ukaface:
Obey, as in submissive wife.

Hope the man would obey too,it goes both ways right?

Oooohhh........There's nothing like submissive husband right

I wrote something similar on my WhatsApp status of recent. Wife are not meant to be submissive to husband and husband showing love.
Husband are to respect their wife and wife show love. The aspect of women submitting shows they have nothing to offer apart from sex and men showing love try to please women with everything.
Ive said it several times that our ancestor did not really do well with some tradition.
Some girl I've met want me to please their broke ass to prove my self. It look dumb to me but I see many guys do what I've refuse to do. God help our mentality

Looool...baba couldn't even force her to say it. He knows better

oluseyiforjesus:
White people will always be sincere
She can't obey someone who is her last born mate na

My question is:
God created Adam n Eve white, where did we now see dis black skin dat has reflect in our heart

If we have answer to ds question let's start solving our problems from there.....

Adam and eve were not white.

A Black man can become white through bleaching, skin diseases and even acute leprosy (as noted in the bible that turns People's skin to milk colour).

A white man cannot become black through any means whatsoever, even though he exposes himself under the sun 24/7, his skin will only get burnt and redden.

A black man can beget a white child due to a melanin deficiency. But a white man cannot beget a black child because he and his spouse dont have the genetics to produce menalin in the first place. One cannot give what he doesn't have.

The question that should be easier to get an answer would be how did the white man come about?

Is this real abi a movie?
Cos it looks � like the movie WEDDING PARTY

This the reason why u need to marry someone you share the same culture with

Sososo:
why not, if she is not ready to submit why go into marriage? Anyways she married a toyboy

What do mean by submission. So husband are not meant to submit? Let's stop all this kind of mentality submission is meant for broke women . understanding is key not submission

Timi141:
Nigerians gan sef, which one is to love and obey?

Marriage is not slavery oo. It is to love and cherish. If you are looking for unconditional love and obedience you better get a dog.

Seriously, what is the use of marrying someone that won't challenge you and make you grow into a better person. You'll just put a yes man in your house.

Gbam

I thought this was a movie o. Haha...anyways i hope it ended well

Timi141:
Nigerians gan sef, which one is to love and obey?

Marriage is not slavery oo. It is to love and cherish. If you are looking for unconditional love and obedience you better get a dog.

Seriously, what is the use of marrying someone that won't challenge you and make you grow into a better person. You'll just put a yes man in your house.

Obey before complain !

tollyboy5:

What do mean by submission. So husband are not meant to submit? Let's stop all this kind of mentality submission is meant for broke women . understanding is key not submission

The wife that submitted totally ended up being killed by her pastor husband

She's a white woman and knows it's not her duty to obey but to love and respect.
Nairaland guys will laugh and yab the man. But had it been a black lady, they'll start heaping curses on their ancestors who didn't allow themselves be enslaved and taken to America on a ship!

Me thinks she was teasing him and he knew it for what it was. Probably a shared joke between them.
That said, that "obey" part is a no-no for me.
Democratic unions all the way, marriage of the couple, by the couple and for the couple. Bound by the same terms and conditions.

Nairaland guys hope una dey see?

Sososo:
why not, if she is not ready to submit why go into marriage? Anyways she married a toyboy

Exactly! Its a free world. Michael was not forced to marry her. She's allowed to have a toyboy. Michael is her bìtch! Trophy husband. Its a free world.

oluseyiforjesus:
White people will always be sincere
She can't obey someone who is her last born mate na

My question is:
God created Adam n Eve white, where did we now see dis black skin dat has reflect in our heart

If we have answer to ds question let's start solving our problems from there.....

How did u know Adam and Eve were whites

Kobicove:
That's why it's always advisable to marry someone with whom you share some cultural affinity

See why Nigerian guys will still come back and swallow their words and marry the Nigerian ladies they so bad mouthed and criticized...especially those ones on this forum.

Timi141:
Nigerians gan sef, which one is to love and obey?

Marriage is not slavery oo. It is to love and cherish. If you are looking for unconditional love and obedience you better get a dog.

Seriously, what is the use of marrying someone that won't challenge you and make you grow into a better person. You'll just put a yes man in your house.

I thought the vows were to love and to cherish. I don't know who sent the Pastor

Chii59:
She's a white woman and knows it's not her duty to obey but to love and respect.
Nairaland guys will laugh and yab the man. But had it been a black lady, they'll start heaping curses on their ancestors that didn't allow themselves be enslaved and taken to America on a ship!

Don't mind premitive men looking for intimacy gadgets. But our women share the same mentality how could you see yourself fit for husband when you don't have certificate or handwork or some little working business all you do is snap and slay and open legs for highest bidders.
I'm enjoying jobless ladies like that sha. But the mentality is very bad!

LadySarah:


Cc:Ishilove, pocochantas, they have started shifting the goal post. It snt team Foreign girls anymore.

Lol.

Are you sure you're quoting the right person.

I have never in my life whether on Nairaland or elsewhere encouraged a Nigerian to marry a foreign lady!

tollyboy5:

Don't mind premitive men looking for intimacy gadgets. But our women share the same mentality how could you see yourself fit for husband when you don't have certificate or handwork or some little working business all you do is snap and slay and open legs for highest bidders.
I'm enjoying jobless ladies like that sha. But the mentality is very bad!

This is not about joblessness but the wordings on the wedding vow. Why is a woman required to obey while the man isn't?
Love and respect should be replaced with obedience and submission. A lot of young men are obsessed with submission. And only a slave is required to obey, no questions asked.

lielbree:


Exactly! Its a free world. Michael was not forced to marry her. She's allowed to have a toyboy. Michael is her bìtch! Trophy husband. Its a free world.

See as e dey pain you. Is he complaining?

Abeg. What has the west got to teach us about marriage in Africa Can you tell me? 50 percent of marriages in U.S end up of in divorce. Marriage success for them is worse than flipping a coin. Yet they know how to demarket our own system and feel their media can teach us about marriage? GTFOH.

Yes "to love and to obey" that is how we do it down here, if she doesn't like that should go and marry a white man. But they skipped the part where the man say "to always provide" abi.

In Nigeria the divorce rate is less than 1%. Granted a lot of people are suffering and smiling but don't forget that in Nigeria, there is no social system to cater for the children in a divorce

PLEASE LEAVE OUR SYSTEM FOR US. It must have been working to be 1% divorce rate. The marriage vows are reflective of our culture. Chikena. 1% to 50 % is a HUGE difference.

Kobicove:


Are you sure you're quoting the right person.

I have never in my life whether on Nairaland or elsewhere encouraged a Nigerian to marry a foreign lady!

It wasn't for you. Sorry.

oluseyiforjesus:
White people will always be sincere
She can't obey someone who is her last born mate na

My question is:
God created Adam n Eve white, where did we now see dis black skin dat has reflect in our heart

If we have answer to ds question let's start solving our problems from there.....

There is a lot you need to know. Please go and find out the meaning of Adam. Adam was not created White. it is genetically impossible for White to produce black. Black can give rise to every other colour.

For your information: Adam is not a name. it is a description. It means RED EARTH. Now reason this fact and you'll find out Adam's colour was dark.

Enjoy your day.

Sirmwill:

Mrs Angela cannot follow Nigerian terms of marriage na...
We know the meaning of that laughter
It means Michael is the one that will be doing breakfast for the kids,doing their laundry,taking them to school,coming back home to sweep the whole house,wash toilet,mop the rooms,sweep the whole house again,cook breakfast for Angela and then dinner for the Kids then Wake up Angela to come and eat

Who is feeling me?

What kids..she's past that already ...na so my guy become potential American citizen

iswallker:


We assume they are white since the event didn't take place in my village.

Who is we?

Obey ko, Sunny Ade ni

Chii59:

See as e dey pain you. Is he complaining?

Pain me say wetin happen? As a woman I find it empowering. When men marry their grand daughter because they have money, why can't a woman do say?

oluseyiforjesus:
White people will always be sincere
She can't obey someone who is her last born mate na

My question is:
God created Adam n Eve white, where did we now see dis black skin dat has reflect in our heart

If we have answer to ds question let's start solving our problems from there.....

Jush cause you have data dosent mean you should be spewing rubbish. If you hate ur skin you can always do the needful.

lielbree:


Pain me say wetin happen? As a woman I find it empowering. When men marry their grand daughter because they have money, why can't a woman do say?

I feel ya pain brah. E go beta

tollyboy5:

What do mean by submission. So husband are not meant to submit? Let's stop all this kind of mentality submission is meant for broke women . understanding is key not submission

women are meant to submit then men love.
Submission is for real, confident and strong women.

Submission is not cowardice or zombiesim

Submission has to be initiated by love.

When a man truly loves a woman she submits effortlessly.

You harsh o!

Sirmwill:

Mrs Angela cannot follow Nigerian terms of marriage na...
We know the meaning of that laughter
It means Michael is the one that will be doing breakfast for the kids,doing their laundry,taking them to school,coming back home to sweep the whole house,wash toilet,mop the rooms,sweep the whole house again,cook breakfast for Angela and then dinner for the Kids then Wake up Angela to come and eat

Who is feeling me?