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Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:03am On Sep 16
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by mariahAngel: 9:04am On Sep 16
First of all, don't listen to those who will come to tell you masturbation is not a problem.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by properties4sale: 9:07am On Sep 16
Mine is for the past 20 years, itself really a very big problem. It destroys your sex life.. like it kills it; poor erection. You cannot have normal sex with girls. It's bad.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ghost8889: 9:08am On Sep 16
First of all, your English isn't bad, and you are a good writer smiley

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:09am On Sep 16
I can't even talk to a girl anymore I feel I'm not man enough , its a big problem . I do pray I get out of it soon before I took late

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Slawormir: 9:11am On Sep 16
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....

First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 9:11am On Sep 16
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:11am On Sep 16
mariahAngel:
First of all, don't listen to those who will come to tell you masturbation is not a problem.
I don't even listen to such. No one can come up and tell me mastubation is not a problem .its demonic and its evil

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by motionarena: 9:12am On Sep 16
If your right hand causes you to sin cut it off.

You get d jerk wink

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ghost8889: 9:13am On Sep 16
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Abouwaza(m): 9:13am On Sep 16
26 years here bro

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:13am On Sep 16
lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.
I'm desperate to get out of this soon ....I believe I would have to open up to my parents and let them know what I have been going through . cause this is getting me so depressed a lot , I'm still in my teenage age , I'm just 23 and I'm still young to face a this , is better I out a stop to it since I have come to realization.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:14am On Sep 16
Abouwaza:
26 years here bro
For real!!!

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Bighenzzy(m): 9:15am On Sep 16
I don't even know what to say, all I know is that masturbation issa bad something

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:16am On Sep 16
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...
The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...
Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God
I have been following up cases like this for over the years here in nairialand ....most people would say masturbation is healthy and it isn't a since ..for me that's a big lie , masturbation can destroy someone pemenetly .....its a big sin...

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by TarOrfeeek: 9:17am On Sep 16
Don't break your chicken sha
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:18am On Sep 16
:
TarOrfeeek:


Don't break your chicken sha
grin grin grin
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by IkwerrePikin: 9:18am On Sep 16
Do females who are addicted to masturbation also have this issue of sexual satisfaction when with a man?

Is it only the males who masturbate alot that suffer from poor erection and inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman?

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Abouwaza(m): 9:18am On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:

For real!!!
Haha

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ghost8889: 9:20am On Sep 16
lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.

But what if the person doesn't get his urges back, it sucks ಠಿ_ಠಿ

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 9:20am On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:

I'm desperate to get out of this soon ....I believe I would have to open up to my parents and let them know what I have been going through . cause this is getting me so depressed a lot , I'm still in my teenage age , I'm just 23 and I'm still young to face a this , is better I out a stop to it since I have come to realization.
Ok meet a good pharmacist, those big ones and ask for antitestereone, some wont give you without prescription, but if you explain to them they will, or just talk with a doctor so they will give you the right prescription (not public hospital) ask them so they can give you a prescription, and also if you have time you can see a therapist so you don't go back to it.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by madampresident(f): 9:21am On Sep 16
The only reason you're struggling with masturbation is because you see it as a very big deal. You masturbate and the devil sells you guilt.

This is not God now. Take away the guilt. Enjoy your masturbation and watch yourself lose memory to masturbation.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by UDUJ(m): 9:21am On Sep 16
Abouwaza:
26 years here bro

26 years shocked shocked shocked

Your hands muscles must be fully developed now cheesy grin cheesy

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 9:23am On Sep 16
Ghost8889:


But what if the person doesn't get his urges back, it sucks ಠಿ_ಠಿ

Is that not a good thing, personally i would like that. But most cases after stoping the drugs the urges come back but very much lower than it was before

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ghost8889: 9:24am On Sep 16
IkwerrePikin:
Do females who are addicted to masturbation also have this issue of sexual satisfaction when with a man?

Is it only the males who masturbate alot that suffer from poor erection and inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman?

Masturbating has nothing to do with poor erection or inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ghost8889: 9:25am On Sep 16
lightangel65i:


Is that not a good thing, personally i would like that. But most cases after stoping the drugs the urges come back but very much lower than it was before

It sucks...
I don't want anything to tamper with my sexual urges

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 9:25am On Sep 16
IkwerrePikin:
Do females who are addicted to masturbation also have this issue of sexual satisfaction when with a man?

Is it only the males who masturbate alot that suffer from poor erection and inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman?

There is no side effect to female masturbation only that they would prefer masturbation to sex.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Uzomacharles: 9:25am On Sep 16
Masturbation Na Bleep Up....
Avoid Watching Porn And Avoid Being Alone...
Watch Christian Related Videos Were Pornography isnt displayed

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by DICKstractor(m): 9:28am On Sep 16
shocked

What I'll tell you might sound vulgar but it's the fastest way of quitting

You can cut your masturbation hand or you separate your dick from your body
Read Matthew 5 VS 29-30

Meanwhile

1) To quit, you must have a strong conviction that you ready to take the bold step. Conviction not just by words but by action

2) It won't be easy. For a start, you must try to limit the number of times you masturbate in a day. If you masturbate 3times a day, you can try reducing it to 2. As time goes on one.

3) Try channeling the masturbation energy in doing productive thing. Anytime the urge comes and you are alone, you can invite some friends over to spend time with you or you can go out to the public. Try not to be alone so that you won't have the thought crossing your mind.

4) Sometimes, it takes an addiction to beat another addiction. You can substitute the time you give to masturbation to another positive addiction. You can go play video games, play football, go clubbing. Do something that you can get addicted to


I think there is a tread here in nairaland that helps people overcome masturbation. You can find out and join them. You'll see fellow masturbators there pushing themselves beyond limit

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 9:29am On Sep 16
Ghost8889:

It sucks...
I don't want anything to tamper with my sexual urges

You need to join my empowerment group, getting rid of your sexual urges as a man is a step towards a better life, it may be hard for you now, but when its gone its a blessing

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by CAPSLOCKED: 9:30am On Sep 16
WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE?

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:31am On Sep 16
motionarena:
If your right hand causes you to sin cut it off.

You get d jerk wink
Yes

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