fine
kenodrill:







Ami how are you doing

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Quality20(m): 7:24am On Sep 15
Abeg tell ya dad, u want them to plot ya dad or infect h with evil diseases ni?

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by kenodrill: 7:25am On Sep 15
amiibaby:
Fine





Good to know.I trust you had a peaceful sleep.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by amiibaby(f): 7:26am On Sep 15
I did and you
kenodrill:






Good to know.I trust you had a peaceful sleep.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by padi94(m): 7:30am On Sep 15
Well people cheat everywhere in the world, your father married her for a reason, maybe becos she cheats less than the other women he has been with, so Mind Your Business. And besides if your dad wanted your opinion, he would create an environment conducive enough for people to tell him things without fear.

This is a lesson to all men of all ages, if you don't want to be oblivious make people comfortable enough to approach you and tell you things they find that's good for you and that's harmful to you as well.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by kenodrill: 7:32am On Sep 15
amiibaby:
I did and you




Good to know..same here.



Please can i've your email address? 'Ve a vital info for you.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by amiibaby(f): 7:38am On Sep 15
U can slide in
kenodrill:





Good to know..same here.



Please can i've your email address? 'Ve a vital info for you.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Liposure(m): 7:49am On Sep 15
If i were you i will warn your dad. Better prepared than never

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by kenodrill: 7:58am On Sep 15
amiibaby:
U can slide in







Pls flash me if you can.zero eight one three double four seven six seven one five.thanks
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by merieam16(f): 8:14am On Sep 15
Ur dad will never believe u. He would say if it was ur mom would u have told him

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