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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Teeboi56: 8:52pm On Sep 15, 2020
What are u waiting for
Tell him b4 u loose ur father
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by tellwisdom: 8:52pm On Sep 15, 2020
Starlight10:
Dont be unfortunate, better shut your mouth or cut it off

[s]Modified**** Nigeria is hard now, you should pray to survive the economic hardship and become successful in life, but if you choose to be doing midnight prayer and fasting on top mountain because of what the pastor will call Powers from your fathers house go ahead and listen to the sabi sabi people here. Dont play with your destiny because even real pastors to deliver you when the time comes no dey like that[/s].

Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by pweetiedee(m): 9:11pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.

There is one mad man in my hometown.

Rumors have it that he told his dad about his cheating step mom. In fact, he caught her in the act and packed her cloths and that of her lover. Exposed her and all...


He is picking paper and sleeping in the gutter now. Rumors have it that the woman revenged.

Would you tell your mom or step mom about your cheating dad?
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by ehinmowo: 9:14pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.

Don't try it. You don't have proof. All you have is assumption. If you want to get proof, you need to do a little more. Use technologies. Don't ask me how to use technologies. Internet is your friend.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by SeekHim: 9:50pm On Sep 15, 2020
A-Acknowledge the fact that you are a sinner and that you cannot save yourself. Psalms 51: 5
B- Believe that it is only Jesus that can save you. Romans 10:10, Acts 4: 12
C- Confess your sins, repent from them and be converted (Never go back to them). Romans 10: 9. Call upon Jesus to forgive you and be saved today (Romans 10:13).

Follow these steps now please! Tomorrow may be too late! Death may come, Rapture may take place before you act! Don't delay!!!
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by coolcare(m): 10:08pm On Sep 15, 2020
tetula123:
No proof so until you have one don’t report to your dad.

This comment it shot but I'd the truth you have to stick with. When no prove it doesn't happen. Be at peace ✌️
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by ojonugba2014(m): 10:45pm On Sep 15, 2020
Mind your business if you really want to live long. Cheers
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by DedeNkem: 10:51pm On Sep 15, 2020
If you love your Dad, you have to tell him exactly what happened. He deserves to know! Cheating hardly ends well, especially, when it causes death.

That woman has neither respect for your Dad nor the marriage! And I'm sure she has no respect for you too! So why "respect" her by keeping her cheating secret? It makes absolutely no sense to do so!

Ask yourself this, would your Dad not tell you if he knows your (future wife) cheats on you!

You must save your Dad from this terrible woman, by informing him.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by victme1(m): 1:58am On Sep 16, 2020
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]Do a little detective work. Get Concrete evidence. If possible goggle and buy this spy cameras from jumia, konga, etc and install around the house.

Don't get caught sha. Post the videos on porn sites to make money and recover your investments. Also make sure you send some of the video to your Dad anonymously.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by cooltola(m): 2:48am On Sep 16, 2020
Abeg tell, adultery is ground for divorce. Do not listen to those who are telling you to mind your business. If it was a coworker, i would have said mind your business but this is your papa. You are his flesh and blood so your papa business is your business
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Evercurious(f): 3:53am On Sep 16, 2020
amiibaby:
Mind ur biz

How? But that's his dad ..
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by linearity: 4:08am On Sep 16, 2020
Xandelle:


No I will not be disappointed in the child. I'll instead ask my wife what another man comes to do in my house when people are gone. You are the one that should be disappointed in yourself.

Who ask you Busybody, you bi the OP...lockdown don over, go find beta work do!
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Youngsenate1993(m): 4:47am On Sep 16, 2020
Abeg if u have a stepmother, gather here let's warn this child to be careful
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Youngsenate1993(m): 4:52am On Sep 16, 2020
victme1:
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]Do a little detective work. Get Concrete evidence. If possible goggle and buy this spy cameras from jumia, konga, etc and install around the house.

Don't get caught sha. Post the videos on porn sites to make money and recover your investments. Also make sure you send some of the video to your Dad anonymously.
lol u forgot to tell him to at least write his obituary before venturing into such..... cause no stepmother will spare u if u are cut
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by AK481(m): 5:56am On Sep 16, 2020
padi94:
Well people cheat everywhere in the world, your father married her for a reason, maybe becos she cheats less than the other women he has been with, so Mind Your Business. And besides if your dad wanted your opinion, he would create an environment conducive enough for people to tell him things without fear.

This is a lesson to all men of all ages, if you don't want to be oblivious make people comfortable enough to approach you and tell you things they find that's good for you and that's harmful to you as well.
Mind your business ?

And him papa go carry HIV ?
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by PeachtreeReside(f): 6:53am On Sep 16, 2020
Anonymously tell your dad.

I wish you hadn't stopped greeting the guy so you won't be suspect.


Open an anonymous mail and ask him to be extra careful.


If yout stepmom kills your dad, you won't forgive yourself.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by OhiOfIhima: 9:16am On Sep 16, 2020
If you are matured enough, there is a way of bring ur Dad into the play. Like Telling him "Dad I don't like d closeness of the said man to my stepmom, think about it" A reasonable Dad will swing into. action codedly.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by beebe007: 10:56am On Sep 16, 2020
you can only say anything to your dad on condition of relativity between you and your dad, or between your dad and your mum.

cus he may think you are paving ways for your mum to gain more Access to him or you are for your mum than he himself.
wish you good luck.�
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by lagosrd: 12:58pm On Sep 16, 2020
Tell your fathers siblings and they will use wisdom to catch her
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by divineappo(m): 8:13am On Sep 17, 2020
yomi007k:

I have noticed that most females on this thread are talking about death.

Could it be that they have been cheating on and killing men in the past?

Food For Thought.
u read my mind
some ladies on Nairaland are evil
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by stacyadams: 5:20pm On Sep 17, 2020
Teeboi56:
What are u waiting for
Tell him b4 u loose ur father
grin grin grin telling d dad is not d problem..the dad may be aware, ,but.the grin step mom fit don turn d man to vegetable grin grin

Men Dey go carry ojuju calabar /idol in d name of marriage

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